called him and said she needs a ride to her boyfriends house. She hasnt even returned my call and she just beeped in while i was talking to him. he asked me should he go get her. what do i say?
she is my best friend, we have been thru so much together. Im 16 she is 17 and my bf is 20. I trust her, but i just dont understand why she couldnt ask me first. I trust my boyfriend. She has done a lot for me but, I just dont know what to think
2007-01-23 15:33:21 · 17 answers · asked by Hello!!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Go for the ride w/ them!!
2007-01-23 15:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hi
I hope this will be of help to you. I can fully understand why you question why your best friend didnt ask you but instead asked your boyfriend first. I dont know if you also drive or not but just my feelings are your friend didnt even think about this being a problem for you and just acted with out thinking. Since you both have been thru so much together I would not let this simple misunderstanding spoil all the good you both have shared together It is very hard to find a friend as she and you both seem to be to each other Maybe just simple asking her why she didnt ask you would solve the situation Trust is very important in both a friend or a boy or girl friend and you are blessed to have both Your boyfriend was very thoughtful in asking you first before going to pick her up and take her and not just doing so with out your knowledge I hope this will be of help to you
2007-01-24 00:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably sit down your friend and explain to her what she is doing is not at all cool with you.
Ask her if how she would feel if the shoe was on the other foot and you snuck behind her back to call her boyfriend to drive you somewhere.
It is kind of strange she didn't call your or answer your calls.
I hope you can trust her. Good luck.
2007-01-23 23:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally, I'd say this is innocent, but if you've got concerns, it's probably for more than just this event. Your boyfriend is being upfront with you which is very very good. Give it time for everyone to calm down and not react based on emotions and then talk to your friend. Ask her about it. She may have a good reason.
2007-01-23 23:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by BPD375 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does she have his number? And why didnt she return your call or at least tell your bf to tell you that she will call you as soon as she gets to her bf's or something like that.Hmmm.Tell him if he feels like it but how far does he have to travel & does that cut into your time with him & will she make a habit out of doing this?Does her bf drive?If so,,let him pick her up.
2007-01-23 23:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should have called you first. This is the kind of friend to keep your eye on.
2007-01-23 23:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by jean 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't say I would be all that thrilled, ask her why she did not call you first..why can't your boyfriend come get you first and then your friend second??
2007-01-23 23:38:07 · answer #7 · answered by Dark Goddess 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds fishy tell him to go get her but come get you first so you can ride along and ask her wats up!
2007-01-23 23:37:15 · answer #8 · answered by twysty 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend to pick you up first then you can pick your best friend up after. :)
2007-01-23 23:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, ask yourself why she would go over you and ask your boyfriend directly to take her...
2007-01-23 23:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋