Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

My friends always come to me with their problems, and I usually always have the answers, but when it comes to my problems, i can never seem to find them, why?

2007-01-23 14:33:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok for all you guys and girls what do you consider as someone being too controlling in a b/f -g/f relationship?

Could asking your boyfriend to go with you on a class trip and miss his first soccer game of the season knowing it would be ok with his coach be one of those times when you have missed plenny of your tennis games for him be considered as too controlling? Am I being selfish here? Plz Help.

2007-01-23 14:33:52 · 1 answers · asked by Ivanna 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong to have sex with every guy you go out with cause I know a girl that does that.But in my opinion its wrong plus shes 16.

2007-01-23 14:33:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Wat do u say?
to ur ex boyfriend, that u broke up with, who jus asked u out?? yu want t say yes because u still have feelings for him and u want to say no because when we were not talking to each other WE BOTH were saying bad things about each other. and that still hurts me . even tho he gotton over yet. i still like him but that i bothering me. alot. what should i say?????

2007-01-23 14:32:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

thanks to my ex-friend everytime i like someone, some person will start up that i'm "stalking" them and i dont know what to do! i never to though... imfact, this one guy i really like i have to like, try to avoid because i dont want the same thing to happen with him. how can i get this to stop?

2007-01-23 14:32:04 · 9 answers · asked by b3lla 3 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend is 19 years old and she has a 2 year old son. I love my girlfriend more than anything, weve been dating for almost a year and a half now. Her son is so irritating though. Everytime she puts him down he cries. Hes constantly getting in our bed at night and laying on top of me which wakes me up. He always wants to be on my lap or something. I didnt really hate him until the other day when he called me daddy. It sounds sweet but it disgusted me !!!! We cant even have sex anymore without him interupting us !! I dont know what to do about it what do you think ?

2007-01-23 14:32:00 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with someone or vice versa?

2007-01-23 14:31:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was introduced to this guy by a really good friend of mine. We have been talking for about 4 months and we really like each other a lot. But there is only one problem...he lives in pennsylvania, and I live in michigan. We talk almost every night, and he says he really likes me....Would you trust him? or am i just being neurotic?

2007-01-23 14:30:17 · 7 answers · asked by collegeboundblonde1287 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 14:29:50 · 13 answers · asked by Lee 2 in Friends

I am a 24 yr old black female. I am a professional, own my own home, and pay my own bills, however it is hard to find a guy around my age that has the same goals in life. How hard is it to find a nice guy that is successful??? Anyone else notice that there are very little good men left?

2007-01-23 14:29:20 · 14 answers · asked by paigenc05 2 in Singles & Dating

Any advice on how to cope with being a very devoted stepmom in a situation where the "real" mother is very neglectful & emotionally abusive? It's tough being stuck in the middle, with no legal rights. My husband and I have filed for custody, but the process is very slow and discouraging. I love my stepchild more than life itself and this process has taken a lot out of me... well, all of us. Any advice or support would be greatly appreciated!

2007-01-23 14:27:41 · 5 answers · asked by Melissa C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want my boyfriend to realize he made the biggest mistake of his life, i loved him. I know he will NEVER find another girl like me, we were together for a little over a year, he meant the world to me. He got me a promise ring from Hawaii, ans a very nice promise ring from Tiffany&Co. I know he cares, but he says he just doesn't want a relationship right now. I know he will regret it, I just want him to hurry up and come back. Im lost without him, he was my world, Please help me..

2007-01-23 14:27:05 · 23 answers · asked by kris 1 in Singles & Dating

I am debating with a guy online about distance. He won't date outside of a 25 mile radius of where he lives. He seems to think that if he met a woman who lived further away in some ugly metro area, that he would have to give up his life in his nice community.

If you met a guy whom owned a nice home in a nice safe community and had his practice (legal) set up in the same area, and you on the other hand, lived in a small apartment in a bad area, and worked a low paying store job which can pretty much be found anywhere if you are willing to work.... If the relationship got serious to marriage , would you expect the man to sell his house and office and move in with you or would you move out of your apartment to live with him and find a job in his town? This has nothing to do with independence or anything, just practical sense of what would make the most sense for both people in the situation.

2007-01-23 14:27:03 · 14 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend since the fall of 2005 and for some weird reason he has been talking about kids, getting married , and moving to Italy alot lately. It is kind of freaking me out because he was telling me that if we did get married then he would want me to be a homemaker ?! And I didn't say anything to him at the time, but I just really can't see myself having a family in 2 or 3 years. Don't get me wrong, I love him to death and I would love to marry him, but I just don't think I could see myself having kids that soon(I was thinking when I am like 28).


Questions:
1.Is starting a family at a young age a good or bad idea and why ?
2.If you started a family when you were young, would you reccomend it to someone else and are you happy?
3.If you are a homemaker, do you enjoy it ?


Details:
-I am 21(Junior in college) and he is 22(Senior)
-We met in college
-He is Italian and his whole family lives in Italy(He is just going to college in the US)
-His Mom is a homemaker

2007-01-23 14:26:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK tomorrow my boyfriend and I get the chance to go on a class trip but the problem is he has a soccer game tomorrow and will probably end up going. We never go on class trips so I really wanted him to go and because lately we've both been busy and haven't had to much time to bond so this trip was the perfect opportunity to spend some quality time together but it doesn't seem like its gonna happen. I've missed some of my tennis games when he's asked me to stay with him but it doesn't seem as though he miss his. Am I being selfish for asking him to go knowing he has his first game of the season tomorrow??? I mean after all he will have many more right!?!?!?... Please help!!?!?!?!

2007-01-23 14:25:48 · 9 answers · asked by Ivanna 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend just became emo so what do I do ?

2007-01-23 14:25:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

After one year he called me and asked me to see a movie with him. I went them as soon as the movie ended he took me home. I asked him why he wanted to see me and he said he wants to "see me every once in awhile". Why? We only dated for one month and it never went past kissing cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. Is he just stringing me along, he didn't even treat me as a friend? I wanna get revenge but how? I wanna seduce him then dump him haha! But no sex just makeout then dump him!!

2007-01-23 14:23:52 · 2 answers · asked by sweet 1 in Singles & Dating

if your boyfriend told you he really enjoyed wearing your clothes what would you say. thanks so much.

2007-01-23 14:23:39 · 7 answers · asked by hello. 1 in Singles & Dating

Where like you dont do anything special to your self to change.. and you llike randomly like 1 day like seems like everyone talks to you more girls flirt with you more talk to you more look at you more... then like the next day its like nothing ever happened back to normal nothing special... isnt that so random..

2007-01-23 14:23:29 · 2 answers · asked by Doss 2 in Singles & Dating

..we went out once for 10 months and it didn't work...i want to be his best friend for now, but it still hurts when he talks about other girls...how do i get passed this??

2007-01-23 14:21:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-23 14:21:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well theres this guy and we are REALLY good friends well today i was giving him a hug like i always do and he kissed me on the forehead now ive never thought of him as more than a good friend and i think he thinks the same of me but does that mean nething special or is he just being nice??

2007-01-23 14:20:12 · 7 answers · asked by *meggie* 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you go about finding and approaching someone whom doesnt know that you exist?...especially when dear old dad(the common genetics donor) has gone as far as to say that he will sue you for harrassment if you try? she is almost 30 and my sister

2007-01-23 14:20:05 · 7 answers · asked by qweenkristina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i was wishing to be more beautiflul people always tease me and say i look like a dried up fish or sumthang else that is negative my mom get mad when i say i want to be beautiful!

2007-01-23 14:19:42 · 6 answers · asked by jesuslives 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend works at a cellphone selling shop, and she is not doing so well... now she is really upset about herself, she wants to quit but doesn't want to give up...so how can i help her to improve her selling skills? thx ps. her mistakes including forgetting to write down number, treating VISA card as a debit card n such...thx

2007-01-23 14:18:44 · 5 answers · asked by Lantis D 2 in Singles & Dating

I heard it on the radio the first time ever a few days ago, I don't know if it's an older song or new but is talks about a guy callin up a friend talkin about him being at that friends ex girls wedding and when they asked if anyone had any objections he thought about standing up and then it goes

"It could've been you, somethin about all of your dreams comin true"

Any ideas to the artist and title?

2007-01-23 14:18:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy liked me,and I send him a myspace comment,and ask him a question in it(nothing major really)but I told him he didnt have to answer it,wouldnt he answer anyway?I told him it was up to him whether he answered or not.

And wouldnt he look at my page when he was on?

2007-01-23 14:17:48 · 7 answers · asked by Brittany 1 in Singles & Dating

I`m 13 and he`s 15.
We are in love...and he said it first. :)

2007-01-23 14:17:42 · 12 answers · asked by dark_mousy134 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok this is a different guy ( if u read and/or answered my questions earlier, its a diff. guy so dont yell at me)
and he likes me and i like him-but i dont think it will work out. C hes a great guy-dont get me wrong-but hes had gfs b4 and hes used them all, but he says that im different and he wont act like that....so wut do i do?

2007-01-23 14:17:17 · 8 answers · asked by Boingo&Fuzzy 1 in Singles & Dating

(women)

how many women allow their man to look at/watch p o r n? how many find it disgusting? disrespectful and degrading to the women?? does anyone support it?

(men)

what makes you want to look at/watch p o r n? how many of you support it, do it, and why?? how many of you don't support, don't do it, and why? do you think females have a reason to find it disgusting, degrading, and disrespectful?

just curious because my fiance told me it was normal but I think it's disrespectful. It make me feel like he would rather have one of them satisfy him than me. anyone else out there feel the same?

2007-01-23 14:16:14 · 12 answers · asked by kaiyas_mom07 2 in Other - Family & Relationships