Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

please help.. I'd like to be settled and to have a family, I'm 26...

But the one prospect I'm interested resides in another town. That would mean I quit my job and go to him..

I'm so confused, what's the solution to this kind of problem? Give up and look for a husband around my town, or give up my career growth in this great job I have here........

(and go job hunting all over again to the new town.. I'm afraid my skills may not be easily transferrable, and I would loose out on my career).

Your advise would be welcome.... God bless!

2007-01-23 17:00:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

iam in love with someone else man but we been talking for a year and i am in love wih him what should i do

2007-01-23 17:00:02 · 9 answers · asked by darknluvly19 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 16:57:19 · 25 answers · asked by sm81206 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not ugly. Some guys like me. However, I'm not Barbie.

2007-01-23 16:57:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm fed up with my life being this way!!I have decided to leave my husband but i fear my life..at first I was leaving him for someone else but now I know I have to do this for me and me only.I am used to being taken care of and never had a job in my life(my family is wealthy) I was brought up overseas and never finished high school.....so Im worried that when I leave i cant support myself...help from my family is out of the question...I have to do this on my own and Im scared....I seriously fear for my life if i leave him and thats what has been holding me back...I have been controlled all my life and I'm sick of it...How can I make it on my own? Will I always have to fear him finding me? Any advice would help.....thank you and God bless.

2007-01-23 16:56:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 16:56:13 · 9 answers · asked by lmao 2 in Singles & Dating

I was unsure of my feelings for this guy, and we didn't talk very much. It seemed like he did sort of have feelings towards me so I decided to ask him to Sadies. I asked him on Monday and the answer he gave me was that "I have to check what i'm doing this weekend and i'll let you know". Well he didn't tell me today and the dance is on Friday, I know, shame on me for asking on such short notice but whatever. I interpret his answer as a no, especially since he didn't tell me anything today, even though he clearly had many chances to. What do you think?

2007-01-23 16:55:03 · 4 answers · asked by Cece 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend goes to university in the town where i live, but goes home for the summer(4 months). Last summer he drove a female friend home from work every night..and called her almost every day.. I should also mention he didn't even call me every day..and was often angry and mean to me (calling me names and getting mad over nothing) and he didnt come to visit me as he did previous summers.. I've found out that he still calls her..and it makes me uncomfortable. He swears that they are just friends, and gets angry with me if I try to talk about it.Am I just being jealous and insecure?

2007-01-23 16:53:19 · 15 answers · asked by joan r 1 in Singles & Dating

I have never had a boyfriend before, but I had older men like me around the 18 years of age. How do I get one near my age of 14? I don't try to get a boyfriend because my friends have one, it's because I want to know what it feels like to be loved that's not in my family and is a boy. I'm really troubled. Please Help!!!

2007-01-23 16:52:04 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

She told me that when she looks in the mirror she likes what she sees but it seems like no one else seems to see what she sees because they are always calling her names. They say people who talk about you are sometimes jealous but can it seriously be that many jealous girls out there. I say girls because guys usually like her for who she is. Any words of encouragement that I can give her.

2007-01-23 16:51:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we have known each other for some time, He is single and 32 and I am 21。I am one of his most impressing student. He knows i have crush on him, until last week I sent him an email to ask him out（ since he is not my prof now）, and he replied saying that "You are a lovely young woman, and I enjoy talking with you when you visit my
office. But for several reasons, I need for our relationship to remain
professional. " He doesn't teach me this term, but i still take course under his collegues, and if we involved ppl will prob think we r hooked up since i was his student.. and obvious it is bad for his reputation if he involves... but i just wonder does he feel like me in romantic way, and r there any chances if i wait

2007-01-23 16:51:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First of all, I want you to know that I am 6 weeks away from giving birth, so my hormones could be playing a part in this. For the last 4 months, my husband has been in another state working for the military. I am stuck in my state because I have family here to help me in case I go into labor early. But this is why I ask, lately, my husband turns his phone off at night, and relativly early, around 7 at nihgt, he gets drunk to the point of being baligerant, and he originally got a laptop at the beginning of this deployment so he could talk with me and our daughter at night time, and we havent spoken on the computer in weeks. I cant track his spending because he uses his government credit card for everything. I just got back from visiting him last month, and I saw nothing out of the norm, but that doesnt mean he just stopped doing whatever could be bad for the week I was there. Im a little worried he might be cheating on me. Should I have him followed just to make sure he isnt cheating?

2007-01-23 16:51:04 · 21 answers · asked by etrombetta41402 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Grandma just passed away and i wanted to know what is a good song to play her so she knows she is still with her

2007-01-23 16:51:02 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Weddings

2007-01-23 16:49:46 · 11 answers · asked by anand 1 in Friends

i have a 3 year old and i am ready to have another child. in fact, i've been ready for over a year. the problem is, my husband is totally against the idea. we've fought about this countless times and it is actually depressing me. maybe it's childish of me to think so, but i'm wondering how someone can deny the person they love the one thing they want more than anything else in this world. honestly, i don't know if our marriage can survive this. i know he has a right to live his life the way he wants, but i don't know if i can ever forgive him for denying our son a sibling and me another child.
what should i do? i don't want to 'accidentally' get pregnant...i'm against trickery. i'm also 36 years old and don't want to conceive after 38.
if anyone has some good advice, i would greatly appreciate it. i'm not looking to find out how to change his mind.i've tried every argument, i need to find out how i can live with the idea of not having another child and how to 'forgive' my dh.

2007-01-23 16:48:57 · 23 answers · asked by enroute_bc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello, this may sound stupid, but I'm 18 and I have lived with my mom since I was 2. She has severe bipolar disorder, and takes many medications for it, but still can have cycles where she has been in critical state (ie in mental hospitals, showing schizophrenia (hallucinations) etc.] And even though I'm an adult technically now I still feel ultra sensitive sometimes and still never know what to expect from her. I love her very much but often she can act quite peculiar and say harsh or irrational things, and I am STILL not used to it, I don't think I ever have been. I'm an only child and my dad doesn't talk much and I have talked to a psychologist about it before (she has a psychiatrist as well) but it never seems to ever really clear up. Today she said some really hurtful things and it made me cry which made me feel uber sensitive nd weak but its hard because its hard for me to talk to ppl aout it. No one seems to want to listen. I don't know.

2007-01-23 16:48:55 · 8 answers · asked by genuine♥ 3 in Family

I have been married for almost 5 years. My wife cheated on me with a co-worker on a few occaisions about 1 1/2 years after our marriage. I think she was in love with the guy but she denied it. Everytime I begin to get past it he somehow comes back into our lives. He will call her about every 6 months(that I know of) and I overheard her friend ask how he was while they were talking on the phone last month( I wasn't eavesdropping, we were sitting next to each other having dinner and she said it loud enough for me to hear)I haven't felt close to her since I found out about it and I don't think I ever will. I try to live a normal and happy life and provide one for my family but it is very difficult. I try to kiss my wife and she just likes to give a quick peck and pull away. We only have sex once a month at most. She is a great mother to our children and is a hard worker but I don't think she is attracted to me physically, but loves me otherwise. ANy advice would be much appreciated!

2007-01-23 16:48:53 · 23 answers · asked by yellowstone34 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while, i cant see she wants to take it to the next level--she is constanly looking at condoms--how do i say that im okay with it but have a few problems with it without seeming to commanding and overpowering

2007-01-23 16:46:46 · 11 answers · asked by J-man1037 2 in Singles & Dating

usually in school i don't want to speak or discuss with friends on issues that seems doesn't concern me.With my boy friend when he asks me whether i love him or not i prefer not to speak even a word rather i keep quit and look at some thing else.Due to this my boy friend get upset and some times we departed with this mood.What can i do to solve this problem,How can i improve to speak on such issues especially with my boyfriend.U know i love him but my mouth doesn't open to confess my love to him.Plz i am looking forward to your practicable Advice or your expriance on this problem.
Thank u

2007-01-23 16:45:48 · 17 answers · asked by betelehem T 1 in Singles & Dating

This is my junior year in college as a pre-med student....Its only the 2nd week of classes and I'm already stressed out beyond belief. There are times when I just want to throw my books out the window and just quit....but I know that once I finish all my education it will all pay off in the end.

Who else is just as stressed out as me from school????

2007-01-23 16:45:13 · 6 answers · asked by shymegan008 1 in Family

if so, why?

2007-01-23 16:43:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i would like to know around how much it cost and how many people have attended. i checked the website but there not really detailed.

2007-01-23 16:42:58 · 2 answers · asked by woohoo 1 in Weddings

i tried to break up with this person but I literally made me sick inside not being with him

2007-01-23 16:42:20 · 24 answers · asked by ashleyglanton2004 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has imposed a curfew on me and I must now be in by 10pm every evening. This friday though, my friend has invited me out to see a play with her which doesn't finish till 10.30pm and I wouldn't be home till 11pm. I know I'm not allowed to be out till then but my husband will be out with his buddies that night (and usually doesn't get back till 2 or 3am!) so he would probably never know. Do you think I should risk it??

2007-01-23 16:41:38 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If i ask my friend out and she says shes got a reception to go to for school that friday with her friend whose a girl should i ask her out again or is that a "no" answer? NOTE: we are good friends and work together she didnt seem to be surprised or like "ewww he asked me out" on her face so...??????

2007-01-23 16:41:03 · 15 answers · asked by genpattonwwii 2 in Singles & Dating

I believe everyone is entitled to a second chance if they are truley remorseful.

What do you guys think?

2007-01-23 16:40:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi
I am a married male but my spouse is not interested in sexual activities unlike me,I dont want to be unfaithful to her.
Could you suggest some medicines which i can give her so that our married life can be saved.
Its very embrassing for me to goto counselling or such things.Please suggest some locally available medicines which i can give her through some drinks or something without her knowing so that after a while she will get used to it and even without medicines we can enjoy a healthy sex life

2007-01-23 16:40:04 · 17 answers · asked by kaddy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-23 16:39:54 · 17 answers · asked by sosweet 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you walked in on your brother and your girlfriend 'making the Hell out'? Not that It has ever happened to me,but What if it happened to ya?

2007-01-23 16:38:41 · 23 answers · asked by The Isht! 2 in Singles & Dating

I was thinking it might be from the heart..but it could also be cheap in a way.

2007-01-23 16:38:27 · 12 answers · asked by - 2 in Weddings