Family & Relationships - 24 January 2007

a few yers ago my boyfriend came home after a night out and was talking on his mobile. when i came downstairs he hung the phone up and switched it off. He said he had done it becuase he was drunk and i was obviously suspicous. i thought it might have been his ex - he swears till he is blue in the face that it was becuase he was drunk and it was just his friend - I just dont believe him though to this day as it happened a few years ago its still bothering me - and it drives him mad to talk about it becuase it so long ago- why didnt he just be honest and why did i stay with him when i thought he was lying ???????

2007-01-24 21:49:27 · 24 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Singles & Dating

i am tired and stressed out about my boyfriend, he is 31 years old i am 29, he has cancer and he has been hospitalised 3 out of 4 weeks, i just want to have a happy relationship with a normal life, can someone tell me what to do? we've lived together for 3 years.

2007-01-24 21:49:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-24 21:46:58 · 22 answers · asked by sensual one 2 in Singles & Dating

Answer this for me to cheer me up,please. I just failed my arithmetic test badly(4/20) and all my classmates are beginning to hate me..treat me as if i dont exist in the class at all..i cant take it anymore. I felt so bad and inferior that I felt like thrashing the convenience store that i went to after school..i dont even have a SINGLE friend in class at all..as all my best friends were scattered over the rest of the classes during last year's streaming exam..what should i do...

2007-01-24 21:46:46 · 22 answers · asked by basshunter_poka 1 in Friends

im in love with a girl but i cant tell if she likes me or not and it isnt any love its one of those that u cant stop thinking about.
i dont know if she likes me or not.this question is for women because they can tell wat do they do...am i correct?

i need desperate help because and know wat to do and i always dream with her and dream about how would i kiss her if we were boyfrieads im desperate i need help and only you other women can help.so please help!!!!!

2007-01-24 21:44:38 · 7 answers · asked by answer man 1 in Singles & Dating

she is goinin around wid a guy 4 past 2 yrs.she was very serious earlier but now she understood that that guy is a gunda.he is 2 rude wid her.he thinks that she is his property and treats her as she is his wife.ma frnd has tried several times to get rid of him but all his attempts have failed.plz suggest what 2 do .(if she goes n tells him frankly abt d situation,that guy will tell evrthin abt thier relationship 2 her orthodox parents,)

2007-01-24 21:44:27 · 3 answers · asked by yp 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex is coming around and i want him back--im pretty sure that anything too obvious will make him freak out and run out of the house, but if it isnt obvious im pretty sure he'll feel in control and want to stay :) ne suggestions ??? <3

2007-01-24 21:44:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went to a club & when i came out of the bathroom i was gonna ask the bartender for some water & some guy turns around & gives me his beer & says but you owe me a dance. he even gave my friend a beer. Then we went to the dancefloor & danced all night & he kept giving me comments & saying how good i was as a dancer & that i was hypnotizing him. He bouht me a second beer too & we danced all night long. he would even hold my hand while walkin to the bar & putting his arm on my hips like we were actually going out. He said he was gonna ask me to dance earlier but he was scared i was gonna say no. while dancing he would actually ask me questions about myself unlke other guys that just dance but dont talk. He kept sayinthat we should hang out again & that i was a cool girl,and got my number. When it was over he helped me fnd my friends, and walked me to my friends car & opened the door for me too. Does he sound like a player,just trying to get some or do you think hes actually interested

2007-01-24 21:42:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 21:42:06 · 11 answers · asked by Josh 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 21:41:16 · 11 answers · asked by afrprince77 2 in Singles & Dating

Like, the initial stages when someone looks at you from across the room/street/shop etc? I just cringe up and look down. I have lost loads of opportunities because of this. But the whole thing seems really cringy to me. Are you supposed to look and smile at the person? Does anyone else find this impossibily embarrassing?

2007-01-24 21:41:02 · 15 answers · asked by Peace 2 in Singles & Dating

I'll have to ask the priest and the rabbi about that. That is what it sounds like based on these boards.
I "fell out of love," I "was bored," "my spouse had some problem (that could be addressd with patience, therapy or treatment but "hey, I didn't sign up for this," I "wanted to go in a new direction, children be damed," I "felt trapped," "my husband didn't make enough money," "my wife didn't give me enough sex like before ( even though I didn't bring her flowers like before, help around the house or call during the day just to chat or talk to her without distraction for ten minutes a day anymore either" Maybe I missed that change.

2007-01-24 21:39:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was born in Havana Cuba along with my other brothers and sisters my parents were both doing drugs at the time so was sent to America to start a new life. I was 5 yeas old at tha time i am now 20, my step parents wasnt wat you would call nice at all they beat us everyday and locked us in a basement. my other brothers and sisters got out but a few of us, they didnt like us because we had brown skin and they was white. my step father raped us gurls and i ran away when i was 11 i fell in love with someone much older than me and i got pregnant. i wasnt ready to be a mother so my oldest sister helped me, my step parents found me and made me come back everyone i told they told them i was lying but i wasnt. my whole life i was beatin and to make everything worse my uncle killed his self in front of me. at this time in my life im so stressed and depressed and my gurlfriend couldnt give a **** about any of this she wont even help me.. idk what to do im having the worst nightmares of my life...

2007-01-24 21:39:30 · 7 answers · asked by kat velez 1 in Family

pls rank.........include others.........why for some parents are most closed while for others family.........why we dont spend equal time with both

2007-01-24 21:39:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i hav a bf now, we were 5 yrs and now, ive known a friend of mine he is just my txtm8 then at first i didnt treat him well,but wen we see each other everything turn into change. i feel im falling but i dont want it to happen.how can i stop dis?? om longing for him since we part ways.

2007-01-24 21:38:10 · 4 answers · asked by sexy 1 in Singles & Dating

password help. is this function available in k 700 and k 500 sony ericsson, please. thanks

2007-01-24 21:37:59 · 1 answers · asked by banyamin12 1 in Singles & Dating

That vagina and penis plastic surgery exists?!

2007-01-24 21:37:49 · 5 answers · asked by basshunter_poka 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 21:36:04 · 10 answers · asked by Josh 1 in Singles & Dating

How many of you wore pearls for your wedding?

Also, would it be fitting to wear ivory pearls with a champagne colored dress? Would gold jewelry be more appropriate?

2007-01-24 21:35:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my sister just had an exam now she wants to know whjat advacasy is please help me shut her up shes hurting my head

2007-01-24 21:35:18 · 6 answers · asked by louise h 2 in Friends

i am very very passionate............while people i really care are too cold

2007-01-24 21:34:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does your mum always complain about things ?? my mum always is negative about us she always says all the other girls are getting married only us. and they all have better jobs than us.. and about cleaning the thing is we clean but not like her she shines ??
so what do we do ?

2007-01-24 21:34:37 · 8 answers · asked by amyhamad 1 in Singles & Dating

If you wore a strapless gown, what sort of jewelry did you wear? (necklace or none?) (long earrings or short?) (bracelet or no?)

Also, did you wear gloves if you had a fingertip or longer veil?

2007-01-24 21:34:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

birthday cards this year? Also what's a good prayer for "praying for your enemies"?

2007-01-24 21:34:06 · 2 answers · asked by j b 5 in Friends

i need to find a song that me and my husband to be can dance are first dance to, i like the old time classics and he is into bands like the killers, the view etc how do we compromise. plus my friend is singing the song, any ideas

2007-01-24 21:32:52 · 17 answers · asked by angels 2 in Weddings

I have dated many others, but he is all I think about. Ever since the first time I met him, something about him is different. I compare other men to him and none of them seem to even come close to him. I got it in my mind im not going to be happy unless I have him. We are friends but I am nervous about telling him my feelings. If he rejects me I will have to move on but it will crush me. It's been a few years of crushing and neither of us have the balls to make a move. I am growing impatient and I have to get this off my chest before I can move on. Just seems werid that I like this guy after all this time, and to shy to make a move and the thought of him with another girl all but kills me. I doubt we can remain friends if he doesn't want to be with me. Its to much pain..

2007-01-24 21:32:28 · 7 answers · asked by booyeah123 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 21:32:14 · 13 answers · asked by j b 5 in Friends

After choosing your dress, did you show everything to everyone, or keep it to yourself and surprise them on your walk down the aisle? If you didn't show, did you describe?

2007-01-24 21:31:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i have a very bad problem my fiencee is being acused of raping a 10 yr old girl and he raped my best friend and i dont know waht to do i need ur help on what i should do when he raped my best friend. i went in the bedroom and cought him in the act and pulled him off her and he hit me and threw me across the room

2007-01-24 21:30:42 · 19 answers · asked by drug_free_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

What would be your reply to this question?

2007-01-24 21:28:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends