the problem is i am REALLY VERY SHY.....nd she is outgoing type of a person.........so i just dunno how to tell her my feelings...............we travel by the same bus back 2 home after college.....nd tlk like normally.....nt a lot!!!..
nd i also think she atleast likes me(jz guessin......)....coz in a day or 2 she teases me like playfully....if i say sumthing wrong accidently....or sumthing like that!!!!!but thats jz guessin...the thing is i really luv her nd would atleast like to tell her all that!!....pls help me..wat to do?
2007-01-24 20:57:24 · 13 answers · asked by 4_d_soul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shud i tell her my feelings 4 d first time by going to her personally or giv her in writing as i hav written a letter 4 her describing my feelings.....so wat shud be my first move??
2007-01-25 03:37:39 · update #1
Don't go too fast and tell her you love her.. You may scare her... go smooth and act friendly and from there pick it up slowly.. try to start a conversation about things that you guys may have in common... I wish you the best and good luck :)
2007-01-24 21:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by jossu_candelario 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first move should be just to ask her for coffee or dinner. Dont burst out that you love her when you've never really even sat down with her and had a heart to heart conversation. That would scare her off. Start small. Go at her pace....in time if she feels the same way, she'll tell you. :)
2007-02-01 13:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to your question. I don't think there is anything that any of us can tell you to do that will give you an easy way for yout to do what you want. No quick and easy fix...sorry! Honestly, you are only as shy as you let yourself become. If you want to be shy then you are shy...if you decide you don't want to be then stop! So, my advise which wont help you unless you decide to make a change in your life and in YOUR perception of yourself..is to wake up, smell the coffee, gow up, and allow youself to be less shy. Tell her how you feel and let her know you are a bit shy about it. If you don't then you ONLY have yourself to blame.
2007-01-24 21:04:14 · answer #3 · answered by immune01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a pretty gay thing for me to say because i usually don't talk like this but just follow your heart and I'm sure in the end, no matter the results you will be happy with your decision. You gotta take a chance at this or it will never amount to anything.
2007-02-01 19:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...luv has never been easy, has it? hey...even tho u may be a really shy guy, its gr8 that ur able to talk 2 her comfortably. i mean, WOW, u guys talk alot =) !!!! n hey, if she tease u playfully that may be a very gud sign that she's interested. i wud advise u to tell her how u feel...dont say u luv her, coz dat will defnitly scare her. tel her u like her n u wud like to go out with her...but also tell her that if she dznt feel the same, ud still like 2 b friends n it wont be weird 4 u guys. its a win-win situation, gud luck kiddo =)
2007-01-24 21:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 00:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody how shy are you, if you really interested in someone, you should be brave and tell her about how you feel about her. If you don't dare to tell her, you can drop some hints to her and if she understand the hint well she will get it
2007-01-24 22:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SINCE U R A SHY GUY, OK!!! since she is also teasing you, just kiss her lips one at a time. she might asking you after that and tell your her about your feeling.
2007-01-24 21:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you like her and see what happens, she might like you back and is to shy to tell you, even if she is outgoing it doesnt mean she will tell you that she likes you.....dont tell her you love her tho, thats a bit to heavy to start off with.
2007-01-24 22:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by Jess H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KILL HER AND KEEP HER BODY!!! lol jk. talk to her a bit and try to be funny without sayin sumthin stupid. (try not to make it obvious ur tryin to hook up) if she likes u enough she'll start givin u hugs a lot and wantin to talk to u. trust me it works!!!
2007-01-24 21:03:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋