I have been married a little over a year. My husband was married before, but it only lasted 5 months and she never lived with him. I met him 2 months after they split. She was 9 years older than he with kids. Everything was great with us, until we were married and i found some racy letters she sent to him throughout the relationship. Mostly about sex. It hurt alot to find those and it seemed from the letter that their sex life was much better than ours ! He came home burned them to signify his love for me. he forgot that the letters were even around. Also, he used to be "wilder" and into the club and party scene and she was a huge part of that life with him, which was probably part of the attraction. She was the fun, party girl. I on the other hand, have always been the "good girl". I feel like i may be boring to him since i am so different and feel compared or 2nd best. he's made comments that hurt b4 like her ring was better than mine b/c she "expected" it . am i wrong to be jealous
2007-01-24
17:49:33
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