There's this guy at my gym, he's actuaaly a trainer there, and my problem, is the fact that I don't know if he's flirting with me or not.For instance, around christmas, he came up to me and asked me how my holidays and I told him it was okay, then he asked me, who did I spend it with.And then there was another occasion where he came up to me and told me I looked sad, and wanted to see me smile, and as I was leaving asked me when will I be back.I'm thinking , well maybe he's just being friendly, but he's always telling me to text message him for trainer sessions, and i told him several times, I'm a broke *** college student, and I cannot afford them, but then he's still asking me to told me to call him on his cell phone for a free session, and he told me not to worry about it...and i actually told him, that I wasn't intrested in the free session he's trying to push on me...so he comes up to me tonight asking me about it again, and I went ahead and did it..but it's like damn..
2007-01-24 18:42:52 · 6 answers · asked by Brooke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't fall for that game he's just trying to get a commission and some *** or flirtation on the side. You put this in marriage and so I am believing you are married. Is some muscle meat head worth losing what you have at home and think about how you would want your mate to react to that kind of disrespect. It's like in high school there were female sluts as well as male sluts and don't let yourself be used. If he was so bold to ask you how many others do think he has asked before you. Fight the feeling and take all the urge on your workout. Loose the weight start looking even better and let him wish he could have you for a private session.
2007-01-24 18:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by fabulosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I def think this guy likes you! At first I just though he was being friendly, but when a guy wants you to text or call him heaps thats a pretty good sign! Does he ever text you? No guy texts a girl if he isnt at least interested, and if he does, it means hes thinkin about you! I think you should go 4 it, have fun and good luck! :-)
2007-01-25 02:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just being friendly and trying to drum up business. If you are interested in him, then give him a signal and see if he asks you out.
2007-01-25 02:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first keep ur mind calm and think.
because u will get a best result when ur alone and allow ur mind to think in all the ways but dont get confused . as a friend i can say u
u should only decide ur future
2007-01-25 03:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by sili r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put him to the test.ask him if he gives all free sessions to the ladies or just certain ones? if certain ones then ask how did i get so privileged? get the idea? then ask if your interested if he would like to take you to a movie as you say you cant afford it. you will know. thanks
2007-01-25 02:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by fancy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is personally interested. Let him know you are or aren't but let him so you can get on with why you are really at the gym.
2007-01-25 02:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by Timf4515 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋