i am a very quiet person but and i seem invisible in class! everyone is talking and laughing in class! so i decided to try to make friend i started talking and people just igonored me or put me down . i think it's my personality any advice?
2007-01-23 14:37:26 · 20 answers · asked by jesuslives 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
im sorry but just from your name I can already tell that I wouldn't hang with you.
2007-01-23 14:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by Du_Fromage 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, I am going to tell you right now, do not listen to what some of the other people wrote (talking to the girl who commented about your name). Its people like that you don't even wanna bother to try to have as your friends. But I honestly wouldn't worry about it. Try to get into sports or clubs. Think about the things you enjoy and let that surround you. If you only be yourself, that is when people will see you for you, and want to be friends. Always remember to be confident too!! Don't let anyone step on you either. True friends are hard to find, don't rush things and keep your head up! You seem very sweet, and I am sure that you will get friends soon!! Good Luck!
2007-01-23 14:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best advice to you is to be yourself. If there is some kind of hobby that you enjoy, try to find other classmates that might enjoy it too. Whether it is band, dance team, or tennis, etc. High School can be tough. Most people don't find their true friends until college. At least I know I didn't. Just remember to care for yourself first. Your own achievements in life are the most important, friends will come. It also might be in your best interest to talk to a psychiatrist, or your schools counselor. They are there to help.
2007-01-23 14:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by Tara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being very quiet could be part of it, but you need to find people who have the same interest in the things you do. Use humor maybe. Smile alot, people like people who are happy from my experiences. you can't tell a person how to make friends it comes naturally. Don't change anything about yourself, be happy, and if people don't like you it is there loss. Good luck and just have fun being you
2007-01-23 14:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey!
i had the same problem, but then i started talking to people and making friends. and now i have a lot.
so i think that you should talk more in class. like talk to people beside you and ask them about something. like start a converstion. (ex: hey that assamble was so boring, i would have fallen asleep). like start a converstion like that.
or when the teacher asks questions, answer them often and don't be shy. just speak what u want people to hear. and join more programs on your school.
so i hope that helped you!! "! ^-^
2007-01-23 14:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by irgadarimas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach people. I know it is kind of shallow, but i would never approach the new girl. I have friends and like to focus on them. But if she approached me, I would say hi and let her hang out with us for while. If I liked her then I would be happy to have her in 'the group.' If i dont she will get the idea. I am sorry honey, but its real life. All you need to do is like... well... find someone who appriciates you talent, abilities, ect.
2007-01-23 14:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love your name! lol anyways just try to become closer with just one of the students and follow them around and at lunch i try to start a conversation things like American Idol, America's Next top model or even a recent news event. After starting the conversation things will start to shift towards different topics, when that happens i try to make some kind of joke about it, not like rude or anything just like haha. I think you know what i mean. lol after that you just try to let your light shine through you and show them the real you. you know what i mean. anyways i have to go, my granddad made some cornbread and turnip greens.
Good luck, and God bless,
2007-01-23 14:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by Juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time you'll have a friend sooner or later. Just have hope and maybe look for people who have the same personality as you. You should be yourself! And don't change yourself! Your special the way you are!
2007-01-23 14:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by ღGirly Gurlღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a group, play a sport, etc. Common interests are a way to bond. When you get older, you'll do the same thing at your job or in community organizations, etc.
2007-01-23 14:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all dont be quiet! and sit by people who talk a lot and talk to them they will listen when u want to be heard. so dont be so nice and quiet thats one reason u dont have friends. oh yeah be ur self dont try to be someone else that ur not kk? if u want u can talk to me at dads.girl@sbcglobal.net
kk?
2007-01-23 15:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, if they dont like you then thats their loss. Just move on and talk to others, someone will enjoy your company and that is the sort of friends you want!
Good Luck
2007-01-23 14:42:04 · answer #11 · answered by yahoooooooooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋