Would you be my friend if i was 5'0'', weight around 120, brown/blonde hair, green eyes, C36, medium, and if i was bisexual? and tell me why or why not.
2007-01-23 14:49:06 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i would be ur friend! There is no reason i wouldnt, i mean, anyone who judges you for any reason at all is not worth hangin with!
by the way your description fit me exactly. it was kinda creepy...
2007-01-23 14:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but this is a ridiculous, shallow question. It just goes to show how wrong people can be. Bee, the only thing you should be worrying about when it comes to someone being your friend is how you are on the inside", not your outward appearance. Friendships that are true are not based on looks. Someone could be the most attractive girl I've ever seen, but if they had a shallow, negative personality, if they lied, if they constantly talked about other people, etc., I wouldn't be their anything. If someone doesn't like you as a friend because of the way you look or your sexual orientation, they are not worth your time. Trust me. NEVER be someone's "friend" if they constantly talk about other friends (if they gossip with you, they gossip about you!), if they judge people constantly on their outward appearance/fashion choices/etc, and most of all, if they can't accept who you are, and if you feel you can't be all of you around them. If you have friends like that, don't. Find people that can be real with you. Find positive, open-minded people. And my biggest piece of advice for you is....
DON'T worry about what people think of you.
Because
A: It's none of your business!
B: It's a waste of time!
C: It doesn't, DOESN'T matter!
What matters is how you feel about yourself. And judging by you asking this, you may have low self esteem. So instead of asking this, why not ask "how can I improve my self esteem so that I can be myself around people and not worry what others think, and how can I realize that I can be an attractive person on both the inside and out?"
Be yourself. Love yourself. You are the only you there will ever be and if you don't embrace yourself and live as you truly are, you're not living. You're just existing!
And if you want true, good friends, the last thing you should be worrying about is your looks. People that base everything around outward appearances have a lot to learn before they can be someone's friend.
2007-01-23 15:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by Bee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds more like your looking for more than a friend. It's the inside that matters with friends. Personally, I probably wouldn't mind being your friend, though I'd find it hard to get past the bisexual thing since it weirds me out quite a bit.
2007-01-23 14:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by the_blue_violinist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I mean I dont know you, but neither your looks, nor your weight or sexual preferences matter if I were to pick you as friend, if I like your personality and character or any other quality as a friend, and vice versa, then I dont see a reason for not being friends.
I mean I'm talking referring to people who know you, in the sense that those are not reasons for people you know stop being your friends, because actually I dont know you, and I wont because I dont like virtual friendships or relationships, sorry if that was your request, that's just my policy.
2007-01-23 14:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by Abbey Road 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truth be told: first things comes on my mind when I read "if I was bisexual", was threesome
any guy would want to be your friend if you have C36
2007-01-23 14:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by Yue J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would be your friend in a heart beat. You sound as if you are a very sexy lady. You being bisexual does not bother me since I have several girl "friends" that are bi and we get along great.
2007-01-24 22:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by divingonthemuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the picture you paint is only half done.you've stated the physical, but how are you as a person? Honest, caring, responsible, funny, intelligent to mention a few!
If you can meet these and a few others then Yes probably, until then No!
2007-01-23 15:02:57 · answer #7 · answered by G=ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I would. I'm not into girls either - as another person posted, but you didn't ask if we'd want to be your GIRLFRIEND. One of my very best friends is a straight up lesbian - but she's not into me that way. She's a wonderful person. I don't think your sexual preference is the only thing that makes a person who they are. So sure, I'd be your friend.
2007-01-23 14:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by Marvelissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Platonic friend? And your a stable person with other's? Yes. But not into women, always loved men my whole life. So if your talking about a day time friend, night time lover, definately NOT.
2007-01-23 14:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The whole bisexual thing is just weird. Pick a side and stay with it.
2007-01-23 14:51:05 · answer #10 · answered by madjennyvane 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋