Just how sad you really are..
2007-01-24 18:41:02 · 10 answers · asked by renja27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Geez! Can YOU read HIS mind? I think not. No matter what kind of look you have on your face no ones knows how you feel inside unless you say it. He should be able to tell if your behavior has changed lately but not all guys are that sensitive to subtle changes and expect you to TELL THEM when something is bothering you rather than expecting them to figure it out. I'm the same way...it drives me nuts for my boyfriend to just expect me to know how he feels or what he wants. He'll get mad if I don't do something he wants but just thinks I should KNOW he wants it without him asking. Open communication is the ONLY way to have a truly healthy and satisfying relationship in my opinion. Just tell the man you're lonely and ask for what you need from him whatever it is. Then ask him to hold you for awhile:)That always makes me feel better. lol
2007-01-24 22:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by bama_babe07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best guess is only because I understand where you are coming from. I believe that if it is like my case it has to do with denial. My bf mom turned and still turns a blind eye to anything that will cause any kind of issues. Like knowing her son is lying to her, she just ignores her feelings and the fact she is lied too. So, basically neither of them deal with ANY feelings or anyone Else's unless it is happy. It is frustrating because if you are angry you show it and the same if you are sad. I would say he just does not see it because he has trained himself to ignore it thus he can not see yours. It is that whole "if you don't acknowledge it then it does not exist." theory. They don't deal with their own so they can not deal with someone Else's. Communication is not a top priority for people like this either. He probably keeps little secrets that are stupid and only shows that they don't trust you as well, that is just a guess.
2007-01-24 18:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by whoknowswtf 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For regardless of reason you strayed, i assume issues were less than perfect along with your relationship, you should tell him, lies have a habit of arising and biting you once you least assume it and also you'll under no circumstances sense one hundred% satisfied hiding any such secret.you go with to describe why it handed off and be prepared for the backlash. i assume you do not make a habit of drowsing round or you'll have used protection,(some thing else to imagine about, get regarded at for STD's).believe me this can't be saved a secret continuously and he has a precise to understand and make his own determination to even if he needs to lift someone elses 's new child in the previous he AND the youngster bond.imagine of the wear it ought to reason the newborn no longer only you and your better 0.5 if all of it got here out later!
2016-10-16 02:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by schwenck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, people aren't mind readers. No one can just look at your face and know exactly what is going on in your mind...it is unrealistic to expect a partner to be able to do it.
If you have a problem with something, it is up to you to sit your partner down and say hey, this is how I feel, how can we fix it...if you don't do that...the only person to blame for how miserable you feel is yourself.
2007-01-24 18:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A simple rule with guys: if you want something done, just SAY IT. If you don't like something, SAY IT.
Guys are not mind readers. Women are more attuned to what other people think - I think you all are better tuned that way.
But if you are so lonely you choose to go out with somebody else, boy will he get the picture
2007-01-24 18:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by Mardy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you feel this way but you really must come out and tell him.A lot of guys really don't pick up on these things. You might find he is shocked that he didn't notice this. If you can't bring this up with him, maybe your problems lie much deeper than you think.
2007-01-24 19:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For most of us "guys" it would be better if the ladies would just say things, instead of hoping we could pick up on "signals".
Mainly because signals are hard to interpet. Open honest, not cruel or rude, communication solves a lot of problems.
2007-01-24 18:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by David S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you just have to tell him what you are feeling. keep your line of communication open so that you minimize any misunderstanding.
2007-01-24 18:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by porridge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it deponds upon each character and all the boys are not the same
2007-01-24 18:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by sili r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress kinda SEXY , Rip his clothes off , & give him some Wild lovin ...He will know now wont he ???
2007-01-24 18:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by klunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋