my bf always chats with women online but he woke up and caught me doing it and he's mad at me. why is he mad when he always does it right in my face. but i do it and he gets all upset?
2007-01-24 18:27:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i never chatted online until he started doing it. and i told him i do it only because he does it.
2007-01-24 18:39:33 · update #1
I guess it all depends what you are chatting about.
If you and your bf love each other, neither of you would need to chat online. You should be talking to each other.
2007-01-24 18:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by loza500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does your bf talk to the women online? Flirting? If so, then why is he even bothering to defend himself? But, if he's just talking to women and you are just talking to men as friends, you should tell him that he does the same thing. Just because you guys are together doesn't mean you can't talk to someone of the opposite sex. If you trust him enough to chat with women, then he should do the same for you. Talk to him about it. Good luck!
2007-01-25 02:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by snowthump 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why si he chatting with other women online when he's in a relationship with you?? Perhaps he's doing inappropriate things? And he's worried that you're starting to do it back to him. He wouldn't be upset if he wasn't do anything wrong himself. Were you flirting with the guys online? Or were you just chatting? Tell him that he doesn it... and if he doesn't want you too than he should be doing it himself.
2007-01-25 02:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by Haulie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he woke up in the morning and saw u chatting with a guy online or woke up at night and saw u? because if it was at night i could kinda see that because i am a really jealous guy and if my g/f was talking to a guy online in the middle of the night it would kinda piss me off just because its not like u were doing it in front of him it kinda seems like u were trying to hide it but if it was in the morning when he woke up he really doesnt have any right to be mad he just sounds like a really jealous guy like me lol
2007-01-25 02:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by xbabyboy4021x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a man. Therefore he knows that single men are unscrupulous (sp?) and will try to seduce every woman they can regardless if that woman is involved with another man or not. He's trying to protect you from the wolves. It may seem a little unfair, but is it really worth putting a strain on your relationship to chat with other men?
2007-01-25 02:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you tend to only talk to dudes only while he isn't looking? If so, he may find it suspicious, even though you are not doing anything behind his back. Talk to him, he may also be a real jealous guy (which is never good). It sucks but jealousy in a relationship never leads to good. Think about it.
2007-01-25 02:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's just being jealous and selfish. let him know what you're feeling, tell him the fact that he chats with women and you're feeling not OK with that, and now when you do the same, he mad
2007-01-25 02:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by stardust 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off it all depends on who the guy was and what was said... if it was a guy you flirt with or dated in the past... or if you were talking in a flirting way.. If it was just a inocient convo. then you have nothing to worry about... guys are jelious creatures and in a day or two it will be no big deal!
2007-01-25 02:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that your boyfriend may have jealousy issues. Talk to him about it, no one likes to be called a hypocrite and will definitely need to defend their reasoning behind it all. If the reasoning is unethical and with out fairness you may want to look deeper into what you may getting yourself into.
2007-01-25 02:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by matt82682 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he's a little jealous, like most guys are when it comes to their girl. But it's a thin line from being a little jealous to being possesive.
I say talk to him if it makes you uncomfortable, but I get the feeling you like him being a little jealous...makes you feel more wanted, it's only human....
2007-01-25 02:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋