my girl and i went to a restarant the other night and we didn't have the much of a good time, we weren't comfortable because of her nanny sitting at the table with us, anyways after that she wasn't herself she wasn't talking to me like she used to..and not texting unless i do, and then the day after that she didnt call or text me at all, but that didnt stop me from texting her i did but guess what no reply and that was before like 4 days :S and i miss her so much.. and im worried sick about her and im starting to get crazy thoughts like she's cheating on me or something, but i hope not..:( so can you please tell me what to do!!!!
2007-01-24 20:32:06 · 7 answers · asked by kooki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just a quick question......her nanny? are we talking here her grandmother or her nanny as in governess, or minder. Cause if we are talking about the later......stop dating 4 year olds.
Have you asked her what's going on, or are you just texting silly messages of love.
If she won't answer give her an ultimatum and if she won't answer you still or if you think she is lying to you, then move on.
Y'all don't need that ****!
2007-01-24 20:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by Spikey and Scruffy's Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, you've done something wrong, maybe yes and maybe no..
keep sending her texts or try and call her/voicemail...tell her you love her and you've been worried and you just wanna make sure everythngs okay...And if it's not working, you need to go see her physically, go to her house and plead with her to tell you what's wrong?
but don't bug her like crazy...the more you search for an answer the more you push her away if it was just something little that was wrong... If she truly loves you, will have to tell you what's exactly is wrong with her....
You don't have to think she's cheating on you, have you ever caught her with someone before, so i'll advice you not to think negative about your other half, think about positive things, imagine you and her together, things like that... But also try and think if you've done something wrong, or you said something you didn't mean to her..
Give it your best okay?
2007-01-25 04:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by codedfeelins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go over to her house & see if she will talk face to face. If she don't then give her a few more days & try again. If she still won't talk with you then maybe she can't get the nerve up to break up, but if that is what she wanted then she needs to tell you. Im not saying that she does.
2007-01-25 04:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by MaeSalgo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her privately about this situation.
I once started seeing other girls because my ex wasn't talking to me anymore. Then one day she called me and was all like "whyyy??, whyyy?" So i told her,.. "its called communication,. If you have a problem, its not by not talking to me anymore that will help". So now she gained 50 pounds,...
So the moral is,.. " you need communication in a relationship" or else she doesn't love you that much.
2007-01-25 04:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by a Friend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't bug her like crazy...the more you search for an answer the more you push her away if it was just something little that was wrong...just send her one text or one voicemail...tell her you love her and are worried and you just wanna make sure everythngs okay...dont call a million times though it's not cute!!!! wait it out....good luck
2007-01-25 04:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by Amy Hizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can go to hers and talk in person. She may be losing interest so I'd act now before you lose her. Its happened to me more than once. It may just be the fact that she needs some space in which case try and give it to her.
2007-01-25 04:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask zidane to headbutt you!
2007-01-25 04:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋