Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

this girl i really like told me that last night she had a dream about us that we were laying in bed together i was wearing a jacket i wear often no shirt some pants and cheetah print shoes she was wearing a dress not sure of the color or pattern she said we but some substance on our lips kissed and died together she also said that in her head (during the dream) a voice said "dont die without him" i couldnt make anything of it just seems to remind me of romeo and juliet and ive been looking on line this is all i could find to help me with my dream anyone know of anything she doesnt understand what it meant neither do i

2007-01-23 15:42:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Next yr she wants to sign up for a fun practical arts class and drop band. She took piano lessons for 2 yrs-had to quit because of family situation. She studied Suzuki method violin & viola for 4 yrs in elementary school, and trumpet for 2 yrs in middle school band. She is a great kid, kind and good to others. Very smart-straight A's come somewhat easy for her.
Some people have said they were glad parents forced them to stay with band, others told me they wished their parents would have made them stay with band. Never heard anyone say they wish they did not stick with it. What should I do?

2007-01-23 15:41:34 · 14 answers · asked by Mom Z 1 in Family

what does it mean when you stare at a girl and she frowns

2007-01-23 15:41:28 · 8 answers · asked by natural asian 2 in Friends

I love my fiance' I just want us to be happy together forever.

2007-01-23 15:40:42 · 9 answers · asked by Levitra K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 8 months, I love this guy to death! His family love's me and my family loooovee's him. It quite honestly reminds me of my oldest sister and her husband ( my brother in law) anyways my boyfriend is 18 turning 19 next month, im turning 18 in 3 months. He contiuously ask's me if I'd marry....( I would) and if I would be the proud mother of his children ( of course in the future, after I get my BA). My question is , Is he just joking? He sounds dead serious everytime I ask him. He says he want's no other girl but me and me only. That he's gone through so many and finally found the best of them all and whatnot....Anyways....Is he joking or what?!?

2007-01-23 15:38:56 · 32 answers · asked by Esmi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, here's the deal.

First off, I'm quite shy, and not the Brad Pitt of the teen world. Anyways, I'm in the Drumline, semi-social with friends, and I lift weights and jog every other day. I think(hah) that I can be a gentleman..(open doors, pay, LISTEN, etc.)

Ok. So. Here we go.

There's this girl(I don't have any classes anymore with her, and only see her after school usually), that I've had my eye on.

I just found out about her this year, and she just found out I exsisted around last November. I haven't really approached her...I don't know exactly what to say(remember, I am extremely shy around people I don't know...and I hate it..anyways).

I want to express some how that I am at least interested without stalking or seeming creepy, and I don't want her to pass away(although there will be many more, I bet.)

I don't know what exactly to do. I think I should atleast talk to her before I do anything major...

Suggestions?....I just need to be alone w/ her to show her who I really am

2007-01-23 15:37:54 · 19 answers · asked by lifeistolong 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 15:37:18 · 13 answers · asked by RameelRaymundo 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont wanna sound rasict or anything but before I met my boyfriend he's always been in to the typical look of a woman that black guys like: Big but and big chest and big thighs.I have the exact type of body of like...a model. My but is okay, its not Too big not too small. My thighs are the same way. My waist is TINY. and since i started birth control my boobs have grown a whole cup size. i'm a 36C. Last night me and my boyfriend were talking and he said yeah he used to like the big booty type but now that he's seen my body he's like ADDICTED to girls that look like me. He LOVES victorias secret models and I do have that type of body. He said I did that to him cause he's never experienced a body like mine untill he got with me. Do you think he's saying that just to flatter me or what? I mean I like the compliment and I believe him its just that i dont take compliments very well. it makes me feel conceited and I dont like that feeling.What do you think?

2007-01-23 15:36:53 · 1 answers · asked by texastreasure 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 15:35:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Expectations of marriage too high?
Do they pick the wrong person- if so, why didn't they know it was the wrong person while they were dating or living together?
Do they not adjust when their partners change as they get older?
Are they selfish and cheat?
Lack of communication? Why didn't they learn to communicate while they were dating?
What do you think?

2007-01-23 15:34:12 · 14 answers · asked by violetkites 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 15:34:11 · 8 answers · asked by Fabs 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-23 15:34:00 · 6 answers · asked by Aija 4 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy a couple months ago, and we only talked once. During that conversation, we stared into each others eyes numerous times. Now, I notice that everytime I enter the room he's in, he stares and/or glances. I also noticed that he stands very close to me. Does this mean he thinks I'm attractive? Or am I just overanalyzing?

2007-01-23 15:33:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

called him and said she needs a ride to her boyfriends house. She hasnt even returned my call and she just beeped in while i was talking to him. he asked me should he go get her. what do i say?

she is my best friend, we have been thru so much together. Im 16 she is 17 and my bf is 20. I trust her, but i just dont understand why she couldnt ask me first. I trust my boyfriend. She has done a lot for me but, I just dont know what to think

2007-01-23 15:33:21 · 17 answers · asked by Hello!!!! 3 in Friends

My mom has this BF that she will say she hates him on day but then she will say she loves him the next?

2007-01-23 15:33:13 · 14 answers · asked by amnm222 2 in Family

Well, I'm a guy in high school, and I'm really starting to like one of my female friends. I'm not sure if she feels the same way or not. We have really great conversations, and I flirt with her a lot and stuff, but I just can't tell (her body language and stuff are impossible to read). So anyway, I'm a pretty cocky person (but in a funny way, I don't make people dislike me), and whenever I say something positive, like "I am sooo smart," she'll turn it around and say "no, you're not very smart at all." She'll kind of have a half-smile on her face. Today, she came and sat by me on the bus (she usually comes to sit by me, if that means anything) and while talking, I said "I am the most organized man on earth" and she said "no, you're like the most disorganized man on earth!" I know she's just joking, but does this mean anything, or am I over-analyzing??

2007-01-23 15:32:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 15:32:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

by calling my name alot. When I told him I was quitting the job, he said "no", with a blushed face, and said no please don't go. After I quit, he started to email me to hello from time to time and We've been emailing back and forth alot lately and it's been fun ! I'm married too with kids like him. He said he really wants to see me and would come to see me right away if I call him. Also, he said he would like to take me out to lunch. I can't tell if he likes me or not, but he talks about his wife & kids so it seems like he just wants to go out with me as a friend. Do you think I should go out to lunch with him ?

2007-01-23 15:32:05 · 11 answers · asked by . 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend and me aren't close, and have a wierd friendship where we only really get to talk on the internet because he's a year older than me and we have no classes together because of it. He's been on restriction for a while now... and i havn't really said more than a sentence or two untill today, but (in a family/brotherly way) I love im soo much and im worried that recently, since we've been so long withought talking, we're gonna grow apart and that would be soo horrible because he's alway the person i go to when i need help with stuff thats totally overwhelmed me and he's saved me many times from total mental breakdowns by helping me through it and our friendship is built on trust and helping each other...and today, the first time in 4 weeks he found me in school to talk, he caught me in a blind rage over some school stuff and i screamed at him and threw stuff at him... I appolozized profusely later, i tracked him down.. and he seems to understand, but im worried he doesnt really.

2007-01-23 15:31:39 · 9 answers · asked by janna w 2 in Friends

therss this guy ive liked for like 2 months now and today he asked me if i wanted to wear his sweatshirt cuz my world studies class is like a freaking freezer and i said i was cold. But i said no and that it was fine and i was fine but hes like no its ok really i just had pe i dont care but i kept saying like no, its alright and finally he stopped. should i just accept it if he asks me tomorow? i think he might like me but i dont rly know were like good freinds now.
But im also kinda scared cuz he saw me hugging ricky and he might think were like going out or something ( ive never hugged devyn, the other kid im talking about)
Should i have just accepted his sweatshirt?

2007-01-23 15:30:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to you,is it generally a good thing?

2007-01-23 15:30:29 · 3 answers · asked by pat t 1 in Friends

What's your opinion? Are men or women more likely to be unfaithful?

2007-01-23 15:29:13 · 16 answers · asked by Sassy Pants 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, I really like this girl, and have liked her since last year. We had one class together last year and we were friends, we even hugged sometimes. At around the middle of the year she asked me to a dance and I had to tell her I was already going with someone else. The year ended and we promised to see each other after the summer. Then this year I come to find that she is going out with some guy and whenever I said hi to her she just ignored me like she didn't know me (I changed my hair over the summer). I rarely see her and I want to get to know her better and just be friends (for now). How can I get her to recognize/befriend me again?

2007-01-23 15:28:56 · 5 answers · asked by Canyonaire 2 in Singles & Dating

If a child turns 18 years old, can the child support money be turned over to him/her?

And another question, can the money be given to the child in fractions, meaning, he/she receives a portion of the money (example: he/she would be able to receive 75% of the money from the child support)?

2007-01-23 15:28:28 · 13 answers · asked by The Initiative 314 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Qualities in a girl or woman?

2007-01-23 15:27:13 · 22 answers · asked by Jags 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend keeps accuse me of cheating him. when i dont even think about guys that way, i wouldnt NEVER ever do that. He doesnt trust me, and it hurts me

one minute hes telling me he loves me and then next minute hes telling me to never call him and give me a broken heart sign.. all because someone said they heard i was with another guy, but there lying

i have to call him and convince him that i love him and blah blah blah im so sick of it, why wont he believe me
should i stay with him?
can you tell me what you think of this situation? plz?
i need your help :(

2007-01-23 15:26:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know money is tight, and the overtime is nice, but he really doesnt spend much time with me and the boys anymore, he works both day's on the weekends, and sleeps a lot.. I feel hurt, I feel like he doesnt enjoy spending time with us, I try to tell him, but he brushes it off, and sais theres no problem.. how can I get him to understand that it bothers me? I would rather spend time with him, and see him spend time with the kids, than him make extra money, I don't think money is as important as Love, what do you think?

2007-01-23 15:26:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 15:25:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 15:24:55 · 13 answers · asked by da da 1 in Marriage & Divorce

called him and said she needs a ride to her boyfriends house. She hasnt even returned my call and she just beeped in while i was talking to him. he asked me should he go get her. what do i say?

2007-01-23 15:23:12 · 9 answers · asked by Hello!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating