i REALLLY want to help my guy friend right now. BUT I DONT KNOW HOW AND WHAT TO TELL HIM. okay here`s his problem; he`s been in many relationships that have failed. He broke up with most of his girlfriends and now he blames himself for breaking a lot of hearts because one of his exes is still sadly in love with him. he also likes this girl a lot, and i they both like each other BUT he`s too afraid to have a relationship with her. WHAT CAN I TELL HIM? he`s afraid of being with anyone right now!
2007-01-23 14:39:19 · 2 answers · asked by asdfghjkl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He might want to be more picky about his relationships.. He needs to know himself better so he can know better what qualities he wants in a girl.. when he knows that he wont just start a relationship with anyone but with someone that really fill his needs emotionally and mentally.... and that increases the chances the relationship will last and he will find real love.
I also think if he has girls so in love with him and end up braking hearts he might be bit of a player.. so he really needs to be honest to himself ("do i really like this girl?" before giving fake hopes to the girls), only when he is honest with himself he can be honest with others.
I think you should tell him he cant just stop trying to find love in his life... cause he might miss the chance that finding that real one... i just think he really gotta check those things I told you before about himself before starting another relationship.
Good luck.
2007-01-23 14:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by Aija 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's afraid to be with anyone, now is not the time for him to be dating. You should just tell him to take his time and sort it all out. Remind him that if he needs to talk, you are more than happy to listen.
2007-01-23 22:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋