I been searching for a good man or woman and cant find it?

Question

I'm very cute . Have a nice black gurl shape . A little extra . but everubody I gound or date they dont turn out to be for me so what can i do to find someone or just let it come to me but i been wating to long and reasy for sum sex and loving and need to be bundle up it s cold outside

Answer 1

To most people, "bi" means you have "issues" about who you are. To some people it means your "bi-ness" isn't about your gender identity but is, instead, a matter of not being "picky" and just being promiscuous with the next willing person who comes along. I'm not saying this to insult you. I'm saying it is how many people view the term "bi".

As a result, you've eliminated a whole, giant, segment of the population who would not be willing to be with someone who is "bi" - and what you're left with is a few people who have their own sexual preferences themselves but wouldn't mind or else other "bi" people - which doesn't make for a huge group of people, considering that most of us live in a fairly small circle.

This is probably why you can't find someone who is right for you, and I don't know what you can do about it other than hang in there and see if you meet someone one of these days.

Maybe you should talk to a therapist to see if you sort out what you want and who you are and why it is you haven't met someone who is right for you. You need to know who you are before you can know who it is that would be right for you. Is there any chance you're just young?

My answer is honestly not meant to be fresh or insulting. Its just that I suspect you're a young girl, and maybe an honest, straight-talk, answer is the only right answer to give.