Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

I have two brothers and they are my best friends....I love them so much. Are most cases like this?

2007-01-23 14:59:49 · 15 answers · asked by Rachael P 1 in Family

I'm a 24 year old male college guy. During the dinner party at a cousins wedding, my table (of young college aged strangers) started talking about relationships they had in the past - boyfriends/girlfriends, sex, ect. They mentioned the worst and best relationships theyve have ever had.

The ball came to me and I told the people at my table, who were a little tipsy, that I never ever dated, never had a girlfriend, or ever had sex. Subsequently, the table became very quiet. Afterwards, they talked amongst themselves and no one else talked to me the rest of the night. They were giving me weird looks, rolling their eyes the rest of the night. I think that the people were embarrassed to associate with me.

It's not my fault that I grew up to only 5'5". Its not my fault that girls subconsciously see me as a "cripple" due to my height. I tried talking with girls in the past but its no use. I trying to learn to accept to being a virgin and single for life.

Are there many like me?

2007-01-23 14:59:47 · 9 answers · asked by Nietzsche 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-23 14:58:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 14:58:21 · 11 answers · asked by carley_cooldog 1 in Singles & Dating

what do u guys think about when your---
-going to bed/sleeping
-being in your classes when ur day dreaming
-when your looking at a girl
-when your with your girlfriend
-when your in the shower
-and when u go to bed, what do u look forward to for the next day??seeing your crush??

2007-01-23 14:58:19 · 12 answers · asked by CurioslyPerfect 2 in Singles & Dating

Ladies: Could you translate this convo for me?
This was an aim convo tonight with a girl I knew from college I haven't seen since. I kind of had a thing for her then and thought she may have been interested then.....


Me: I was thinking, I can give you a call sometime
Me: if you'd like to catchup over coffee one of these nights
Girl: i hate to say it but my phone is busted right now it took an unexpected swim at work (job hazard) but i am home a lot now and catching up on my internet thing so hows about an email?
Me: that works
Girl: my screen name is my email address at aol so drop me a line
me: ok cool
me: you going to be around to meet in Boston one of these days?
Girl: it could be done
Girl: well im getting old so its off to bed have a good night and ill talk to ya later
Me: you too
Me: take care
Girl: peace!

What does this sound like?

And one more thing? Did I do anything wrong or was I pushy in the convo or did everything just fine. Even though she may not have been interested, can I take solace in finally asking her out?

2007-01-23 14:57:20 · 15 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

ex boyfriend broke up with me on good tems b/c he is not ready for a serious rel/ship yet, so we remain friends&talk when ever we cross paths, but when a guy approaches me at a bar he stears and checks him out, and moves in closer so i can acknowledge that he is watching,i don't know why considering been1 year that we have broken up.most of the men r mates, that's it..one day at a bar i ran into a male friend & we got talking away, i didnt know my ex was behind me & listening but not making it too odvious, he was moving in closer, as my convo with my male friend ended he moved in asked how i was, & who was that I was talking too? i dont understand maybe he is looking out for me?or still has feelings 4 me?I'm not sure.I have strong feelings 4 him still&it seems to me he cant be with me b/c timing not right with him but wants me to still love&hang around 4 him when he is readyhe seems to flirt with girls infront of me,see if i'm looking,i catch him looking at me he looks away witha smile

2007-01-23 14:57:15 · 3 answers · asked by hi 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it true that the more you hold in your sexual desire for someone, the more passionate the sex will be?

Well my friend with benefits is busy all week and weekend and I want to jump him so bad but I don't want to drive him away.

He always initiated the sex but after he came to me first, I came to him a few times to hang out, he came to me again(to say hi) and tonight I came to him, and he confirmed that he'll be busy all week because he's in sports.

So the longer I hold in my desire for him the more passionate and hotter the sex will be?(i'll be initiating it)

Suggestions?

2007-01-23 14:56:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he done it to me about 3 times in 2 years he is muslim. when i'm down there and its time for him to do it he always goes to the next step.

2007-01-23 14:55:08 · 11 answers · asked by sara 2 in Singles & Dating

how can I search for marriage counselor wit no charge? thank u all

2007-01-23 14:54:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what are some ideas and how to's for performing bondage.
and are there diferent types of bondage.?

2007-01-23 14:54:39 · 0 answers · asked by tasha240 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

She always everyday, every second want to talk about emotion and our feelings, I love this girl but I don't like to talk about my feelings every sec of the day. And because of that she thinks I don't love her.

2007-01-23 14:53:58 · 33 answers · asked by mnguy 1 in Singles & Dating

So I have been dating this guy for a little over 8 months now. Well tonight I cooked him dinner like i usually do every so often. And I started studying afterwards, well he packed his stuff up and said he had to go home. I know he doens't have school work tonight since he told me so. We havent' had sex in a like a week. I feel that he is always trying to have sex with me and no longer wants to be around me to just hang out. Im definitly becoming more distant from him b/c i feel like he only wants sex out of me and takes me for granted for what I am really worth. I mean, i'm not someone who needs sex all the time and I know my sex drive is a lot lower than his, but its becoming very bothersome that I can't even have sex with him. What should I do? Any advice will work.

2007-01-23 14:53:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is really considerate of my feelings, like always making sure I'm comfortable and that everything is okay. He emails me sometimes up to 5 times a day when we are apart. He has broken plans with his friends about 3 or 4 times to be with me instead. He has driven 2 hours to come to my house. He spends hours just kissing me and being really affectionate. He always wants me to spend the night at his house and is disappointed when I have to go. He loves to cuddle. We hang out at Starbucks sometimes and just talk. We have sex, but does it sound like he has feelings for me and it's not just about sex?

2007-01-23 14:53:09 · 7 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and i we're argue almost about everything.. and i am mostly right about everything what i said he'll always dissagree, how can i make him stop doing that if he is afraid to admit that i am right he can not say anything...why argue all the time i am gettin tired of it......???

2007-01-23 14:53:02 · 12 answers · asked by Mely 2 in Marriage & Divorce

.... you have boyfriend (or girlfriend), and a close friend of yours and his/hers is completely oblivious to your need to spend time alone together, so they keep butting in????
I'm not jealous, just wondering how often this happens. And if it bothers you, or your partner more.....

2007-01-23 14:52:55 · 4 answers · asked by Nicole 4 in Singles & Dating

happened twice. i think he's a little...mentally challenged. what to do next time it happens? already told an adult. happened once again.

2007-01-23 14:51:03 · 32 answers · asked by skigrrl66 3 in Singles & Dating

My guy friend said one of the first things he notices on a girl is if she has nice nails. Is that true?

2007-01-23 14:50:53 · 19 answers · asked by sunnysky4u 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I met this guy and he's had plenty of gfs before but he's not the cocky player. He's really sweet and he really wants to hang out but see my parents are asian and are really strict about boys especially my dad. What would be a good way to introduce him and whats an acceptable location for a date or hang out. plus, i only had one boyfriend in my life and im a junior. so my parents are new with dating :P

2007-01-23 14:49:57 · 14 answers · asked by demolitionlvr 2 in Singles & Dating

Im so scared...What do I do?What do I tell them?They will like yell,scream,and hit me...

2007-01-23 14:49:43 · 15 answers · asked by Deanna 3 in Family

My friend and I have been fighting and she claims i need to admit my faults? i dont think that i realize them. i want to still be her friend but she claims that if we stay friends then we are just going to continue to fight. she thinks she is better than me just because we applied for the same job and she got hired over me. now she is blamming me for all of this fight, we have been friends for as long as i can remember. plz help me save the friendship. i dont want to loose it.

2007-01-23 14:49:42 · 5 answers · asked by Bowling_diva_21 1 in Friends

....has gone very quickly from one rocky relationship to a new relationship with the guy they have had love for since highschool (who is a dream) and now are so sad because they are still sad about their ex and hate themself for jumping in to the next relationship to fast. I don't want to ruin this relationship I am in now (because I have been waiting for it for years) but I need to get over my ex before I can really devote myself 100%. I wish I loved myself enough to really devote myself to a new love. ug kill me I am 27 and I feel like a sad kid. Any females know what I mean?

2007-01-23 14:49:33 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Would you be my friend if i was 5'0'', weight around 120, brown/blonde hair, green eyes, C36, medium, and if i was bisexual? and tell me why or why not.

2007-01-23 14:49:06 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I waited too long for the "good gifts" and all that are left are like pot holders and things like that. And I want the gift to be something that is for them, but that is "me" like too. Not pot holders.

2007-01-23 14:49:00 · 15 answers · asked by Suzanne C 1 in Weddings

What are the things you wish your 'partner' would've kept doing..

What are the things they stopped doing that made you happy, laugh, etc.

2007-01-23 14:47:53 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ Scorpio X 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She tells me she just wants to be friends, but she has begun to email me like crazy! Why?

2007-01-23 14:47:11 · 8 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

I think I finally figured it out, what it takes to be happily married. Following are the two most imp things to look for before chosing a partner (ofcourse among other small things).

1. The person should be cheerful, someone who wants to enjoy life's little pleasures
2. You should have similar interests, so you can do things together

Eventually most marriages end up the same way! No more sex, partners hardly talk, the fun time is over and its arguments and responsibilities! But if the other person has a smile on his her face and has a sense of humor, it makes life easier. Also, if you are able to go skiing together or try new cuisines together, it builds the relationship, builds camaraderie!

I can provide more details, but just think about it. What matters at the end of the day?

I have been married for 2 years! I knew my husband 3 years before we got married! And now its only a compromise!

2007-01-23 14:46:56 · 5 answers · asked by sweetpoison 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This was an aim convo tonight with a girl I knew from college I haven't seen since. I kind of had a thing for her then and thought she may have been interested then.....


Me: I was thinking, I can give you a call sometime
Me: if you'd like to catchup over coffee one of these nights
Girl: i hate to say it but my phone is busted right now it took an unexpected swim at work (job hazard) but i am home a lot now and catching up on my internet thing so hows about an email?
Me: that works
Girl: my screen name is my email address at aol so drop me a line
me: ok cool
me: you going to be around to meet in Boston one of these days?
Girl: it could be done
Girl: well im getting old so its off to bed have a good night and ill talk to ya later
Me: you too
Me: take care
Girl: peace!

What does this sound like?

2007-01-23 14:46:20 · 22 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

I know it comes off as crazy, but I used to cut my arms back in the day when I didn't know how to cope with pain and deal with people who constantly betrayed me.. I haven't done it for A LONG TIME but the scars are there..

I'm a sweet girl, I just didn't know how to cope with some things.. Don't think I'm some psychotic 51/50 'cause I'm not.

At any rate, MEN, would you date a woman who used to be a cutter? Would you be embarrassed of the scars on her arms? Or would you try to be understanding and compassionate?

2007-01-23 14:46:10 · 16 answers · asked by ♥ Scorpio X 3 in Singles & Dating

i go to east high, and my ex-best-friend goes to north east. like a week ago, she started spreading crap about me that me and my mom were spreading crap about her. soon some of our mutual friends (who also go to north east) broke off all contact with me and started calling me a *****. i really need help getting revenge.
thank u!

2007-01-23 14:45:55 · 9 answers · asked by ferrarigirle 2 in Friends