I'm not saying it's a bad thing, it's just the love I had before when we first went out is gone and replaced with another kind of love that I don't understand and very much unfamiliar to me. && it seems to be a little weird between us. ii was wondering why is it like that after geting back from a break up??
another thing that I want to question is my boyfriend hangs out with girls, and yes it bothers me. maybe it's because ii knoe that their are girls out their that would try to win away a taken guy from a perfectly great relationship. ii trust him but ii don't trust the girls. ii knoe 100% sure that he would never cheat on me and he loves me deeply and everything. ii mean he proves it to me everyday with his actions and what he says and how he told me he wants to work things out and make our relationship better.I was wondering why he likes hanging out with them?? maybe because my boyfriend is really sensitive or maybe he's just too nice to say no but ii'm not sure.
please help me out.
2007-01-24 18:34:48 · 7 answers · asked by Miss Casey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I bet you found him this way... friendly to everyone with women for friends.. Probably one of the things you loved about him was his easy going ways... don't try to change him or you could change the personality you fell inlove with.
Now, the other thing, Falling in love is great .. during this time you can stay up all night long talking and have the need to be close to each other constantly...
Then one will settle into the 2nd stage of love, which allows you to catch up on all that sleep you lost in the 1st stage.. (smiles)..
Then finally you reach that everlasting love that takes you on into years of marriage and raising kids ... and aren't you glad you can now get a good nights sleep? teehee....
YOU AND HE ARE OK.. TRUST ME ON THIS
GOOD LUCK
2007-01-24 18:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by H.O.T. Dog 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there should be only one form of love. i don't understand what you mean by another kind of love... I've been dating my bf for 3 years and there has only been this one kind feeling that i have for him. i think u r denying that things are actually different after you guys got back together. things are not like expected. things changed. your feelings for him changed but not sure if they should or why.
maybe just take a little time to reajust to this relationship. and you will feel the same again.
also if u trust ur bf 100%, why should u care about the other girls? u r saying that no matter how much they try to seduce ur bf, he won't do a thing. then why the worry? u r worrying because u don't trust him 100%, u think he might do something unfaithful if the girls gone all out for him. that's not 100% trust. it's hard to trust bf 100%. i say the exact same thing that u said, "i trust my bf 100% it's the girls i don' trust". but it's not really true i guess.
good luck
p.s. if it bothers you so much about him hanging with girls. tell him. if he cares enough about you he will stop or at least tell you why he is doing the things he is doing.
2007-01-25 02:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by Deesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys like to hang out with girls, because their personally is more fem then a normal boy. because they have a more softer heart other men, other men are aggressive and he may peferee to feel emothioaly safer with girls because the male teacher are more mean so he feel safe in a girls envierment, i know i felt that why because i had women as teachers but may first exserace with a man teacher was scary, because he was mean, so that why some boys feel better tobe in a girls envorment, now at less you can see why some boys do that , the other side to it is the other boys like to make girls on to back upslike if he get dumped or he no longer loves some one the gose to one of his back up girl friends. so the best way to find out is ask him did he have a bad exsearance with any teachers, if he say yes ask him if it was a man or a woman, if he says even one man teacher ask him why. but if he dosen,t then you will know that his toying with they girls. unless he is jest a flirt.
2007-01-25 02:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that your relationship dosnt feel the same because you may be more defensive as you have broken up with him once. This could be why you are bothered by your bf hanging around with other girls, because you dont want to break up again. Why not try and joing in with the time you bf is hanging out with them? You might be able to make friends with them and afterall they probably know their limits and just want to be friends.
2007-01-25 02:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by Leila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if they r were he's friend before he meets you, that's ok. but if he just started to meet all these girls while he came back to you that's not good. another thing if your relationships with him has been weird is because you and him could have some unforgiveness problems. because it don't matter how long you have broke up with him, but when 2 people like that foundly came back to each others love has growth event stronger and better after they 're have forgiving each others for their mistaked and they 're also learn from it. so whatever problems that might cause your relationships to be weird with him find out what it is before you dump him. because he could come back just to play you, but not to be serious as things used to be before. don't you listen to other people, but find out yourself how by follow every steps of him to see could he be serious or not. can you trust him enough to be with him again.
2007-01-25 03:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by marcel m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there's not alot of trust there and that may be why the change in your feelings. Trust is very important in any relationship, or could be now that you won him back, it's like you've accomplished your goal and the excitement is gone.
2007-01-25 02:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the words not shows his act.. if he saying i love u and u just for me and i for u, and hang out with other girls it's not the love..
i can talk and talk about love, but in real i don't know what it is..
so tell him if u really love me forget those just taste him, if he really loves u and care about u, u will be the only one in his life hang out..
i never let my b.f going out with girls , he will not do that, because he just love me alone, for what he going if i with him..
so instead of going with them go with him, tell him if u love me as u said i must to be the only one in your life, and why u going with them if i am here? u will do it be brave don't have any doubts if u saying what u feel... good luck
2007-01-25 02:43:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋