i always give o***l sex to my 2 years boyfriend.he doesn't want to do it to me????

Question

he done it to me about 3 times in 2 years he is muslim. when i'm down there and its time for him to do it he always goes to the next step.

i know i am very clean anddelicious. believe me.

Answer 1

He does not value your needs and wants and he isn't going to change. You are property, a playtoy to him. Dump his self-centered azz and find a man who respects you and cares about your pleasure too.

Answer 2

I wish I had your answer because my question is exactly the same. He just goes around the subject and on to the next step. I am squeeky clean in and out and absolutely delicious - so what's going on? I thought all men would appreciate this offering but perhaps not?

Answer 3

Please!!!!!!!!!!!! read what normal guys has answered to you, you see what muslims does? they use people specially women, even in their own race or religion they use women, so forget it even if you convert you are just nothing for this MAN.
I encourage you to separated NOW of this man before is late!!! im telling you,
read my questions about panick attacks, anxiaty and other, in my questions, i am a woman with a muslim for 5 years and this one it could be nice sometimes, but that quit all when they are violent and other things.
This guy is not only using you, is abusing you, is destroying you , mental and phsycall, don't believe what they say, for them that is nasty too so he defently has put you in the list of one of this whores, who can see most of the time cause you are bf and gf.
Even if is ok for you, you by now has been brain washed like he did, to me, really think deep inside you if is OK for you, you will find out that is not.

Answer 4

If u r not satisfied with his answers then u have to distance urself from him till the time he can give u some solid answer. If he loves u but does not want to have sex with the u should either question urself whether r u in a position that u can excite him. Or it is some psychological problem with him and u need some serious help immediately.

Answer 5

If he won't, it could be for many reasons. But they all pale against one (especially if you are clean and delicious! lol): as a Muslim man he probably has an image of what a man is in his head that he uses, uncounciously of course, to form his likes/dislikes and particular ways of behaving.

Sex is very much a mental thing laid over the physical side of things. If his image of "man" demands he only do certain things with you, ones in which he feels very much in control and largely like a master of you, then no matter how delicious you are, he will probably never again do it to you. There's mastery and glory in having your face buried in his lap or rising above you while impaled inside you and it's easy to feel "large and in charge" while doing these things. Not so easy when it's HIS head buried in YOUR lap. (Oddly, a man is actually QUITE in control at those times.)

Sure, it's easy for some to suggest dumping his sorry butt, but I imagine it's more complicated for you. Sounds like you love him and you've had two presumably good years so that's just glib talk. I would ask you if you think he does have an image like that AND if he values it more than you? See, if the answer to the second part is no, then you can work with it.

Assuming it is no, then to work with that image problem, address it in terms of caring for you and your needs, of expressing love: and opening himself to a wider range of ways to do these things. Do NOT tug at him, push at him, attack his manhood by belittling his skills or range as friends or frustration might demand you do. That approach will certainly set him furiously in place. It would attack not just his image of "man" but more importantly his sense of self. He will dig in and never budge. Muslim men love their wives and children like anyone else and truly do want to do the best for them. Appeal to that and prepare for a long haul. Muslim men may have this image difficulty in much greater percentages than, say, redneck men, or not, but it is not being Muslim that is the problem. It is being scummy, being a taker, being wonderfully happy your society accepts you even though you use, abuse and generally destroy those closest to you that is the trouble and that seems present in linebackers, Muslims, gangbangers, etc.

So I'm saying if you want it to work, want to be with him, try appealing to his sense of caring for you and your needs. If you are willing to move on and this is just symptomatic of that, then just do so. But most of all, if a careful look shows him to be a taker, and to be scummy toward you in many things, then dump him regardless and move on.

Good luck, stay delicious, and press on with life.

Answer 6

leave him. he is a selfish pig. you want to look forward to this all your life? NO WAY.... don't let him give you that religion crap, he is a lousy lover and you are wasting your time with him. find a man that appreciates a good woman and good o..l sex. Good sex is giving from both partners. 2 years?? why waste any more time.

Answer 7

Trust me on this one. If he's not going to get you off and then wants to have sex, put the brakes on. Don't let him use your body like that. If he wants it he has to give it to you too. 4 play first.

Answer 8

actually muslims believe it is improper to do that.
simple answer to ur question do not do it any longer.. u can't always get ur cake and eat it too

Answer 9

I would tell him what is good for the goose is good for the gander. Let him know that you enjoy it as much as he does, and you would like it more often. Another way to get your point across..is when he wants you to do him, tell him..."you first".

Answer 10

does your smell?