i have a problem i want to quit my g.frnd i care abt her but she is saying she also wants to quit me but i m affraid that she will b in involving in a bad things like (prostituetes) as according to her statements. i dont want her in this shape so plz help me wat to do and how to quit her which way is the easy to do ???
2007-01-23 16:30:55 · 9 answers · asked by it's me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is saying she wants to break up with you, then break up. It is about as simple as that. As far as being involved with prostitutes...that is quite unsafe and if you care about her you will talk her out of that if possible.
2007-01-23 16:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she decides to become a prostitue, that is proof positive that you made the right decision.
It is also proof that she is probably not the RIGHT person for you.
Most women who would even consider that as a viable option are going thru some 'issues' that generally require professional assistance.
Since you are not a professional, it is best that you leave her to her own devices and let her do whatever it is that she is going to do.
You should not remain in a relationship that makes you unhappy and you should not remain in a relationship with someone who tells you that they are going to do 'x' if you dont stay with them.
That is emotional blackmail.
Buy her some condoms and wish her well.
Tell her that your lives are taking different paths now and that you dont see a future for the two of you and would hate to stand in the way of such a lucrative business....(boyfriends tend to get in the way of PIMPS). I am certain this is not the lifestyle you had in mind when you picked a girlfriend. I suggest that you dont lower your standards.
2007-01-24 00:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not confuse your feelings of love for someone special with love for a friend. If it has come to a stage when breaking up is inevitable, why the delay? You can still be around as a friend. She has complete control of her life and I am sorry if she decides to become a prostitute. Would that not amount to emotional blackmailing? Alert her close friends and ask them to keep an eye on her. Ultimately, it's not your fault if she wishes to destroy her life. Just let her know you will be there for her. Everyone only lives once and surely, you know how best to appreciate yours?
2007-01-24 00:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a feeling which should come from both the hearts... But in your case i think its not true when v consider your gf's side... Its better to quit her.. But jus try to find out the reason y she wants to quit u.. I know forgiving the gf is not an easy thing...
After finding out the reason.. for quitting her your having many ways.. U mentioned tat she also not interested in you... so its very easy for you to quit her.. cut all her contacts.. If possible tell her tat your not interested in such things (love.)... or u tell tat your parents engaged your marriage with someother girl...
All the (BEST) of luck
2007-01-24 00:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by NMD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus tell her staraight up you are no longer interested and move on. What ever she decides to do with herself is her choice and life. Why do you want to leave her if you are saying you care about her???
2007-01-24 02:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably just making threats to hang onto you. You can't control her behavior. Just tell he that you want to still be friends but you have to move on.
2007-01-24 00:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright listen, u need to sit her down and talk to her u two need to be open with each other, and if she doesnt want to then let her go let her ruin her life and when she relises what she gave up she will come back
2007-01-24 00:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by surftight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your gf is insecure. let her know that you're loyal to her and that you won't go away.. she just wants to be assured...
good luck!
2007-01-24 00:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do wat u like
2007-01-24 03:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋