So I have been dating this guy for a little over 8 months now. Well tonight I cooked him dinner like i usually do every so often. And I started studying afterwards, well he packed his stuff up and said he had to go home. I know he doens't have school work tonight since he told me so. We havent' had sex in a like a week. I feel that he is always trying to have sex with me and no longer wants to be around me to just hang out. Im definitly becoming more distant from him b/c i feel like he only wants sex out of me and takes me for granted for what I am really worth. I mean, i'm not someone who needs sex all the time and I know my sex drive is a lot lower than his, but its becoming very bothersome that I can't even have sex with him. What should I do? Any advice will work.
2007-01-23 14:53:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get a boyfriend who actually loves you, not just wants to sleep with you.
If you didn't sleep with people, you might actually find somebody who loves you for you...not just because you're easy.
& I don't mean easy like 'sleeps with everyone' I mean easy like 'sleeps with men before marriage'
have a little respect for yourself sweetheart & maybe guys will too
2007-01-23 15:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by *Harley* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time he decides to leave like that you should stop him before he leaves and just ask him outright if not having sex bothers him.
It's possible that while you were studying, he got bored as well. I'm not sure what you guys normally do togehter, ie if you watch TV together, and he still ups and leaves in the middle of a show that's bad. The solution might just be that while at home he is bored, and you should just spice it up with doing non-sex activity together, ie he could help you study, play a game, watch a movie, etc.
But if sex is the issue that's not a good sign. My sex drive is a lot lower than my bf's as well and he just deals. At times I just tell him, I really just want to cuddle, and I like cuddling with him. Sometimes I just divert him by planning activities, ie picnics, movies, swing dancing, and not going back to his place. I have a pet I need to take care of and/or I have to get up early the next morning.
2007-01-24 00:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by Curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't respect you...either you dump him because of the pressure, or he will find someone else to fulfill his needs if you stay with him...
2007-01-24 00:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jujuchi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋