this guy loves me. he is my bestfriend, i love him so much ( i wasnt sure what kind of feeling i have to him).however, he is very nice and sweet, caring and gentleman, i get butterflies and feel secure when he is around. i think i love him back, is that true???!! and if yes, is it possible to love someone but still able to like other guys?? i mean when some times i`m out i see other guys, and sometimes they take my attention, but if i love my best friend, how can i still be able to like others??!!!! is it possible. or is it normal??
2007-01-24 19:00:15 · 6 answers · asked by confused lover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so shall i tell him yes i love u back and thats it or shall i try dating other guys and see? wont that be humiliating for him?
2007-01-24 19:08:02 · update #1
it's natural to be attracted to other people, that doesn't ever go away. But if you love someone you will never act on those other feelings. Love just isn't a feeling, it's an action as well. Love is what gets you through the tough times in a relationship. You can be infatuated with a person and not love them, you find that out real quick when you start going through some tough fights. True love will keep you faithfull to that person no matter what! I think what you feel right now isn't necessarily love, could be but not for sure. It takes time to know if you really love someone in that sense. That's why there is dating. Dating will lead you into your answer!
2007-01-24 19:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by NOTW70X7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When it comes to love there is no thinking. You just know. If you have to question it you're not in love. You're showing all the typical sighns of a crush. You're close to love but not quite. Being in love is not noticing anyone else, the only thing in the world that matters is the two of you. You dont see another guy across the room and wonder what it would be like to be with him. Of course you're going to notice if someone is attractive, that's human nature, but you wont think about actually being with another person because you're so happy. You may not be in love, but you're close. You'll know when it happens.
2007-01-24 19:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is extremely normal to love someone and also like others at the same time. If you decide to date your friend it is still fine to like other guys, but depending on your possible relationship its not always appropriate to act on those feelings. It's also possible to love your best friend even if you don't want to take it any further than that too.
2007-01-24 19:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by matt82682 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yea its possible,mainly becuase yall are only friends,if yall were more than friends,you probably wouldnt have feelings for other guys.
2007-01-24 19:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes
2007-01-24 19:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by goiowa6 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
at your age it is very normal.
2007-01-24 19:15:07 · answer #6 · answered by thevillageidiotxxxx 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋