I didn't press charges. He came back, told me that he left me due to I was too nice of a person. (I cared for him during a rare disease that left him paralyzed, shortly after marriage, sticking by him for 10 years.) He wanted to know the name of the perfume I always wore, so he could buy it for HER. He sold his truck just after getting with her and saved his trucks floor mats that I had bought him and told her that they were from a good friend, after she asked why he did not sale them with the truck. He gave me half the money from the truck. He also asked if I would file our taxes jointly without her knowing and could he have my popular stuffing recipe. I did not give him anything and told him to get lost and completed the divorce myself. Our divorce was final 3 months after they married. I am long since over him regardless of what anyone might think but I am still stumped by his actions. Please explain your theory and why.
2007-01-23 14:40:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like the old grass greener on the other side theory. Looked great at the time but the longer he is there he is realizing what he had with you. He just plain out doesnt want to let go and commit fully to what he chose. probably didnt really want to in the first place. If he did he would not need anything or any contact with you. In other words, HE cant let go! Silly, isnt it?!
On another note- I know sometimes people dont give enough info but i was more referring to the people that give some totally off and wrong answer that is inconcievable to any one that has a slight clue! Not even the ones that are just being smart asses or just plain guessing! Like recieving an answer from a surfing instructor about an electrical question. If you are a do it yourself person as your title says, im sure you have come across some questions that the answers are from people trying to be real but you want to scream and say "NO! DONT DO THAT! WHAT ARE YOU THINKING!" Lighten up!
By the way, can I watch you stick a potato into a 220 volt light fixture? Now thats entertainment!
2007-01-25 09:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by ender3113 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl you ready . . . he is NOT LEGALLY MARRIED TO HER. You can't legally marry if you are married to another person at the time of the second marriage. It's called bigamy. And his attempt ot conspire with you to defraud the federal govt (file jointly) is a major crime. I hope you had a lawyer for your divorce b/c you could have gotten some money from him - including all the money you spent on him when he was sick. Why don't you go mess him up already and show him what a "too nice girl" can do when a not so nice jerk goes too far.
2007-01-23 14:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way ur guna win him back is by moving on and acting like he dont man squat to you, cuz thats how he is treating u. The change in u will turn him on cuz every man wants something he cant have, thats why he is with her now....but by the time u notice he is done with her n interested in the new u, u may love urself n the new you more than he could ever love you n ur kids! U have to believe u are worth more n deserve more if u want a guy to give u more, and by him doing this to you, i doubt he will ever give u more than the superficial and never anything stable or trustworthy... Good luck n please remember that he is not really what u want, u just think he is right now. U need time to gain ur self esteem back from the mental n emotional beating he gave you and get ur life back together without him...he WILL want u back one day- I just hope u dont want him!!!!!!!!!
2016-03-28 23:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a sadistic ******. And saying that he left you because you were too nice of a person is stupid and pathetic. You're SO much better off without him. By the way, their "marriage" isn't legal, because he wasn't divorced from you. She's going to be in for a rude awakening when he kicks the bucket, and she doesn't get Jack Diddley because she's not legally his wife.
2007-01-23 14:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. My guess would be that he wanted some things to remember you by, and that he really liked the perfume and recipe. He probably does still have feelings for you, just not love. Glad to hear that you are over him. Enjoy your new life, and don't spend much time trying to figure him out, you'll get a headache.
2007-01-23 14:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by Dfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u cared about him so much, he should not have left. You loved him. You did not deserve that at all.
You should not worry about it now. You are divorced. You have your own life to live. So live it...There are more fish in the sea.
(GET ANOTHER, BETTER MAN) Make him realize that there are men out there who still wants you and that you are still the pretty woman you were in your 20's...(Sorry, I don't exactly know how old you are so 20 was a safe guess.)
2007-01-23 14:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mafia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life sounds like a straight to video Billy Bob Thornton movie.
2007-01-23 14:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by ahab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a strong person with a lot of personal courage.
I am sorry I can't really answer your question because there is just no way to explain his actions. It is absolutely ludicrous. I wish my ex was as good as you.
2007-01-23 14:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by KingGeorge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was looking to get the best of all the things.
He still had or has feelings for you and this was his way of holding on to it.
Good Luck in the future.
2007-01-23 14:43:41 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-03 17:25:23 · answer #10 · answered by Lankincte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋