Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

2007-01-23 15:58:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been talking with a good friend from HS, there was always a chemistry between us. My husband works out of town all week and comes home on weekends and hunts and fishes and hangs with the guys. Although I do not believe he would ever cheat, I have told him I need him to be a husband and that I didnt feel important because he is never here. I am a stay at home mother of 2 and this is very out of character. I have even planned to do this and cancelled like 12 times, but tonight, it just felt right, and though I love my husband, I cant stop thinking about this friend, wondering if and when I will see him again. His life is complicated and I know nothing more than sex and friendship could come of this but he makes me feel important and he gives me his time and thinks of me, all of what my husband does not. I dont know what to do

2007-01-23 15:58:21 · 38 answers · asked by notso_recoveringwino 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my partner for just over 3 and a half year. We have a child together. There was a period of time that when he needed me the most I wasnt there if he. Then b4 long I know he was seeing this lady and doing stuff with her that should have been me. I know want he wants and needs in a relationship. He has told me that he is in love with two woman and now he is taking time-out to sort his feeling out. He has told me "when I get back I hope you will still be here". What should I do show him that I do love him and want to be with him or should I just leave? I need help or advice? I do LOVE him and I do want to stay with him.

2007-01-23 15:57:31 · 14 answers · asked by life_is_2_short_2_waste 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is really great. I think I am attracted to her. Trouble is she is my boyfriends bestfriends girlfriend. Complicated eh? She is always looking deep into my eyes, commenting on my looks. Gets into my personal space. It actually turns me on. I don't know what to do. I think that if given the opportunity I would. How would I innitiate an encounter. Would I be able to keep it secret? Anyone else have any similar experience to lend an honest answer? Suggestions? I don't want grafic stories, just advice. Thank you.

2007-01-23 15:57:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf wants this mp3 player badly and i want to get it for him but i need 70 dollars more. i can't get a job anywhere and i need to make money. what do i do (i know i don't have to get it but i really want to)

2007-01-23 15:56:30 · 4 answers · asked by girly 1 in Singles & Dating

my b-day is this Easter no ones gonna come to my party so i might not have one
what should i do
NO DUMB ANSWERS

2007-01-23 15:55:46 · 14 answers · asked by nat~nat 1 in Family

easy to misunderstand hard to understand

2007-01-23 15:54:41 · 6 answers · asked by sundaram s 1 in Family

2007-01-23 15:54:29 · 22 answers · asked by maha k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have the hardest time trusting and opening up to people. Especially lately, the past couple of years or so, I don't know how to beat this. First, the guy I fell in love with (first love) turned out to only go out with me out of a bet. He was my first boyfriend...that was the end of my love life....

The first bestfriend, the first person other than my family I ever trusted, back stabbed me, told everyone I am copying people. The second one stopped being friends with me because I supposedly went out with the guy she liked behind her back..NEVER DID..but she wouldn't let me explain myself and that was that.. The third one just stopped talking to me out of the blue because I couldn't make it to her birthday party (I was very very sick). The last one turned out to be liar and a sneaky person where I had shared everything about myself she had kept secret about herself. That and other things she did made me think about our friendship and I broke it off. I am so depressed. Please help!

2007-01-23 15:53:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

going out for 3 years. he is already moving on. i keep calling him and he is always on the other line with the other girl. he sweet talked me and i fell for it. i love him but hate him for what he did to me. He goes to my school and frankly, i don't want to see him but i miss him for a crazy resason. he's done things so out of character. it's not the person i fell in love with... he changed. the other girl is not even his type!!! i don't get out much so how do i get over him? I cry over him every night because i actully thought that we had something. How do i get over him? i am not a got get em kind of person. HELLP i can't stand the tears!

2007-01-23 15:53:21 · 10 answers · asked by can'ywait2getoutofhere 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 15:52:47 · 28 answers · asked by ritu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 15:52:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met this girl at the beginning of the school year who was in a relationship that ended about week or two ago. I felt a connection to this girl I’ve never felt before and I was happy when they broke up because I knew they weren’t a good match, but i hated seeing her cry. I decided to wait a week or two before I asked her out so she could get herself together. over the weekend though I thought about how I’ve spent my whole life waiting and never been able to make a move because I was too shy but when I thought about how if I waited too long I may be too late and never know whether we'd make a good couple and I decided I would at least let her know I like her on Monday. So on Monday I was talking to her and she told me that she and a friend of hers had decided to try dating and that he was a partial bf. After I heard that I couldn’t stop thinking about how I always missed chances due to my shyness and even now when I found a girl I was making an effort to see everyday, I walked with her to her bus, and would do anything to see her smile and again I’m too late. My question is am I too late or do I still have a chance since she said he’s only a partial boyfriend? Should I tell her how I feel? I can’t take this drama someone please tell me what I should do.

2007-01-23 15:52:14 · 15 answers · asked by yuske012003 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 15:51:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You were falling thru some pit, and you can't scream, and you don't reach the end of the pit...You just keep falling deeper and deeper and deeper?

2007-01-23 15:51:09 · 12 answers · asked by The Isht! 2 in Friends

me and this guy dated for 2 yrs.it was problematic in the beginning but talking helped.we still argued sometimes,but rarely.we'd met eachother's parents/friends and were serious.then he mentioned marriage but i wasn't ready.i got a bit scared and dumped him over the phone/refused to see him for 5 months.our mutual friends told me that he was heartbroken.i didn't date anyone during this time bc my heart was set on him.we tried to make it work again,but i have a habit of dumping him everytime he psses me off.one day i dumped him and this time he refused to get back together.we both dated other people,and he started a relationship with a new girl.i realized what i'd lost and tried to get him back but he was intent on this new relationship.he continued to call/see me though,and would tell me that he still had feelings for me but wanted to make it work with that new girl.it confused/hurt me.then she dumped him and he came back to me.we never fight anymore and he's sweeter than ever. ADVICE?

2007-01-23 15:50:44 · 8 answers · asked by vachel 1 in Singles & Dating

Do they vary by location?

2007-01-23 15:50:43 · 13 answers · asked by MJ 2 in Weddings

hi pals
i m madly in love with a guy from past 3 years we r from same place
wen i told him about my love he was happy to accept it
he always says that he loves me but in these 3 years he met me only for 4 times he always tells me that he will call me ut never calls.he never fulfils any comitment. and finds reasons to fight with me.
still i love him but i m not able to understand that he really loves me or not????plz tell me wat shall i do

2007-01-23 15:50:38 · 7 answers · asked by jill 2 in Singles & Dating

I have came to the conclusion i am just to nice! Everyone especially the kids in my Senior class just run all over me! and around, on top, to the side etc, but i dont know how to tell them the n word..okay ill say it... No ..sheesh see how hard that was? I love being nice to people but i dont like to be taken advantage of, is there some way i can do both? Or maybe you could show me a nice insult? But dont use me as a demostration, im sensitive.....lol...seriously though if you can help thanks!

2007-01-23 15:50:05 · 4 answers · asked by nessa 2 in Friends

2007-01-23 15:49:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for the perfect gift for my sister. She has everything though. I would like to get her something really amazing or meaningful. She's really into disneyworld and i always wanted to get her name engraved on the disney grounds outside the park but disney stopped doing that. Any suggestions...

2007-01-23 15:49:35 · 11 answers · asked by Mike M 2 in Family

I just moved to a new city where I know no one. I'm having a hard time finding people to do social things with, and I don't necessarily want to do the club/bar scene alone. Any tips for meeting new people?

2007-01-23 15:49:24 · 4 answers · asked by k 3 in Friends

we have 2 kids (11mo and 4 yrs) i would have to be at home with

2007-01-23 15:49:05 · 13 answers · asked by hottie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

E'body is going for some sort of guy these days, so would you date a geek, even if your friends don't think he's good e'nuf for you?
And would you date a virgin, ever?

2007-01-23 15:47:29 · 12 answers · asked by The Isht! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 15:46:13 · 12 answers · asked by #1 D-Backs fan 1 in Singles & Dating

so i like this guy lets call him M and hes cute and funny amazing eyes...and i hav liked this other guy off and on 4 2 years (lets call him O) and i saw him a few days ago and he would NOT STOP STARING AT ME!!! and his really cute blue eyes are so dreamy, and totaly nice and great sense of humor cute too! but i see O tommorrow night again and im like sooo nervous, but then i wanna see M at the same time....what guy should i go for? and which one do u think i like?

2007-01-23 15:46:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with this guy...many times (please don't tell me that I should get rid of him. If I could do that, I would) and we've finally gotten "back together" but not exactly. At the moment we're more in a "friends with benefits" type thing but we've always had this "committed non relationship, relationship" thing. I don't know, it's REALLY hard to explain. But recently, I figured out (finally) just how much I really do love this guy. How do I tell him I'm ready to take things to the next level and really be together?

2007-01-23 15:45:47 · 12 answers · asked by silence_within_chaos 2 in Singles & Dating

i was dating this girl and talked everyday, had a lot of fun and never argued. recently she asked me to give her space though. it's been 5 days now...how much longer should i wait? and then should i text her or something? i was thinking like "just want to say hi, have a good day" or something? please help bc i hurts to wait really miss her thanks!

2007-01-23 15:45:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm completly obsessed with my gf and i love her to death. But, it seems like she doesn't do the same stuff i would do for her. I always want to talk to her 24/7. She talks to me a lot but, is always the one to get off the phone. And I always plan way ahead of time to see her but, she waits until the last minute and sometimes can't see me. I feel like i love her more then she loves me bc of stuff like this. Am i right? or are people just different?

2007-01-23 15:44:46 · 18 answers · asked by yungpuller 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 15:44:45 · 14 answers · asked by Levitra K 1 in Weddings