Is it true that the more you hold in your sexual desire for someone, the more passionate the sex will be?
Well my friend with benefits is busy all week and weekend and I want to jump him so bad but I don't want to drive him away.
He always initiated the sex but after he came to me first, I came to him a few times to hang out, he came to me again(to say hi) and tonight I came to him, and he confirmed that he'll be busy all week because he's in sports.
So the longer I hold in my desire for him the more passionate and hotter the sex will be?(i'll be initiating it)
Suggestions?
2007-01-23 14:56:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When you see him jump him
2007-01-23 14:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Waiting does not increase passion, it decreases it. It only makes us frustrated and clumsy, especially on the man's part. My wife and I have a baby and it's hard to find the time. I always flirt with her and we want each other all the time. When we do get the time, it is clumsy and hurried until after she has had an orgasm. After that, it can be passionate.
True passion comes from love. If you love each other and set the right mood, there will be great passion. To do that, think about places and thing that get you romantic. Movies, special quiet places, etc...
I watched The Lake House with my wife and after that she couldn't wait to drag me into the bedroom.
Find what you think will work for him and try it.
2007-01-23 23:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what type of sports he's talking about. Maybe it's some kind of contact sport where he'll be too whipped to be a Friend with benefits anymore.
2007-01-23 23:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by mld m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer to your question is yes,and a girl can only hold it in so long until they go crazy, so i suggest you take him down the next chance you get, and i bet because of your passion and long wate his sporting schedule may just become a little more flexable.
2007-01-23 23:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by kesha f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll be hot and horny missing the action. i had to wait a whole weekend for an ex to visit me and we went crazy for it the first chance we got.
2007-01-23 23:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by christina p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wiat till your married to him. ITll be much funner!
2007-01-23 22:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by popstar452003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋