that she loves you very much and wants to stay with you even if you date other girls. would you stay with her! isn't it better to help her forget you by igonring her phone calls and stop seeing her? or maybe its better not to break her heart and keep dating her along with other girls? what is the best way to avoid breaking her heart?
2007-01-24 20:37:34 · 19 answers · asked by answer@yahoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This girl needs some counseling, she has some self esteem issues, and you staying will not help. There are too many risks involved in this situation. I do suggest that you however explain to her that you respect her too much to roll the way she suggests. Also with the other girls you get involved with I suggest that you keep it real, if you don't seriously see yourself marrying them don't have sex with them. Self-respecting, mature females see themselves in a longterm eventually leading to marriage relationship if they give in to a male sexually. So it would save the female and male a lot of undue drama if someone in the relationship think things through, before committing to sexual acts, it is hard but true. Save sex for marriage even if you are engaged, if you are truly IN love with the person, you won't use that line about trying out a car before you buy it, people aren't machines, and if they are who you should truly be with, the wait is worth it and the guarantee of the condition of the relationship doesn't need an extended warranty, just in case of a breakdown, just unconditional love, and it will last forever and take you where ever you want to go. Put God first.
2007-01-24 21:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by cassandr.l@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to break up with her. Yes, it's going to hurt her, but what's going to hurt her even more is when she sees these girls you'll be dating. She may say that she doesn't care if you date other people, but that's just a desperate way for her to hold onto you, she's hoping that this attempt of staying in a relationship with you while you date around will show some sort of deep love for you and you'll forget all the other girls and come back to her just like in a movie. If you don't love her the best thing to do is leave her, let her mend, and find somone else that she can love and who'll love her back.
2007-01-24 20:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur a good person, tell her ur not interested and u rather be friends with her or u will start ignoring her if she dun accept. By going along with her...means u chose to be with her, that means u shldn't be having another gf...which girl in the world wld wanna share their bf? Wld u share ur gf?
2007-01-24 20:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i never heard a story like that...u should break with her cuz this situation will worsen. and u may find urself one day with her completly stuck with u...
Breaking with her, will automatically break her heart, this is inevitable, but what u can do is alleviather suffering...talk with her and be very supporting... at the end of the discussing, u should be a single guy
2007-01-24 20:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by rapstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot anymore avoid breaking her heart. you have to be honest with her. and it's definitely not good to keep dating her along with other girls, that makes you a bad person.
2007-01-24 20:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by terra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been the girl in this situation...she's not crazy she knows she can't make you love her yet she can't help that she loves you...she feels like to have you at all, even if she has to share you is better then nothing at all...so no it can't work forever that way but if you just cut her off completely then you're killin her inside....she just wants to see you and have you be a part of her life even if it's not exactly how she wants it....be nice she prolly really does care...she just wants you to be happy
2007-01-24 20:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by Amy Hizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she's hideous to look at, you hate her voice and style of dress or she's just plain obnoxious, you need a good sharp crack inna nutz! What the hell have you been waiting for all your life, a bolt of lightning from God to tell you when you've been blessed!? Idiot...
2007-01-24 20:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't avoid breaking her heart...the girl is desperate. Break up with her but realize she is going to be very mad at you.
2007-01-24 20:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by THE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd date her still. If she's cool with you dating other girls, you have the best of both worlds. Why would you not take that?
2007-01-24 20:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't avoid hurting her feelings. Just ignore her and if it works out, maybe try to find somebody else to attract her attention so she won't be on your case.
2007-01-24 20:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋