my bf last night called me at 1 : 30 am to go out with him , becuse my parents are away so its me and my sisters are at home .. so i told him i cant i dont want to go out its so late and lets c each other tomorrow at the right time so he yeld at me and is angrey with me so he says to me im a layer i just dont want to c him ?? so i said its not true . so now hes ignoring me he says its a chance to go out at night when your parents are out ..what should i do and what should i say to him ? im I worong or he is ?
2007-01-24 18:40:43 · 10 answers · asked by amyhamad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's soo wrong. No guy is worth getting in trouble for. If he really loves you and respects you he wouldn't even think about risking getting you in trouble.
2007-01-24 18:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by xSilverStarx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U R right. There is not a need to be out at this time of the morning. His getting angry is a red flag about his intentions of calling on you at such an unreasonable hour, and also he may be abusive in nature. Too many girls have settled for just anybody just so they can say they have a relationship and ignore the signs of a potentionally abusive relationship that could end in death. Don't compromise you dignity and what your parents have taught you about self respect. Let him be mad and let him go. You have nothing to apologize for. Keep focused on you education, pursue your dreams and aspirations in life. You seem to be an intelligent person, don't do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable to please someone else. The decision you make today, will it be a positive or negative memory? Will it help or hinder your goals in life? Life is too short to deal with people that don't respect your decisions. Don't let any boy tell you they love you and then expect you to do anything your parents wouldn't permit you to do. At this stage in your young life , the true meaning of love isn't understood, for that matter there are grown-ups that don't know the meaning. I don't know if you attend church or believe in God, but His love for you will out-weigh any love you will ever know, and He knows already who He wants you to spend your life with. Hold on to your principles and virginity, sex isn't all it is made out to be, unless it is in marriage and then it is more than you could imagine. But you also want to be involved with someone that you can talk to and have fun with even if you don't have sex. And before I close, don't be fooled by anyone that says a certain act isn't sex, if it feels or looks like it, then it is, and you can get STD's, HIV/AIDS. Your bf not forgiving you once you have explained your reasons for not wanting to do this won't keep you from Heaven or tomorrow. Whenever you open your eyes, you can be assured that it was God that knew you were worth His Son's life to see another day and was blessed with another opportunity to fulfill your destiny, not mankind. His forgiveness is most important.
2007-01-25 03:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by cassandr.l@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u didn't do any wrong, u just did right 100%, he is a baby that he didn't understand him..
don't call him, u must to ignore him not him..
he did wrong and if really love u he never act like that yelling because u saying no..
don't drop one tear because of someone never worth..
so u just calm down and he must regret what he did... never say sorry and for what to forgive u, u didn't do anything wrong...
cheer up it's a sign that it's not for u.. just open your eyes if he don't use u..
what he want to do at 1;30 am tell me.. he want to use u that he got angry.. so wake up and look what happened don't lose a min in crying and blame yourself u are stronger and doing the right thing... good luck
2007-01-25 02:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't make you go out after hours, especially because you have the sense not to. He's the wrong one here. Might want to let him know that he can't get mad at you because you're not doing everything he wants. You're a big part in the relationship too.
2007-01-25 02:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by Morphage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you actually like him that much that you will let him yell at you? I mean I wouldnt even worry about it if you didnt want to go you didnt want to go. It seems like he had other plans to do with you and Im sure its not something your parents would approve of (lol!) but honestly I wouldnt worry about him. If he cant respect your decision then move on.
2007-01-25 02:48:28 · answer #5 · answered by babi_gurl513 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is wrong.
Tell him to come over to your house or something if your parents are away. As long as you two don't do anything.
Maybe you like waking up early anyways
2007-01-25 02:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by Dave ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems to me that your bf needs a little growing up to do. I wouldn't sweat it, don't show him that he can control you by making you apologize for his childish behavior. The last thing anyone needs is a whiner who poutes when they don't get their way.
2007-01-25 02:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by matt82682 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell him to grow up.. he obviously is immature and doesn't know how to handle a real relationship, for him to get mad over something that stupid is a waste of your time.. you should dump him and find a guy that knows how to act his age and not his shoe size :) :) :)
2007-01-25 02:49:53 · answer #8 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax and make him understand the situation properly,...and promise him for the next time..I
f he loves you truly then he will understand your problem...
2007-01-25 02:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by roony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but of course.
2007-01-25 03:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by thevillageidiotxxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋