i wrote early..but im really now feel like a total geek..but if i talk to a guy just one time and then he says that he will call and he hasn't and i texted him yesterday and today..am i pushing my luck or its cool what im doing?
2007-01-23 16:30:54 · 14 answers · asked by shy_bell80 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmm...a lot of people say "i'll call you" but don't really mean it, not even that they don't like you, just means they maybe will call weeks later to see whats up or if you want to go somewhere with them. if you called and texted him and he didn't get back to you he probably isn't interested so anything more on your part would probably look desperate, if he wants to talk to you he will
2007-01-23 16:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, once you've made up your mind, it's best to pursue this guy quite aggressively until you've captured him, used and abused him and then send him off to pasture and immediately search for another victim. Don't play games with these guys, waiting for telephone calls, but just chase them down and let them know when you're interested that it's just a matter of time before they wear down and surrender to your wishes. You're using the right strategy and continue the course and let us know how everything turns out.
2007-01-24 00:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by cliff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! If he says he'll call he will if he wants... if he doesn't call then take that as a hint. The more you pursue the more "psycho" you become when he talks to his friends. Move on there's someone out there for you!
2007-01-24 00:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sheila D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he want to call you, he would have. Quit texting him, guys (and girls) often say they will call when they have no intention of ever doing so. All you will do is annoy him if you keep texting him.
2007-01-24 00:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by dancin thru life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really wouldnt.
I dont really like initiating the contact.
If a guy discontinues contact...let it go
He wasnt worth it!
I'd only hit him up once...if that resulted in him contacting me...cool, if not...it wasnt meant to be.
2007-01-24 00:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being too pushy. He will call when he wants to. If you keep calling him and texting him then he has no reason to call you.
2007-01-24 00:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're being pushy if he doesn't call then he's not worth u just need 2 chill most guys don't like pushy women
2007-01-24 00:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by septemberangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy says they will call they should call!! that is one of my biggest pet peeves!!
i think its ok to txt and asks whats up or ask them did they forget that they were supposed to call you... dont be too demanding just remind them or ask whats going on
2007-01-24 00:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by buff23_7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright. I'm just going to come out and say it. I have no idea who the **** this is. Is this Justine? Are you trying to prank me again? Seriously, just talk to me, I mean him. Just talk to him.
2007-01-24 00:35:15 · answer #9 · answered by Chuck F. Answers 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it GO, you're pushing and no one appreciates that kind of behavior.
2007-01-24 00:33:49 · answer #10 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋