He is really considerate of my feelings, like always making sure I'm comfortable and that everything is okay. He emails me sometimes up to 5 times a day when we are apart. He has broken plans with his friends about 3 or 4 times to be with me instead. He has driven 2 hours to come to my house. He spends hours just kissing me and being really affectionate. He always wants me to spend the night at his house and is disappointed when I have to go. He loves to cuddle. We hang out at Starbucks sometimes and just talk. We have sex, but does it sound like he has feelings for me and it's not just about sex?
2007-01-23 14:53:09 · 7 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like he is nice.
Why not talk to him about his feelings?
Good Luck
2007-01-23 14:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not in touch with your own feelings and probably need time away from him to decide for you self if this a healthy relationship or not... You need to weigh out why do you need the relationship with him... Have you had past relationship similar to him... Is he insecure about him self or you... What is his relationship with his parents. Have you met and get along with them. I kind of sound like he wants to get into a possessive relationship with you, and he does not know what love is and acts on the need of love rather than mutual love....
2007-01-23 23:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by thomas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say it does sound like he has feelings for you. i mean if hes driving two hours to see you and hes taking time to listen to you he obviously cares. if all he was after was sex he wouldnt take the time to talk and listen to you, everytime you were together would be about sex and he would want to get to it as fast as possible. i think you need to look at how long you've been together and how soon he wanted to get intimate. if your questioning his motives then i would think about it and bring it up that its a concern your having.
hope this helps!
2007-01-23 23:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE THE GUY REALLY LOVES YOU ..WHAT MORE DO YOU WANT ? DO YOU WANT A MAN , JUST TO USE FOR SEX THEN DUMP YOU ? COME ON GROW UP , LETS BE ADULT ABOUT THINGS ! THE MAN LOVES YOU, ARE YOU PLAYING HARD TO GET? GEEZ , APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE , ALOT OF US WISH WE HAD LOVE FROM A GF AND WE CAN'T GET IT!!!
2007-01-23 23:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....he's either a guy with a lotta time on his hands or you've got him SPRUNG!!!.....either way...be cautious...its a 50-50 chance...and if he really DOES like you that much...dont come to expect stuff like that all the time you're with him....that's the mistake most girls make...he might still like you but expect him to forget to open the car door for you once in a while....
2007-01-23 22:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by unpredictedmystery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he has feelings for you. If he is willing to take time out of his life and his friend's life just to be with you, He has deep feelings for you.
2007-01-23 22:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by white trash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes doing all this its more then just sex..he likes you but you should just ask him...closed mouths don't get fed.
2007-01-23 22:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by inmybiz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋