i tried to break up with this person but I literally made me sick inside not being with him
2007-01-23 16:42:20 · 24 answers · asked by ashleyglanton2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, I am sorry to hear that. Second, you can sit around and let him decide or you could decide. This is not only a matter of your bf getting someone else pregnant. It's also a matter of breach of your trust. It's a betrayal. An emotional betrayal. Your heart's hurt and your ego's trampled by him getting someone else pregnant. The pregnancy shouts infidelity. He will never be rid of the other woman, because they now share an attachment. They now share a bond that you do not have. I am sorry to be blunt but that's the truth. Circumstances could be such that his family or her family will force them to be together for the sake of the baby. Welcome to the world, people don't necessarily get together because of love. Leave him. The hurt inside will not go away until you decide to let go a little each day. It will not be easy, so, latch on someone who will be there for you. Cry if you must. But, do not shed too much for that heartless "bf" who put you in such a state. Be glad that you've discovered his true colours now. God bless ya, hon.
2007-01-23 16:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him NOW. I am sure that it hurts to think of you two no longer being together, but the actually pain will go away. It can be hard at first, but you just have to be tough. There are many reasons why you should leave him.
1. He cheated on you!
2. He got another girl pregnant which means that he was not using a condom.
3. You could get a STD from his carelessness.
4. He has betrayed your trust.
5. Once a cheat, always a cheat.
6. He has a baby on the way which means not as much time/money for you. (that is if he is a half-way decent human.)
7. HE CHEATED ON YOU!
2007-01-23 16:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will get over it honey. theres no guy out there that is worth your self-esteem or self respect .If he cheated on you in the first place he should be dropped let alone have a baby.not to mention he probably doesn't have much respect for his self to be sleeping around un protected when you know you have a girlfriend.this guy is deadly he could have came back with something more than a baby.besides now there's a new chick in the picture it will be nothing but drama here on out.baby's mama drama your probably young with a whole life ahead of you dont waste it on a loser.now he has a baby he has bigger problems let him deal with them on his own you dont need the stress.find a new guy friend to pass the time away try doing things to keep your mind off him it will get easier in time.let him be the one to regret it
2007-01-23 16:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by hot choclate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And it makes you sick NOT being with him. My EX husband cheated on me and had a baby with the other woman. I was married to this man!!! When I found out it made me sick to stay with him. He was having unprotected sex with me and her at the same time. There are too many diseases flying around out there to do some crap like that. If you feel that you deserve to be treated like that then stay with him. You are better than that, you don't deserve to be cheated on or disrespected and the trust has to be gone. Not only that but he has to see and deal with this other woman now because they have a child together. Leave him alone, I know it hurts like hell right now but you will get over it. It took me a long time and a God sent man to get me over it but I am now and he's begging me to come back to him. People in hell have a better chance of getting ice water than he ever does of getting me back. I deserve better and I am worth more. It was his loss, not yours.
2007-01-23 18:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by ladystarrchild107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you prepared to settle for destiny collateral damages? Seeing as you broke up with him dissimilar situations, there could desire to be some thing approximately him that usually injury you in some way. Is he in charge? injuries do ensue, yet he's gonna have a baby quickly (provided that the mum would not choose to abort). Has he shown valid subject for the undeniable fact that he's bringing a baby into the international, man or woman who won't get to be together with his/her father? that's truly helpful to sleep on it. it extremely is a lot much less complicated to guard a man or woman once you're secure from his collateral injury. it may desire to grow to be a dramatic fact verify once you're making impulsive judgements. What you experience now won't inevitably be what you will experience interior the destiny. Unconditional love is a virtually impossible feat. You leave out a man or woman greater once you haven't any longer seen or truly spoken to him/her for long sessions of time. Spend it sluggish with him. parent it out by own experience. avert tying your self down. greater importantly, avert making helpful-shot judgements/comments till now spending that element with him.
2016-11-26 22:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, there are over 6 billion people in the world, nearly half of whom are male. You deserve so much better than a guy who will cheat on you and father another woman's child in the process. He is unfaithful, and if you let him treat you this way, he will believe he can do it all the time. You don't always find your "soulmate" on the first try, and if he's cheating now, he is NOT your one and only, and you obviously are not his. Get rid of him now, your heart will mend and forgive you, I promise.
2007-01-23 16:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Congradulations you are a step mother..................... jokes aside. Dump him, even if you feel sick bout it you will get over it, now that chik he impregnated will always be in his life coz of the kid. and what makes you think the chik he made pregnant was not his girlfriend as well, so dont say another girl, probably a third one will come along as well with a big belly
2007-01-23 18:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it may be you need to leave him.Otherwise being with him might literally make you sick. His behavior is putting you at risk for HIV and a number of other illnesses. Think about your life and let him go.
2007-01-23 16:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me.if you are sick now, think what going ot happen for the
next 9 months, he really going to make you il. you need to move]on it about respect and cheated on you that bad but to get this
girl pregnant, that would be something that i would not allow
to happen. he with her regardless of what happen with you,
for the next 18 years.. and you really dont need the drama. cut
him loose and move. on. also if he did it once, why dont you
think he wont do it again. once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-01-23 16:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do U love him? If not don't hesitate to leave him.The problem is if u love him,in such case ask him why he did this to u ,discuss on the issue how he did this to U. If still he loves u Tell him te leave the other girl and come to u.Perhaps u made a mistake in accompanying him or entertaining with him.
2007-01-23 16:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by betelehem T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋