by calling my name alot. When I told him I was quitting the job, he said "no", with a blushed face, and said no please don't go. After I quit, he started to email me to hello from time to time and We've been emailing back and forth alot lately and it's been fun ! I'm married too with kids like him. He said he really wants to see me and would come to see me right away if I call him. Also, he said he would like to take me out to lunch. I can't tell if he likes me or not, but he talks about his wife & kids so it seems like he just wants to go out with me as a friend. Do you think I should go out to lunch with him ?
2007-01-23 15:32:05 · 11 answers · asked by . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're married, he's married, you two are asking for trouble. Ask your husband if you should go out to lunch with him. You are a married woman and you shouldn't do something you aren't willing to let your husband know you are doing.
2007-01-23 15:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Some of the word choice needs work. For instance, a grin can't really be "narcissistic", especially within the context of the story. Maybe something better would be "cheesy" or "smug" (depending on what you actually meant by narcissistic). Also, the dialogue is kind of unrealistic. You would expect this to happen, perhaps, between two coworkers who have known eachother for about a month rather than two strangers who happened to meet at the coffee shop. Vick comes on a little strong, and an invitation to dinner is a little too deep for the situation. I would suggest that Vick offers to buy her coffee instead of inviting her to dinner.
2016-03-28 23:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No do not do this as you both are married and this just would not be right and you know it... Do not talk with him again and quite your job and get away from this temptation to do wrong and hurt your marriage and family.
2007-01-23 16:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess when one gets loads of attention one gets really flattered.
Think twice otherwise you fall into a deep dark dungeon. YOU ARE BOTH MARRIED, put your attention back to your husband. Courtship days are always beautiful but most times once we have our better half we sometimes forget to treasure them.
2007-01-23 15:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by j t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on you tramp. You know what he wants and so does he. STOP what your doing or you will end up in bed with him and divorced. You will ruin the lives of what? 5 children and spouses? STOP. get a vibrator and think about him...... then take it out on your husband...... I mean in the sack. your about to go down a slippery slope... and it ends up in bed... someone elses bed.
2007-01-23 15:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should not go out with him unless you are willing to risk losing your husband and children. You should not have any more contact with him.
2007-01-23 15:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by RY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are already out to lunch!!
2007-01-23 15:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by noga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch it girl, youre gonna regret it! it would ruin 2 families... im telling you look at all the postings on here
2007-01-23 15:37:59 · answer #8 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wake up, why don't you ask your husband? See what he thinks of your friendship.
2007-01-23 15:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he just wants to get into your pants
2007-01-24 00:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋