been in his face about getting back. i've always been the one who would try to reconcile things on arguments and break ups. do you think he'll be back if i give him space and not bug him about getting back together?
2007-01-24 17:54:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm tbh any woman who harps on about getting back, well its a green light for the man to know he can do what he wants. It doesn't set you up for nicest treatment in the future... as men like to be kept on their toes and challenged to keep their woman.
2007-01-24 18:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by Narky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should back off and leave him, guys hate being bugged. Go out and do your own thing with your friends and pretend that you are not too worried about it and then if he wants you back he may approach you. If not move on, sometimes breaking up and making up too many times is a sign that the relationship has run it's course
2007-01-25 02:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by jaygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could possibly happen, but forcing someone back into your life may not be the right approach. It's natural that you still have feelings for him and want it to work, but going about it this way will only make him retreat even more so............He obviously needs space. Just give it to him and if he realizes what he had and misses you, he'll be running back. If not, it wasn't meant to be and you shouldn't waste your time.
2007-01-25 02:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its so hard to give-up someone you really love, but sometimes we should consider to love our self too. Its just like what a song saying that "learning to love ourself, is the greastest love of all" and that's true. You should love yourself especially now that he makes you feel down. Remember the saying that if someone really loves you, and if he's really meant for you, whatever happens he will come back to you for the better. But don't expect that a happy ending fairy tale would happen, coz we are in reality of life that anything can possibly happen wether its on the negative or positive side. Just pray, coz i know it would help you, coz that's the best way for you to have peace of mind (that's what i did and it really works =)
2007-01-25 02:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by HisAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay...
you sound like me about a month and a half ago. ii was just like you where ii was the one always trying to make things right. trying to fix things, trying to be the positive one in the relationship. one thing ii realized is that's the wrong way to go. you shouldn't talk about the same thing over and over coz that can irritate him. in my situation, it irritated my boyfriend.
ii honestly think you should give him some space because with the actions ii was giving, ended up in a break up that was devestating for me. though ii wanted to talk to him, ii wanted to call him everyday after the break up, ii decided not to. so within a week he ended up calling me and we ended talking more and more until two weeks later he asked for me back. the space that was given to him let him think about why did the break up end up like that, what went wrong and everything in between.
with that said, in the end my boyfriend and ii are trying to work things out now and he's so much more understanding then he was before.
just try giving him some space for awhile. and let him call you. let him be the one to try and fix things. you never knoe, maybe this may work out for you like it did for me.
2007-01-25 02:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Casey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he broke up with you just move on. There's no point begging (or doing some version of it). Have a little pride and self-confidence and find someone else.
Just a note: His space is not something you "give him". It is something that is his. He has apparently let you know he doesn't want to share it with you - so, again, move on.
2007-01-25 02:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make space in your heart and live your life. Just know when he really belongs to you he will be back and when he does not belong to you then the chapter is closed.
2007-01-25 02:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're always "in his face" I'm not surprised he broke up with you. Men will never share all their space with you and you have to allow them to keep their own corner.
2007-01-25 02:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by Martin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he ask u back say no no and no because that is wrong if he ask u back after HE broke up with u ok so u tell him im not sorry but i moved on
2007-01-25 02:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by lady22694 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might happen. i have gone out with the same guy 3 times. but be careful. u can get hurt. =[
2007-01-25 02:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by akjhdfkljhsadljkfhasdlkjfhnalksj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋