it is very difficult for me to make decesions about my life, ihave to ask many people what shall i do about this and that. but i would like to do that on my own, how can i do that?
2007-01-24 17:39:27 · 8 answers · asked by Camelia R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Brain said it all ... there's one more thing you have to know ... it's good to look at the issue from different angles and take several opinions in order to make the best decision ... somyimes you can decide without any help ... you can do that easily by knowing that ppl do mistake and thier opinions can go right or wrong just like you ... so you don't have to blame your self if you were mistaken about a decision you made , after all perfection dosn't exsist
few tips : take several opinions about an issue , think about them all , discover the advantages and disadvantages for every one of them ... write them down and try hard to creat a decision of your own that can get you the best results
good luck
2007-01-24 17:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one good way is to take a piece of paper, draw a line down the middle and on one side list why you should do something and on the other, why you should not. After you get organized that way you will find that you may not need to keep doing it and train your mind to make those comparisons. Remember when someone gives you advice it may be good advice for them but it may not be as good for you. you can still ask for advice but list ot on the paper and think about whether it is good acvice for you or not.
2007-01-25 01:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its most likley not as a serious matter as you think - and not one thats going to make a major change in your life.
Go with one or the other. the choice is not a big deal
The anxiety of not making the decision is the worst part
Sitting on a fence with a picket up your butt hurts,
jump to one side or the other
2007-01-25 01:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by freshbliss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is not easy, you have to see what your options are and then think of the consequences for each one. Sure, you will make mistakes but soon you will learn from them too and learn to trust your instinct. Nobody knows you better than yourself.
2007-01-25 01:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by La Tia Rini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take time and figure it out on your own, consider what others say to you but go with what you want.
2007-01-25 01:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get to the point where you have enough confidence in yourself that what you want is the right thing to do. You'll also get to the point of stop trying to please everyone else.
Been there.
But now?
Screw everyone else. What I want is what I do.
2007-01-25 01:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by bentley b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flip a coin
2007-01-25 01:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
STOP ASKING PEOPLE!!!! There you go.
~brucelee19
2007-01-25 01:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by Brian G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋