Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

I have a boyfriend and weve been together for awhile. I really like him but hes so much more expirenced then me at everything and im really nervous what do i do?

2007-01-23 14:45:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HELP!

2007-01-23 14:45:19 · 18 answers · asked by addisonsmom17 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I took my daughter with me away from south to north cali because I can't handle how tight the life with my husband's family, my parents in law are so controlling and his sis involve our privacy. I asked him to move out 5 mins. away and he said no. My family needs help from me. He's neglecting me when I try to have a conversation and also our marriage life, didn't let me hold him, didn't touch or kiss me for a month. WHen he needs it, just tell me to do wat he wants and that's it, don't touch me at all. He called me and begging us to go back, he really miss his daughter and sorry, he'll try his best to make me happy. He said just come back and in a few months he'll ask his parents to move.He promised to move to the city which is 1 hr away as I asked him, of course he'll take his family. I told him at least i can go to my family when I'm not happy if only 1 hr away. I have no friend in LA and six hrs away how can I take my 4 month old alone with no car? Can i trust him? thanx

2007-01-23 14:44:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend always gets me expensive and meaningful gifts every time there is an occasion but i have not clue what to get him for valentine's day... please help.

2007-01-23 14:44:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is 20.
I am 19.
My dad has a terminal illness (ALS) so my college is completely paid for... I am going to school to be a teacher, and my life is pretty much set for me.
My boyfriend on the other hand, doesnt have that luxury. He never really met his dad, and he is stuck doing blue collar jobs and working hard everyday just to get by.

We've been through alot together. So many ups and downs but I love him more than anything and I know he loves me. The thing is, hes always on the verge of a breakdown. I have to CONSTANTLY be happy just to keep him happy. Sometimes life brings me down and if I let it show, then he will snap and breakdown even harder. And I am expected to bring him up. I dont mind, but sometimes I need someone there for me... and I dont know how to bring him up.

Sometimes it makes me feel like Im not good enough when he has continual breakdowns, like I dont make him happy. He says its just life, but what should I do?

2007-01-23 14:44:11 · 5 answers · asked by yourguardianangel88 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok. This is kind of long and complicated, but any advice anyone could give me would be much appreciated. I'm going (or suppossed to be going) on my senior class trip to Disney tomorrow. The problem is, I really don't feel excited about going at all. The people that Im rooming with are 2 girls who I don't really like. I've been nothing but a good friend to them, but they have always kind of taken advantage of me and never seem to really consider me a best friend, but just someone who is there. These 2 girls have caused so much drama since I have been friends with them--they are basically ostricized from our entire class. Trying to be a good friend to them, I have gone along with all of their drama, and if they have stopped talking to someone, I would stop talking to them too. I feel like these girls are my only friends, yet they don't really like me at all. Idk what to do about this trip. I feel like they don't really care abt me at all & aren't good friends. Should I go to Disney?

2007-01-23 14:44:04 · 5 answers · asked by Becky 2 in Friends

so i am the jealous type, i admit it, and i trust my boyfriend, but sometimes i just cant stand the thought that i am not at the same school as he is, and he is probably flirting with other girls. it drives me insane. I really do trust him, dont get me wrong, but how do i stop with the "psycotic jealous girlfriend" act? (i dont think he even realize i feel like this)

2007-01-23 14:43:21 · 5 answers · asked by B 3 in Singles & Dating

theres a girl in my music class i like. i would like to get her to go out with me. i never talked to her before. i screw up with every girl i ask out. i dont want to do it agen. how should i approach her.

2007-01-23 14:42:19 · 8 answers · asked by DanGGGG 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 14:42:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just wrote it and was going to give it to my girlfriend...is it a good one I need an opinion please. ^-^
The moon drifts down a sky.
A sky filled with twinkling stars.
An owl flies high into the night.
The clouds cover the moons scars.

The moon falls past the horizon
Allowing the sun to appear.
The Earth all seems to awaken
With life you can suddenly hear.

The golden skies of morning
Quickly grow brighter in the day
The air outside grows warmer
As all the children go out to play.

The sun grows tired and falls to rest
leaving the sky all gold and blue.
A beautiful day has ended.
But it's not as beautiful as you.

2007-01-23 14:41:49 · 35 answers · asked by destroyerofchaos 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont know what to do. My boyfriend never tells me anything anymore. I ask him questions all the time and all he says is you never tell me anything why should i tell you...
and then when ever i get mad because hes doing this he gets mad at me and goes " see, this is what i dont get about you" , " why are you getting mad "

i try and say because you dont tell me anything and then he just goes back to well you never tell me anything why should i tell you anything..

i dont know what to do.. help!

2007-01-23 14:41:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

will ull like a guy with a good sense of humour ,who is wheatish,tall ,good sense of dressing ,honest ,but the only problem is he is very shy ,and very introward.... just wanted to know this !!!

2007-01-23 14:41:10 · 26 answers · asked by (omplExity _|_ 1 in Singles & Dating

what exactly is a girls pregnancy cycle like that when is she vulnerable to pregnancy and when is she not

2007-01-23 14:41:09 · 5 answers · asked by bill m 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it so hard to look a woman in the eyes when she is wearing a low cut shirt? Can't you have some respect?

2007-01-23 14:40:32 · 14 answers · asked by Lauren_Ann20 5 in Singles & Dating

i met my love before 1year..he is a very well behaved n good natured person.but,he is 10 years older than me..working in a multinational,at a good postion.but i am still doing my engineering..i need atleast 3-4 years to shape my career.he wants to marry me.he is even ready to wait for me.but,i cant marry him bcoz i want to achieve something in life.he made me realise this that love is not everything n says that he would always be here for me.we both have thought about it n concluded that its better to part.but,i love him so much..but.practically,our marriage will mess up everyhng..so should i let him go???

2007-01-23 14:40:29 · 9 answers · asked by ruprekhawati 3 in Singles & Dating

I didn't press charges. He came back, told me that he left me due to I was too nice of a person. (I cared for him during a rare disease that left him paralyzed, shortly after marriage, sticking by him for 10 years.) He wanted to know the name of the perfume I always wore, so he could buy it for HER. He sold his truck just after getting with her and saved his trucks floor mats that I had bought him and told her that they were from a good friend, after she asked why he did not sale them with the truck. He gave me half the money from the truck. He also asked if I would file our taxes jointly without her knowing and could he have my popular stuffing recipe. I did not give him anything and told him to get lost and completed the divorce myself. Our divorce was final 3 months after they married. I am long since over him regardless of what anyone might think but I am still stumped by his actions. Please explain your theory and why.

2007-01-23 14:40:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

LOL my dad sent me flowers in october after my operation ( im 20 ) and he was joking the other day saying no one sends him flowers and i thinking it would be kinda nice to send him some just as a thank you and a nice gift from daddys girl... what kind of flowers would you send and what colour?? and maybe even if i should... do woman send men flowers hahaha ??

2007-01-23 14:39:30 · 8 answers · asked by a b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i REALLLY want to help my guy friend right now. BUT I DONT KNOW HOW AND WHAT TO TELL HIM. okay here`s his problem; he`s been in many relationships that have failed. He broke up with most of his girlfriends and now he blames himself for breaking a lot of hearts because one of his exes is still sadly in love with him. he also likes this girl a lot, and i they both like each other BUT he`s too afraid to have a relationship with her. WHAT CAN I TELL HIM? he`s afraid of being with anyone right now!

2007-01-23 14:39:19 · 2 answers · asked by asdfghjkl 1 in Singles & Dating

He works off shore, and I don't see him much. I'm driving down to his house the weekend before V-Day, and I have no idea what to get him, or what to do. Should I bake cookies before I go down there or something? I wanted to do something special for him because I'm just so proud of what he's doing with his life right now.

I have no idea what he has planned for me, but I still want to be sure I do something special too.

Thanks!

2007-01-23 14:38:06 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 14:37:49 · 2 answers · asked by jo 5 in Singles & Dating

i am a very quiet person but and i seem invisible in class! everyone is talking and laughing in class! so i decided to try to make friend i started talking and people just igonored me or put me down . i think it's my personality any advice?

2007-01-23 14:37:26 · 20 answers · asked by jesuslives 1 in Friends

2007-01-23 14:37:17 · 20 answers · asked by geese 1 in Singles & Dating

When I was in high school I had a b/f for 2 yrs...We broke up and remained friends after he joined the military...Then I met a second guy and we dated for 2 yrs...During the time we were together there were many times I missed the b/f prior to him even though I cared for him. Well, now the second b/f and I have also broke up and I met an absolutely wonderful guy. It is like we are meant for each other, but now I sometimes find myself thinking about the other two (whom I have remained friends with). When ever I see my last b/f I start crying uncontrolably. The funny thing is I am not a crier by any means nor do I have a desire to be with him! What on earth is wrong with me????I am afraid that if things don't work out with the new guy he will just be another emotional attachment on my list!!

2007-01-23 14:36:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have had a guy as a best friend since the summer before our sixth grade year. He used to be a very cute little boy, now at 17 he's turned into a hunk. I would like to now what to do, since I want to tell him, but at the same time I don't... Is this normal or is it just a phase.

2007-01-23 14:36:41 · 2 answers · asked by Booboo doll 1 in Friends

my parents say i can't go out unless it's with a group and would it be embarrasing to say if he asked me out "yes i would but i can only go with a group." i have asked him 2 dances and my b'day party but either he's in trouble or he can't 4 some reason. is he using me just because he wants a girlfriend or does he really like me?

2007-01-23 14:36:03 · 18 answers · asked by GaBbY 2 in Singles & Dating

I realize that a cash bar is considered to be in bad taste. Do you think people would be disapointed if there was free wine and non-alcholic beverages? (Punch, Pop etc.) but no hard liquor?

2007-01-23 14:35:57 · 17 answers · asked by July Wedding Girl 2 in Weddings

I confronted my bf about being a pathological liar by sending him a text message since he was not answering his phone. He responded the next day but made no mention of my text. He went on to describe how he was doing a photography job (that I know is made up) but didn't even bring up what I said. Is he just pretending this will go away? I am considering us broken up now.

2007-01-23 14:35:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so it all started in 3rd period and this guy was just kidding and he said "what does you name start with" and i said very funny it starts with an A and then J.D said yeah A is for Asshole and i said excuse me and then he said oh c'mon anna you have to admit it your sometimes an asshole and i said ummm no i'm not and then he said well hmm maybe once or twice and then i said well hmm j is for jerk face and then he said well i'd rather be that instead of an asshole!!! So yeah i really want him to be my friend again and well he's really nice and i don't know why he said i was an asshole because 99% of the school thinks i'm the nicest girl ever so i don't know what to do!!! Any ideas???

2007-01-23 14:35:13 · 2 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2 in Friends

We have been together for 3 1/2 years and i dont know what to do for Valentines day. I wannna do something sweet and special that he will always remeber i just dont know what. so please if you have any advice feel free to let me know. thank you.

2007-01-23 14:35:05 · 5 answers · asked by RAZZEL-DAZZEL 3 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering what I should get my girlfriend for valentines day. We're both freshmen in college, and everything is going really well, and we both love each other deeply, but I'm not sure what I should get her.

I wasn't sure since it was our first valentines day if I should get her something like flowers and chocolate, or lingerie, or bath & body stuff. At first I was planning on getting her a diamond heart pendant, or something like that, but I wasn't sure if that would be setting the bar too high for the future, and I should wait to give expensive jewelry.

So if people could give me some idea of what sounds appropriate or give me links to some good gift ideas that would be wonderful. Money isn't too important, but probably under $200 total, unless it's really nice.

Thanks so much!

2007-01-23 14:34:30 · 4 answers · asked by greeneggs4spam 3 in Singles & Dating