I thought I was over my ex, but I just miss him. Its super hard not to text him and call. And know that we're trying the friend thing, I think it makes it hard for me to be honest about my feelings with him. His friends have told me that he misses our realationship and would like to get back together, but only once he thinks we've both ready to be mature about lives together. I also wonder if it is worth the bother to try again b/c there is ten years between us. I just want to know if I should follow my heart and try it again or move on for better or worse?
2007-01-24 19:20:27 · 7 answers · asked by Barlow 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on
2007-01-24 19:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart. You've been in love with him befor and you still are. If he wants you to get back together and you also want him back, why dont you call him and let him know how much you miss and love him and from there he will also tell you how much he misses you. I would want to believe you are mature enough. If you have been going out with him and is ten years older than you (though age is just a number) I think you can handle it.
Get back with him and enjoy life while you still can. You deserve to be happy girl.
2007-01-25 03:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by magy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow what you're heart says.
when you are in any relationship you are going to have to deal with some kind of problems.
if you can handle being with him even through the bad times then you should stick with him.
ii was told by a friend that usually couples who break up during the bad times are giving up on love.
don't be like everyone else, follow what you think is best.
hey, maybe this is God's way of telling you that you guys deserve a second chance.
if it helps, God helped me in mine.
my boyfriend and ii broke up then got back together two weeks later. ii mean yea ii did have my doubts for like a month, like my feelings weren't the same and it felt weird but the one thing that never changed was how much ii loved him.
if you feel the way ii feel. give it a second chance because after a month of being together after the break up, ii'm back to normal and we are trying to be the best we can for each other and trying to work things out and trying not to make what happened to make us break up happen again.
2007-01-25 03:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Casey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you wait a while and see how you truly feel, but dont worry about the age gap. My parents have a 12 year age gap and are still happily married.
2007-01-25 03:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by Leila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u make sure what u feel for him.
If u really still want him, then just go ahead and talk to him abt. getting bk together.
2007-01-25 03:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart but make sure you don regret it ever~!
2007-01-25 03:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by Vani R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow you heart hon.
2007-01-25 03:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by thevillageidiotxxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋