k first off I am only 15 ok here is the problem.......there is this person..a friend of the family,everyone is real close,he eats with us just about everynight(he is a policeman)I like him a lot (stricly as a friend) I talk to him quite a bit and he has helped me through some rough patches... he is an older person(about 40).....well the problem is he makes me uncomfortable some times....I am naturally a touchy feely person I like hugs and all that : ).......but he gets awfully close for comfort.like we will be lounging around on the couch with the rest of the family and (he is also my sisters father inlaw) he will start grabbing my butt..(like rubbing it)..and once we were alone and he hugged me and got his face so close I thought he was going to kiss me(I just kinda closed pulled away) and the other time he was rubbing my thigh and got to close.....although I think I may be making a big deal out of nothing....but if I am what can I do.My mom and dad would never believe me.
2007-01-24 17:51:50 · 4 answers · asked by katey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and I have told an adult but I didn't tell them everything because I thought better of it and relised that it would just be blown out of proportion......I do like the guy and he is nice to have around and I don't want to ruin his life or anything like.....if you want to send any other information email me at Chatter_box_14_10@yahoo.com
2007-01-24 17:53:28 · update #1
I have to clean his aprt(for money) it's kinda hard not to be alone with him.....and if all the sudden I say i don't want to clean it my mom will get all weird and ask why not..or just tell me to do it anyway
2007-01-24 18:03:36 · update #2
and also my mom is having an afffair with him(that is another reason why my mom wouldn't believve me)
2007-01-24 18:04:10 · update #3
You sound like a tease. I'd be all over you too.
2007-01-24 17:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well,either deal with the discomfort of telling your mother the truth,or get molested.That is your only answer.What do you want the outcome to be?You better get tough quick,or you may get hurt.I'll pray for you.
2007-01-25 02:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... i hope this is not a made-up story... anyway, why don't you have a serious talk with your dad since your mum won't listen to you? expose her affair too and quit your job with that weirdo!!! there are other jobs you can do without getting molested! and if you don't know already, you are being MOLESTED. you gotta do something and fast too! talk with someone who will listen--friend, teacher, counselor, neighbor, someone you trust...
gd luck...
2007-01-25 02:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make yourself less available for that sort of thing to take place. whenever he is around make sure someone else is around
in other words never be alone with him!!!
2007-01-25 02:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by david s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋