he says he is having fun with it and i do too actually but i'm just wondering if this is normal.
2007-01-24 18:50:45 · 9 answers · asked by Deesa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys don't know how to show there affections in a serious manner, so clowning around and teasing your is how they do this.
I too have been with men who did this and at some point it become annoying. You feel like your dating a little child who has not grown up. I can say, these men really do have a great heart, but just have not been shown how to express themselves in other ways. I would say take the initiative and be serious with him and he might start to learn other ways of communication with you. Don't put him down for this, just show and tell him what you prefer. There is a time and place for making fun and teasing and he has that mastered! How boaring would he be if he was too serious all the time.
2007-01-24 19:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by EsteeIsFrench 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Now it depends what kind of teasing. If he's poking fun at anything not good like weight or something else that can hurt your feelings that's mental abuse. I don't think that's the case here though. Most guys tease their girlfriends, it's a form of flirting and it's his way of letting you know he likes you without directly telling you. If it's all in fun and he's not saying anything hurtful this is completely normal and he's doing it because he wants to see you smile and hear you laugh.
2007-01-25 03:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, he can make fun of things that you do for a little giggle, as long as both of you are like having fun. But if he is doing this all the time, and it isn't light hearted there must be something seriously wrong with the guy!
If you could give a little more description, if you are unsure be glad to help more!
2007-01-25 02:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by Bruce T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well . . . here's a little secret: if he gets a rise out of you, he'll keep doing it. I tease my wifey . . I love the way her eyes flash when she gets ticked-off. It's all in fun, and besides, when I'm away for a long time, she says she misses it.
2007-01-25 03:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how much he tease u how much he loves u.. as my b,f he tease me allot and making me angry.. but i understand that he loves so much.. so don't worry it's normal.. u must to take it in fun way too.. good luck
2007-01-25 02:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is normal if a person has a sense of humor. More people need to learn to laugh at themselves.
2007-01-25 02:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by David S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well he sees that he can get a rise out of you and he likes pushing them buttons on you.. stop letting him, you should tease back :) :) :)
2007-01-25 02:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes a majority of men do this too show they love you.
2007-01-25 02:56:34 · answer #8 · answered by jim r 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
very normal.
2007-01-25 03:21:25 · answer #9 · answered by thevillageidiotxxxx 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋