Not even one of those little "school boyfriends either". Im not a freak or anything, I jus cant seem to find the right person...
2007-01-24 19:03:27 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, it's not weird. i'm in my 20s and i haven't had a bf yet, although a few guys have liked me in the past. they were either too shy to approach me, or i didn't like them enough to ask them out. you shouldn't rush into something like that.
2007-01-24 19:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by poeticjustice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weird. It's better than going out with someone just for the sake of not being alone. I was 15 when I had my first boyfriend (though I did have a couple of "school boyfriends" before that). My husband, on the other hand, had his first girlfriend (me), when he was 22. He never even asked out another girl...didn't want to play "the dating game". I kinda wish I never even had the one ex-boyfriend, that way we'd really be each other's one and only. At least he's the only guy I've ever "been" with. :O)
2007-01-24 19:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not weird. Your time will come. Seems like you are just evaluating the possibilities and aren't satisfied with what's out there. Maybe you're shy.
Don't hold expectations too high. At your age, you will be continually disappointed. It's rare to find a really mature and responsible person your age.
Take your time. Respect yourself. Don't rush. Don't fall in love with the first one who comes along. Just have a few friends and socialize for now. Attend to your studies and your college scholarship.
A nice guy will come along soon enough. Just be yourself. He'll trip over your bookbag.
2007-01-24 19:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer some thing is faulty with that! do not enable society stress you into doing some thing you do not go with to. i'm 15 (16 in December) and that i have not had a boyfriend both. i have under no circumstances even held a guy's hand now to not indicate kiss, make out, etc. it is no longer that i'll't get adult adult males. i have had many adult adult males inquire from me out yet when i don't like them like that then I turn them down. and also you're precise, why date someone you don't like? i'm waiting for a guy that i'll fairly love and so a concepts i have not discovered him yet with somewhat of luck quicker or later i am going to. carry close in there! there is no longer some thing strange about that :)
2016-10-16 02:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by schwenck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not at all weird! don't worry hun. its better like that. when your younger guys are immature and its not even worth worrying about. it's just more drama to add with the rest of your life and if i could go back, i would rather not deal with it.
The right guy will come along for you and if you seem to find someone on your own... don't be afraid to make the first move =) make sure he's a sweetie tho and treats your right cause those are the keepers!!
2007-01-24 19:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird. This a great opportunity to develop yourself and be the type of woman who attracts the type of guy you want. Develop your interests/hobbies, enjoy growing into yourself, and don't give a care as to what other people think. You are the only one who is able to live your life, do what is right for you and you'll be fine.
2007-01-24 19:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by Lyf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, you're fine. I didn't have a bf till I was 19, and we've been together two years now. It can be depressing not having a special guy for so long, but be patient and you'll find someone.
2007-01-24 19:16:35 · answer #7 · answered by learning_to_live_616 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is not wierd. You are 16 not 116. Give yourself a break girl
2007-01-24 19:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by Spikey and Scruffy's Mummy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't get my first boyfriend until 2 days before my 17th b-day and I'm only 18 now.
2007-01-24 19:24:47 · answer #9 · answered by Barlow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weird at all... I was 19 before I had a girlfriend...
2007-01-24 19:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by chetter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋