I recently left my husband and he moved in with the woman he had an affair with and he tells me he wants to work it out and sleeps on the couch. I called him the other day and it was 11am and he said he was still sleeping, now there are 14 dogs and two familys that live in this house with children and I asked him how he could sleep that long with all that noise? His response was anger and asked me what I was accusing him of, I said I am not I just asked how you can sleep with all the noise of people comming and going and he said I am not sleeping with her and they all respect me here so they do not wake me up. Why would they respect him when he does not work and contribues nothing to the house hold, why is he so defensive?? could it be that he really is sleeping with her, I just wish he would stop thinking that I am a F**cking idiot. some input please
2007-01-24 18:45:50 · 6 answers · asked by twinki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes I think you're right, his story does not check out. I would think that he really is sleeping with her. He gave himself away by getting defensive and denying his guilt before he was even accused of anything, so that in itself is very telling of his guilt. Hope this clarifies things a little for you, and chin up. Pen
2007-01-24 19:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by Vanessa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello honey, Honestly if a man (husband) would think that you're a f**cking idiot. By all means, forget this man as part of your life. And since he had an affair with another woman/bit*ch, why not just let him go.. I think it will lesson your headache in your future life.
I know it's hard to accept the true fact, but this is life.
You know, it's just like i caught my wife having an affair with another man. Later, she left the house. But i couldn't be bother of asking her to com back. And I love her very much, n i felt cheated, but what the hack; this is life and life still goes on.. I guess she's also felt the differences between me n the bastard.. probably she couldn't get the same treatment from that man as compared to me.. As i always pamper and massage her after sex. But i think that man could probably go to sleep after he get satisfied and wont bother whether if he'd satisfied her on bed or not??.. who knows what..??
Anyway, i'm just sharing my thoughts with you. and hope that you could think otherwise instead of wasting your time thinking of your unfaithfull husband.. There are still many nice man around you, try giving them some opportunity to brighten up your day..
Drop me a email if you want to chat further ok..
gp169169@yahoo.com.sg
2007-01-25 03:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by Love69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am just curious why are you still so concerned about him when he don't even bother how you feel. If I were in your shoes, I will forget such person and move on with my life. I believed that he don't even to deserve that little concern from you.
2007-01-25 05:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right, he thinks you are a freaking idiot.
I would just leave that loser where he is, DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK!
You can and will get better and that will beg the heck out of him.
2007-01-25 06:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by LC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who does he want to work it out with you or her? he's probaly on the defensive side because he messed up and he feels like a real ***.
2007-01-25 08:28:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds guilty to me
2007-01-25 03:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by amazincajn_99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋