2007-01-24 20:36:03 · 10 answers · asked by sarsor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
loving u has nothing to do with going out alone... he loves u since he engaged u and choosed u... so he loves u 100% sure ;-)
2007-01-27 20:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by Skimmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you want more one and one time with your fiancé. I don't know the ages of you too, so it is difficult to see where you two are in life.
I am going to guess that both of you are +/-25?
If so, he may feel that he needs friends for security, and he may not be ready for a serious relationship yet. A one-on-one relationship will require both people to pay attention to each other, communicate with each other, find common ground, and be able to be open and secure with each other to discuss anything.
This is worth repeating. BOTH of you MUST be able to have direct, open, and honest communication with each other. Approaching each other in a tactful, caring and loving way tends to get more positive responses. If you don’t have this, no relationship will work.
I am also hearing that you may feel a little insecure about whether he loves you? I don't know what makes you feel this way, except that maybe you feel that by him not paying direct and personal attention may make you feel that your needs are not being met.
Try setting a couple nights a week, or at least 1 night that is solely dedicated to each other. Some people have called this “date night.” You both need to be able to give time and show affection and dedication to each other if a relationship is to work.
I highly suggest premarital counseling in your area.
2007-01-25 05:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by Net Advisor™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you mean go out alone? Who else is draggin with you? Ask him what is going on and why you always have a tail? See what is up. Thats the only way to find out if thats a coincidence or he is just not really having fun with you when you go out one on one. Talk to him....believe me thats the only problem solver. Other then that so far we cant comment on anything.....you dont have enough story.
2007-01-25 04:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he / she doesnt love u, how can he/she agrees to be ur fiancee ?
rarely got out alone or not is not important yet his/her love is not measure by how often u go out together or with his/her friends...only u know he/she loves u or not...trust urself for choosing as ur fiancee
2007-01-25 04:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by sil3nt_h3art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is not the measure of love. there's many reason about that aside from love. if you love her, make a move to make you closer together.
2007-01-25 04:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find a moment when u are alone and ask him or may be send him a message
2007-01-25 04:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by stranger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out from his actions. that is the only way.
read these articles about men-
http://www.yourromanceguide.com/articles/for-women/
2007-01-25 04:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by kingoftheworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you hang out with him and his friends ,doesnt mean that he doesnt love you....at least he takes you with you...l know a lot of guys that leave their gfs at home to hang out with friends...so consider yourself lucky !!!!
2007-01-25 04:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are lucky
2007-01-25 04:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask zidane to headbutt you!
2007-01-25 04:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋