HELP!
2007-01-23 14:45:19 · 18 answers · asked by addisonsmom17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I suggest more, juicier and passionate BJs and whatever else you know floats his boat.
Good luck. Keep us posted ...
2007-01-23 14:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I would get enough information on the website, when he posted his profile up, anything with details. Observe everything w/o confronting him yet. Whenever you confront him you want to have all your information and facts straight. Just step back for a while and observe him and learn more until you feel like you have enough information to confront him. Just make sure he doesn't have any excuses cause if you don't ask the right question a person can easily lie out of it so just make sure you have your facts straight. Then after the observation you should confront him, nothing to confrontational. Just sit him down and ask him if he would like to tell you anything. If he says no, than specify 'anything in regards to a web-site'. Try to give him the benefit of a doubt that he might open up. If he denies than show him the proof and let him explain. Than whichever way it goes from there, idunno. Just make sure that you ask yourself if you would stay with him if you found out if he did post it up. Do some self inventory. Once you find out what you need from him than take the necessary steps. I hope that helps, Take care and God Bless.
2007-01-23 23:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by Truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hardest time for a man and the true test of his character is after the birth of a child. The wife is totally involved with the child and being a perfect "Mother". The husband has to "take Care" of himself. You should let him know that taking care of himself is great and you will even help.....:) Most women aren't into sex for a few monthes if not 6 to 9 monthes. This is impossible for a man.... really. Every man wants a wife, no man wants to come home to a Mommy...yeck. You have to talk to him and and give it up.... like a wife. Women don't realize that men NEED IT. We like the children, but we really NEED IT.
Now the dating website is really bad, and he is a pig. Let him know what a pig he is and make him use condoms. Have him give you his passwords to his email and his phone. If he won't then looks like he is gone over to the dark side. If you still want him, give him back his wife.
2007-01-23 23:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd do one of two things.
1 - confront him and ask!
2. Get your name on the same dating site and hope he picks you!
Seriously - number 1 and soon!
This is typical of many new dads - l... husbands feel totally neglected after baby is born because the wife is now the mom.... a little neediness comes in... especially if the sex is tuned down. Baby gets all the attention that husband used to get... or he's just fantasizing... but even that...
Talk FAST!
Good luck....
2007-01-23 22:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by teritaur 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the Church of Scientology tell them what has happened, then ask them how to approach your husband. Then do some courses with him at the Organisation which will find out what is causing this behaviour which they will be able to clear the problem and you both can get back into living happy again.
2007-01-23 23:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by Tonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT confront him. Make a copy of his profile and make an appointment with a family law attorney. Get a divorce, show the judge what he's doing and get all the child support you can get. Keep the house, keep the car, and get half of his retirement.
Make sure you get child support past the kid's 18th birthday if they are enrolled in a university.
Good luck. No second chances.
2007-01-23 22:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by Marianimal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that each of us fantasize about sex with others but doesn't mean we will do it. Leave the man alone. If you confront him you make him leave, Do not ever give him an ultimatum. Its always a bad idea.
Drop it, just because we drive by the car dealer and look at a car doesn't mean we are going to buy it.
2007-01-23 23:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by gimlost2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post an add on the same site, and then use it all to your advantage. Hit on him, flirt with him, tease him....do everything possible. Then, arrange a date to meet him somewhere, have someone watch your baby, and you go meet him, and see what will come out of that !!!
2007-01-23 23:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by pressman22001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry to hear this. This sounds like a difficult situation.
Either approach him on it and let him know you found his profile, or put your profile up there and let him discover you, and he can see what it feels like.
Hopefully the two of you will work it out and maybe getting some couples therapy.
good luck
2007-01-23 22:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! He is such a jerk! That is terrible, I think just have it out with him over it.... I think better off to be up front, as he is not.... If he is thinking about doing the nasty with someone else. Some men tend to feel left out after the birth of their child.... maybe he thinks its not going to get better?
2007-01-23 23:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by Eve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him this is his only warning (once! and then tell him why even though you caught him with the goods) and if her persist in such behavior you will own him (by divorcing and taking as much as you can). Good luck!
2007-01-23 22:54:24 · answer #11 · answered by beamer 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋