Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

My fiance's 2 cousins have been mad at us for an incident that happened 5 mths ago. (To make a long story short, one of the cousins who was receiving housing assistance was allowing her mom & brother to live with her; little did we know that her mom was telling the Social Security dept. that she was living with us (so she could keep her dissability benefits and her daughter could keep her low income) they got us involved to the point where a detective asked us ?'s and neither my fiance nor I was about to lie for them. Since we didn't lie for them, that is the reason why they are mad at us. So they talked bad about us for quite some time but now everything has calmed down but they still don't talk to us. We do see them at the grocery store and at a local club and they don't make any effort to talk to us. Do I send an invite & let them make the choice themselves if they don't want to come...but we don't want them to come and talk bad about us during our wedding either..what would u do?

2007-01-23 16:14:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

that she wants to be able to dance with her guy friends... she assures me its only like fun dancing, at the bar.. i believe her as we trust eachother very much ... i used to be against dancing with other guys .. but i think i trust her and she won't do nething am i stupid by saying i dont mind if she dances with her guy friends at the bar??

2007-01-23 16:14:06 · 7 answers · asked by bob 1 in Singles & Dating

okay i am in a somewhat abusive relationship...my boyfriend was beat all of his life and ended up in foster care when he was fifteen he does not understand how to have a normal relationship without fighting. he does not hit me but pushes and screams. He is going to counseling and we are not living together anymore. he is even thinking about going into the army. but i want to know if anyone knows a guy who actually did change. i know that usually guys just continue to be abusive.

2007-01-23 16:13:12 · 9 answers · asked by n&z-mama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ya so you got some suggestions to solve my bordom

2007-01-23 16:13:00 · 7 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 16:12:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am most proud of straying from my fake friends and being able to know who my real friends are. For that, I've been able to stay out of a lot of trouble.

2007-01-23 16:11:40 · 11 answers · asked by in_myownxx 1 in Friends

2007-01-23 16:10:28 · 4 answers · asked by sweet_leaf 7 in Family

I dont think I will be able to live without her! How can I show that I love her that much? and how can I know whether she likes me or not!

2007-01-23 16:09:37 · 10 answers · asked by cheetah 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok there is this girl that i have feelings for but i dont kno what kind of feeling it is.

2007-01-23 16:09:20 · 13 answers · asked by lindsey f 1 in Singles & Dating

this is mainly for guys, although if a girl knows the answer to this, she can answer as well. =]

anyway, guys, what to you find attractive in girls? what do you look for? what are some qualities that you like girls to have? (please, don't be like "sexy and big bo obs!!" give me some REAL answers!)

2007-01-23 16:08:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need everyone's help. I am thinking of a place where people going through difficult life time can encourage one another.

For example, someone that just lost his/her job, someone with cancer, sickness, divorce etc can be encouraged at the site.

I'd like to know what everyone thinks of this name.

I am open to your suggestions too.

Thank you

2007-01-23 16:08:22 · 4 answers · asked by sholiviks2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a felony for robbery at 18 and feel with the felony and a college degree i still wont get a good job

2007-01-23 16:07:54 · 16 answers · asked by will d 1 in Singles & Dating

there is like so many people asking for help on here to get with some one, break up with some one ,and watever else. and most of the time they act selfish and arent really concerned about the other persons feelings.(whos invovled) .its like yall dont care about anybody elses feelings but your own. some of you just ask these questions with out thinking about the other person involved. you think of how you want to be happy and only wat you want.im going to be honest i myself have asked a question on here with out thinging about thatgus feelings. i was only consered with wat i needed at the time and wat would make me happy. thats probably why most of the relationships that you want to go on actually end the way they do . doesnt it matter to yall how the other person feels about it? how come theres so many people being inconciderate now? can someone just think about it and answer these questions .

2007-01-23 16:07:40 · 7 answers · asked by tina2000 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a bf and we have been going out 4 2 months, y hasent he kissed me? what should i do?

2007-01-23 16:06:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend who is obsessed with this long deceased actress has recently informed me that she has purchased her own burial plot at the same cemetary where this star is buried out in California. I think she is taking her obsession too far and needs help. What do you think?

2007-01-23 16:06:23 · 11 answers · asked by Lori T 2 in Friends

When we get on a elevator or elsewhere he put his arm around me....he asks if i want to eat lunch together every other day......sticks up for me and smiles when he sees me.....so what do you think?

2007-01-23 16:06:03 · 10 answers · asked by Lindsay H 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 16:05:27 · 16 answers · asked by justsomerandomson 1 in Family

2007-01-23 16:05:25 · 4 answers · asked by sarahwf1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How does a telemarketer get ur husbands number if they have NO bank accounts,NO credit cards,NO bills in his name,PHONE NUMBER IN PHONE BOOK IS IN WIFE'S NAME NOT HIS,NEVER entered a contest,NO magazines subscriptions,NO cell phone,NEVER entered any sweepstakes,NEVER bought anything over the phone and DOESNT go on the internet

2007-01-23 16:04:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 16:04:01 · 10 answers · asked by ashley2004to19852001 1 in Singles & Dating

ok he came up to me and said"hey there's this girl and we're just friends so how do i casualy ask her for her # w/out soundin like i want to be more than friends?" plz help him(oh btw sorry for the typos its likke 1 in the morn and im really tired lol)

2007-01-23 16:03:29 · 16 answers · asked by J p 1 in Friends

My 9 year old son has a father that shows up for visits when he feels like it and barely calls his son. I am constantly making up excuses for his dad so that my son doesn't feel like he was just blown off. I hate to lie to my son but I don't want his feelings to be hurt. I guess telling him that things came up or his dad had to work that day isn't a white lie that will cause damage to him. What do you think?

2007-01-23 16:03:27 · 21 answers · asked by Weezy 2 in Family

ex boyfriend of 1 year ago still remain friend when cross paths, he stears at me alot and when i catch him doing it he looks away with a cute smile.. i still hav feelings & we broke up b/c timing was not right he wanted to travel, & not ready 2 be a realtionnship with me or anyone.. but make an effort talk and compliment me how nice i look but when i dont pay him attention he flirts with other girls & maskes sure i am watching.. i know it's immuture.. but why is he doing it 2 get me jelous?? but when my male mates talk to me he just stears & moves in closer & checks the guy out.. i dont wanna ask him directly b/c u know what they say they will think u r waiting so they will continue to do there own thing...recently i catch his best friend starring at me seening who i was talking 2 what does that mean

2007-01-23 16:03:07 · 2 answers · asked by hi 1 in Singles & Dating

I've always wondered...

2007-01-23 16:02:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate not being able to read men. Please help me. We're coworkers but pretty good friends. And when we are out in a group he seems to pay more attention to me and directs his conversation towards me more.We hang outside of work a lot. He always hold eye contact when we talk. He always "accidentally" touches me. And he doesn't move away when I get close to him. He hugs me a lot. He'll leave comments on things saying "Thats Hot, more like Hott though" on photos. People say we look like we are dating, and I have had people ask me if he is my BF. He told me I should turn 21 sooner (my bday is in may) so we can go out for drinks. He was bummed the other night when he thought I blew him off, but I hadn't. He does make future plans in a way, and says that he really wants to go with me. What are some signs I should be looking for, and is there any direct way I can let him know I like him without saying I LIKE YOU. What are some good flirting moves?

2007-01-23 16:00:43 · 8 answers · asked by Ni-Kay! 1 in Singles & Dating

If you dumped a guy but then called him a week later and he talked to you and wanted you back but then all of a sudden went cold (not calling you back after you called him a couple of times). Would your interest level rise because he is more of a challenge? Or would you move on and not worry about it. I need honest answers......Is it more of a challenge if he seems like he is over you? This girl is calling me a lot but she dumped me and hurt me so I am reluctant to talk to her anymore. Although initially I did tell her we should work on the relationship.....

2007-01-23 16:00:26 · 13 answers · asked by D 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 15:59:36 · 14 answers · asked by doggylegsniff 1 in Singles & Dating

My family was very happy for nearly 15 years. 2 months ago, my husband betrayed me and dated with another woman. When I knew this, he decided to go with her, despite we have a happy family with very cute boy. I love my husband so much so my heart is broken. After that we agreed that we are friend now and I am encouraged with my future plan. Then his lover refused him to stay with her husband, My husband is broken heart not too much. Now we are still agreed to be good friends. I really want to find a good white man because I think white man culture is so interesting, they always love with their true love and strong feeling. I am an Asian woman and I eager to know and can love with white man since I want true love in family. Please share your experience with me about their love. What kind of woman they like?

2007-01-23 15:59:30 · 8 answers · asked by MIB 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, this is going to sound totally weird.

this guy asked me out RIGHT AFTER he asked this other girl out. she said she would "think about it", but he assumed she was going to say no, so he asked me out instead -0-

i thought it was a bad idea to go out with him since i was his second choice, but i liked him a LOT.

we ended up going out, and one day later, that other girl said, "okay". she didn't know i was already going out with him.

now here's the big problem.

he dumped me for her. and i STILL like him.

please please PLEASE don't tell me to just get over him. i really can't.

how should i get his attention again? they're not going out right now.

help):

2007-01-23 15:59:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm about to be friend with this girl and then ask her out, but i don't know what should i talk about, she's like a stranger to me, i don't know anything about her, what should i talk about???

2007-01-23 15:58:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating