I think I finally figured it out, what it takes to be happily married. Following are the two most imp things to look for before chosing a partner (ofcourse among other small things).
1. The person should be cheerful, someone who wants to enjoy life's little pleasures
2. You should have similar interests, so you can do things together
Eventually most marriages end up the same way! No more sex, partners hardly talk, the fun time is over and its arguments and responsibilities! But if the other person has a smile on his her face and has a sense of humor, it makes life easier. Also, if you are able to go skiing together or try new cuisines together, it builds the relationship, builds camaraderie!
I can provide more details, but just think about it. What matters at the end of the day?
I have been married for 2 years! I knew my husband 3 years before we got married! And now its only a compromise!
2007-01-23 14:46:56 · 5 answers · asked by sweetpoison 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ofcourse you grow together!
What do you do if one person is adventorous and the other is not! This is just one example! But I am open to new ideas, maybe you can share your opinion, of what you think is important!
2007-01-23 15:08:20 · update #1
You're definitely on the right path somewhat.
I think the person should be naturally upbeat, an optimist, and who is open to almost anything.
Also, the person should be truthful and selfless.
Similar interests are overrated, everybody needs their alone time, even the happiest of couples.
2007-01-23 15:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Similiar interests is over-rated. Better to have a partner how is continually growing that you keep finding out is amazing and interesting over and over.
I'd be bored to death if I married myself. Might as well be single.
Put your thinking cap back on.
2007-01-23 14:53:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to be cheerful when you have to work and cook and clean and do laundry, dishes and take care of the kids all by yourself. While your special husband only has to work and sit on his a** and watch you do it all.
2007-01-23 14:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is different for each couple out there....too many similarities can cause frustration....too few...feelings of neglect...I have a difficult time myself....
But...it goes on .....I guess love keeps it going....I Hope!!
2007-01-23 14:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
somewhat feasible but not completely true for the most part
2007-01-23 15:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋