My boyfriend keeps accuse me of cheating him. when i dont even think about guys that way, i wouldnt NEVER ever do that. He doesnt trust me, and it hurts me
one minute hes telling me he loves me and then next minute hes telling me to never call him and give me a broken heart sign.. all because someone said they heard i was with another guy, but there lying
i have to call him and convince him that i love him and blah blah blah im so sick of it, why wont he believe me
should i stay with him?
can you tell me what you think of this situation? plz?
i need your help :(
2007-01-23 15:26:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he's the one cheating and wants u to break up with him so hes the one who doesnt have to feel bad
2007-01-23 15:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm well this seems a very common problem just reverse the game with him and complain that you heard someone saying that he is going around with someone and give him the same drink that he has been giving u. Just charge at him for some time and do not worry if he loves u he would explain and if he doesnt then he is the one who is to be accused. Its just like firing in the dark if it strikes right then u get past and if u dont just dont regret. This is very stupid things happening in relations so dont worry do as i have told u. Start suspecting him simply for no reasons. Maybe he might understand his mistake.
2007-01-23 18:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Alladin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has incredible trust issues that HE needs to work out. You are being faithful and all it takes is someone to put a bug in his ear and it is hell on you. You need to be with someone who is going to trust you for the trustworthy person you are. If he cannot learn to get over this, your relationship will never work out. I am not saying leave him, but he may never change. Is that the kind of relationship you want to be?
2007-01-23 15:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to know that you love each other. But what's the use of staying in it if he doesn't trust you? He believes what other people say more than you. Though I'm not saying that you should break-up with him. Talk things over.
2007-01-23 15:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has control issues. I honestly would not stay in a relationship like this if you will be constantly explaining where you have been and why. Pretty soon he may be telling you what clothes to wear and who you can talk to. Sounds like it might be time to think about why you are in this relationship in the first place.
2007-01-23 15:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by Mistress Melanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the one crying wolf has things to hide.
truth is if there is no trust in a relationship then there is no relationship (unless in the past u have given him a reason to suspect...don't waste ur time if he can not trust u then don't waste ur time... find a man that will love u all the time and most importantly will not psychologically abuse u...
2007-01-23 15:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ua re doing NOTHING wrong and he doesnt trust u, then how could u keep a relationshio like that>? that isnt healthy.. me and my bf trust each other... if we didnt I couldnt live with that.. yuyou should dseriously get a new one.. he sounds like hes self concious or insecure.. whatever that one word is... he seems worse than a girl that he needs reassurance like every 10 mins
2007-01-23 15:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's an easy one, he's cheating on you.
That's an old trick I remember from my school days. I was talking with a couple of guys when they told me about that. They accuse you of cheating, and when you catch them doing it, they say they did it because you cheated on them first.
2007-01-23 15:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said yourself, your sick of it.... If there is no trust - as far as Im concerned there is no relationship. Most people who throw accussations like that are the ones guilty of it....
Sounds like your situation sucks, ditch him and find someone that treats you well.... He doesnt deserve you babe.
2007-01-23 15:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is probably because he is cheating on you. If he acts like dat, maybe he feels if you eventually catch him, he'll say u started cheatin on him first....My advice is to let him realize u can't take d accusations anymore and dat if he cannot trust you, then, you're better off without him..good luck though
2007-01-23 15:32:44 · answer #10 · answered by Blak Jesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋