I took my daughter with me away from south to north cali because I can't handle how tight the life with my husband's family, my parents in law are so controlling and his sis involve our privacy. I asked him to move out 5 mins. away and he said no. My family needs help from me. He's neglecting me when I try to have a conversation and also our marriage life, didn't let me hold him, didn't touch or kiss me for a month. WHen he needs it, just tell me to do wat he wants and that's it, don't touch me at all. He called me and begging us to go back, he really miss his daughter and sorry, he'll try his best to make me happy. He said just come back and in a few months he'll ask his parents to move.He promised to move to the city which is 1 hr away as I asked him, of course he'll take his family. I told him at least i can go to my family when I'm not happy if only 1 hr away. I have no friend in LA and six hrs away how can I take my 4 month old alone with no car? Can i trust him? thanx
2007-01-23 14:44:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
should we seek to marriage counselor? he acepted to go. how can we search for marriage counselor wit no charge?
2007-01-23 14:53:20 · update #1
Do not trust him.
He is only telling you what you want to hear now that you got out of there.
Good Luck
2007-01-23 14:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would deffently try to find any means of help, professional or whatever. If you love him I would at least give him a chance. Try your best to stand up to him for what you think is right though. Let him know how you feel, in complete honesty. Let him tell you his point of view too... try to see each others side, then look at both from the outside. (This always seems to help me when I feel that me and my husban need to work something out.) For little to no cost help, try the net! Seems like you can find anything on here!! (c: But I wish you all the best of luck in all you do. Many Blessings!
2007-01-23 15:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems he's only saying things to appease you right now. Do what your intuition tells you, your child is very very important in this situation and usually the mother's know what is best for the baby.
2007-01-23 14:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by masterscribe888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't trust him. He doesn't care at all about your feelings. You're out now, stay out. He won't change, he's always going to put his family first.
2007-01-23 14:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will ask his family to move? That won't work, You know they won't. Instead he has to agree to move away from them.
2007-01-23 14:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋