(women)
how many women allow their man to look at/watch p o r n? how many find it disgusting? disrespectful and degrading to the women?? does anyone support it?
(men)
what makes you want to look at/watch p o r n? how many of you support it, do it, and why?? how many of you don't support, don't do it, and why? do you think females have a reason to find it disgusting, degrading, and disrespectful?
just curious because my fiance told me it was normal but I think it's disrespectful. It make me feel like he would rather have one of them satisfy him than me. anyone else out there feel the same?
2007-01-23 14:16:14 · 12 answers · asked by kaiyas_mom07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As a 59 year old man, I find porn to be silly, inane, and ask why would anyone want to watch other people do it??? Men are visual creatures--we have to see stuff...that is a stimulation factor for some men. Of course it is a cop-out also. I don't watch porn, but I watch fishing shows--that is just as boring and frustrating--watching someone else catch fish I'll never catch. The porn people are just turning it out for the profit---the girls are only on the screen--not really looking at the men sitting home watching it.I suppose you already had the conversation a million times with your fiance. He probably will stop when he sees how silly it is. Walk in and say "WOW look at the dick on that guy" --I'll bet he turns it off. Seriously, ignore it. It is all the things you say it is and he will continue to watch---what else can you do?? But he is with you and that's what matters---good luck
2007-01-23 14:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would I allow it? I guess so since I don't own my spouse. Do I approve? No, not really. I guess it would make me feel a little jealous thinking they felt the need to watch porn when they could be doing me instead. Maybe make me feel like I wasn't enough. I guess I'm lucky that my guy doesn't really care about porn. He might watch it if he were at a bachelors party, but he would never bring it home. If he did, I would let him know it bothered me and why. After that it would be up to him to decide if he wanted to watch it. I might even hold-out for a couple of days if he did bring it home...but again...in the end it's still his decision and I can't make him do or not do something.
2007-01-23 22:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by THP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have a different way of thinking about pornography than women do. It's no big deal unless it is the kind of porn where people are hurt or killed.
It isn't that he likes porn better than he likes you. He enjoys it like you enjoy a chick flick that requires a box of tissues.
Talk to him. Let him know how you feel and work out a way for both of you to be satisfied with when and how much he watches.
2007-01-23 22:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well men have hormones and they easily get appeled by the curves and the body of a women. The appetite of lust so to speak. I used to look at it but i dont want to go back it just makes me feel awful and stuupid after i do it
2007-01-23 22:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by popstar452003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband isn't interested in it and I am really happy about that.
We have our own fun and I don't feel like I have to compete with anyone. That makes me a happy girl. I certainly wouldn't want my daughter doing it, so I pretty much think it is nasty. I don't respect women or men that would have sex for money.
2007-01-23 22:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by BeenWatchin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would watch it with him. I wouldn't like it if he was doing it all the time or if it was getting in the way of our sex life. But if he does it once in a while I wouldn't care. I don't feel threatened by it, because it's fantasy. It has nothing to do with me.
2007-01-23 22:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hot chickes naked, doin stuff our girlfriends would never do, i support it cuz it a business and it gives me pleasure, i guess they do to some extent but u shouldnt take it too far. since its a problem with u and ur fiance dont ask him about it and u wont have to hear about it.
2007-01-23 22:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by LaidBack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't say i love the idea that he watches porn, but they do stuff that i won't it's just a fantacy, i guess it's normal, in small doses, now if he's missing work to watch it you've got pproblems,
2007-01-23 22:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm maybe its one of the deepest desires of men .... mostly its the kids who watch dese things cause its the last secret in their lives tht is revieled !!!! its kinda normal for growing up kids ... but i have no idea y adults watch it
2007-01-23 22:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by (omplExity _|_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being married 17 years me and my wife both watch porn from time to time..it incresses our sexualle relasonship
2007-01-23 22:21:49 · answer #10 · answered by all we want is a 1 nite stand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋