I fell hard core for this guy that I was going out with but now we are just friends. I cannot help but still think of him in that way even though it has been since last September that anything happened. I'm constantly thinking about him as well as an old HS crush that I keep in contact with. How does a girl begin to change her frame of mind when she knows that she has to get at least a BA? What are some good ways to refocus my mind so that I'm more concerned with the people around me than if guys like me or not?
2007-01-24 18:37:42 · 2 answers · asked by Eyerichlassie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Answers welcome! :)
2007-01-24 18:54:43 · update #1
Well, the bad news is you will probably never stop thinking about guys.
The GOOD news is, that's ok! There is nothing wrong with thinking about guys, talking to guys, and dating while you're in college.
I went away to my state university and made a lot of friends, had a couple of bfs, AND graduated with a BA (with good grades) and on time.
It can happen.
You're an adult now. You can manage your time (and your mind) and live a full, and diverse lifestyle -- packed with anything you dang well please.
Good luck, girl! :)
2007-02-01 16:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will always be there. However, an opportunity to get an education won't.
2007-02-01 12:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋