Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

2007-01-23 16:38:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it true that it hurts 4 the girl the first time she has sex? If so, how bad? Me and my gf are deeply in love w/ each other and wouldn't leave each other if our lives depended on it. We're both virgins and i'm ready to go further but I don't wanna hurt her.

2007-01-23 16:37:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've asked about this before, but I was so emotional that it didnt come out so good. There is a lot 2 it so I'll try 2 be brief. I love my husband so much, hes given me 2 wonderful kids and a life I never dreamed I would have. I would do everything 4 him. We both do not agree on daycare so I am a stay at home mom. He co-owns a business with his father. Business has picked up so he is home more. I do my best 2 keep the house picked up. My kids are 21 mo & 6 mo. The oldest is in the "terrible 2s" stage. The youngest is teething. In other words, they have been quite a handful lately & Ive had a hard time getting things done. He used 2 gripe when he came home because he said I should let the kids scream a bit & get something else done. But when hes home, he wont let them scream. He practically demands me 2 cook 4 him, even though he doesnt like my cooking, & doesnt understand why that makes me not want 2. He doesnt like the fact that I decided 2 start a home college course. Thinks its a...

2007-01-23 16:37:29 · 6 answers · asked by Koozie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 16:35:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is your fav dessert of all times?

2007-01-23 16:35:28 · 19 answers · asked by The Isht! 2 in Friends

there is this one girl that we used 2 be friends but now she never talks 2 me and no matter how hard i try she still wont say a thing
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-23 16:34:46 · 27 answers · asked by babydrg@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend lost control because we had a stupid argument about trust....and he started speeding in a drizzling night...it was very dangerous..he was yelling and saying things i didnt even know could be said...i was so scared. it go to the point of him breaking his car's windshield with his fist because he couldn't wipe the foggy windows...after that he started crying and sayinga lot os things...he just lost it! after a few moments he snapped back into reality and we satrted talking ...i had never ever been so scared in my whole life. What happened to him??? we've togetehr for 4 yrs. now...what can i do to help him besides leaving him...? help.

2007-01-23 16:34:07 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey all!

I am planning a bachelorette party in 6 weeks. Any ideas would be awesome. (Games, drinks, food etc)

Thanks

2007-01-23 16:33:13 · 11 answers · asked by sassysharli 3 in Weddings

I am rely confuse I don't now what i realy feel for my girlfriend.

2007-01-23 16:31:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a problem i want to quit my g.frnd i care abt her but she is saying she also wants to quit me but i m affraid that she will b in involving in a bad things like (prostituetes) as according to her statements. i dont want her in this shape so plz help me wat to do and how to quit her which way is the easy to do ???

2007-01-23 16:30:55 · 9 answers · asked by it's me 1 in Singles & Dating

i wrote early..but im really now feel like a total geek..but if i talk to a guy just one time and then he says that he will call and he hasn't and i texted him yesterday and today..am i pushing my luck or its cool what im doing?

2007-01-23 16:30:54 · 14 answers · asked by shy_bell80 6 in Singles & Dating

My husband is Russian. Through him I know a few couples where the wife is a Mail Order Bride. The stories are terrible. I have not seen one that worked. Almost all of them ended because the bride left the guy after getting her immigration papers. They can't communicate (often), she usually already has a child and gets pregnant right away when gets here. I understand the need for companionship, but why spend so much money in something like that. I am not criticizing, although I don't praise it. There are a lot of women in N.A. Just want to hear some thoughs

2007-01-23 16:29:29 · 16 answers · asked by Cister 7 in Weddings

theres someone at school i really like but i also want to know if they like me back because that person looks at me once in a while.

2007-01-23 16:28:35 · 8 answers · asked by m1k3 1 in Singles & Dating

Can a bad relationship that included emotional abuse turn a person asexual..? I just got out of a bad relationship six months ago and I'm still having problems being attracted to people. It seems I'm only physically attracted to one type of person...and its really really hard trying to find that type of person... I can't change who I'm attracted to.. I've tried to be less "picky" but it doesn't work. I'm worried Mr. Right will never come along.

A few of my friend's friends have asked me out, but I don't find them attractive at all. One person seems to have a somewhat decent personality and all, but he kinda reminds me of my cousin.. and I'm not attracted to him, I seem to be attracted more to people who look like the complete opposite of me.. and I can't really find anyone like that...

Am I doomed?

2007-01-23 16:27:21 · 15 answers · asked by Rae-Rae Nikkoles <3 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 16:26:12 · 19 answers · asked by Lindsay H 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been datin my bf for a little over a yr and we have lived together for about 7 months. I just found out that he cheated on me the first 5 or 6 months of our relationship, even when we started living together. What should I do! He hasnt talked to this girl in about 6 months, but I dont know what to do. PLEASE help me

2007-01-23 16:26:08 · 14 answers · asked by daddyzgrl4u05 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello everybody, i`ve a bf and i think that i`m very very jealous, i`m not possesive but i love him very much. Well i have no problem with him having friends, i mean girls but as soon as a girl writes or tells something to catch his attention, i feel very very... bad.Actually he doesnot know that i`m jealous to this extent, At times, he teases me by telling me he saw a beautiful girl and i don`t really show him that i`m jealous but on the inside it`s as though i`m like a pressure cooker on the stove. What can i do?I don`t want to show him that i`m jealous like that, i don`t know....will he be annoyed if he knows about it? Or perhaps will he be glad because i`ve heard that people are happy when the person they love are jealous..... Please i would like to have answers, genuine ones mostly from boys to know their response, feelings etc concerning jealousy if their gf was jealous would they love it or..... Girls would also be welcome for their answers,
Please thank u very much

2007-01-23 16:24:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 16:24:23 · 19 answers · asked by Hanna J 1 in Singles & Dating

Women often complain about guys making them wear lingerie to 'enhance the experience'; are there any women who like the idea of the tables being turned and making the guy dress sexily for them?

2007-01-23 16:24:08 · 17 answers · asked by boycalledsusie 1 in Singles & Dating

I am friends with a guy at work. He has a good heart and sometimes females take advantage of him. They ask him to buy them something like lunch or a drink. They are just cheap and figure he'll just do it! I fuss at him about wasting time with triffeling people. I think he gets the messege because I haven't seen this happen in a while now.
Last night, he was talking to me. I mentioned that I didn't like Renita. I don't like ppl who just call their rudeness teasing. So I don't like her. I said I didn't join the conversation because of that reason. Later, he asked...well can I talk to Lindsey? I happen to like Lindsey because she is always prepared for work and has her own money for lunch. She is a hard worker and I admire her. I told my guy friend "Yes, you can talk to Lindsey!"
Oddly, his question makes me sound possessive. I realize we all have other friends. I just want him to have quality friends. Not beggy little spoiled brat friends! (Girl 1 and 2)

IS MY BEHAVIOR POSSESSIVE?

2007-01-23 16:23:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 16:21:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it possible the married/engaged couples on Eharmoney are getting married are taking big steps because, the matching process on the site is so slow that the minute they see someone they get along with they just jump on the opportunity and marry them?

Could it also be that these people are soo into the thought of marriage that they are just quicker to jump the gun the minute the system spits out someone who they get along with and cant help but to think to marry them?


Do u know of anyone who met on Eharmony who have been married for 5 years and more?

2007-01-23 16:21:33 · 9 answers · asked by Gina L 1 in Singles & Dating

It's me, I love a girl and I know she has some special feeling with me too. But every time I "attack" (dated her, went out somewhere, hold her hand, said to her how I love her and want her to be my gf...), she refused, but I could feel there's still chance from her.

Recent days, she didn't answer my calls and sms anymore. Today is her birthday, after some rings finally she answered me that she just want to be my friend now. I said yes! I don't want anything goes worse more.

I will never give up her, but I don't know what to do now. Did anyone have situation like me? Or if you were me, what will you do? I need your help :( Thank you.

2007-01-23 16:20:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 16:18:56 · 8 answers · asked by gordon_r83 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible the married/engaged couples on Eharmoney are getting married are taking big steps because, the matching process on the site is so slow that the minute they see someone they get along with they just jump on the opportunity and marry them?

Could it also be that these people are soo into the thought of marriage that they are just quicker to jump the gun the minute the system spits out someone who they get along with and cant help but to think to marry them?

2007-01-23 16:18:48 · 6 answers · asked by Gina L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I m infact searching to find a group consisting of wives of Indian origin(NRI) and their white male hubbies counterparts. Would like to know more about them, their inputs whether they had any social consequences to face?

2007-01-23 16:18:17 · 3 answers · asked by Monee 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible the married/engaged couples on Eharmoney are getting married are taking big steps because, the matching process on the site is so slow that the minute they see someone they get along with they just jump on the opportunity and marry them?

Could it also be that these people are soo into the thought of marriage that they are just quicker to jump the gun the minute the system spits out someone who they get along with and cant help but to think to marry them?

2007-01-23 16:18:13 · 6 answers · asked by Gina L 1 in Weddings

I have this issue regarding the men in my life One guy is single. and the other guy is married, I myself am unhappily married. These two other guys have been very close friends of mine for years they are both hitting on me saying that hey want to be with me despite the fact I am married. The problems is I don't understand why they are doing this to me now, when for years they were fine with just being my best friends. I have never lead either of them on to think that I was going to be more than friends and now they are both mad at me for not responding they way they had wanted to. What's the deal, is it natural for guys that are good friends to eventually want more? I have yet to cheat, but I must admit that one in particular has had me thinking for the past year that he would treat me way better than my husband. I can't bare that these friends might no longer be my friends if I don't have an affair. It won't make me have one, but why do they have to become distant know? I miss them

2007-01-23 16:16:11 · 6 answers · asked by Destiny 5 in Singles & Dating

i fell in love with a girl who didn't love me. Know i think im over her but i think about her alot.
At 13 years young, this is my first heart break.
whats it like to love someone who loves you the same?

2007-01-23 16:15:45 · 14 answers · asked by madd hatt_er 1 in Singles & Dating

I was in an abusive relationship with a man, had 2 children together, and now i'm out of the relationship THANK YOU LORD! but after not being together for about a year and a half, I still have feelings for him, I think! So this past weekend I let him stay at my house with us, thinking an old kindle might lite. I have felt more rejected now than I ever have, Hoping to spend some alone time with him, he decided to go to sleep in the extra bed in the kids
room until they feel asleep. So after a while I went to see if he was coming to bed. He just beat around the bush about it. Asking him if we could talk, I ask him why he was here, and his reply was to see the girls, He made it very clear that after all I have done to him, that he wants nothing to do with me. I just am very lonely I guess & I must be desperate for something, but my heart stays broken up over this man. I read some of his text msgs from his next victums and they think hes such a great guy. Please send me some good advice

2007-01-23 16:14:34 · 39 answers · asked by lettbug 1 in Marriage & Divorce