I'm a 24 year old male college guy. During the dinner party at a cousins wedding, my table (of young college aged strangers) started talking about relationships they had in the past - boyfriends/girlfriends, sex, ect. They mentioned the worst and best relationships theyve have ever had.
The ball came to me and I told the people at my table, who were a little tipsy, that I never ever dated, never had a girlfriend, or ever had sex. Subsequently, the table became very quiet. Afterwards, they talked amongst themselves and no one else talked to me the rest of the night. They were giving me weird looks, rolling their eyes the rest of the night. I think that the people were embarrassed to associate with me.
It's not my fault that I grew up to only 5'5". Its not my fault that girls subconsciously see me as a "cripple" due to my height. I tried talking with girls in the past but its no use. I trying to learn to accept to being a virgin and single for life.
Are there many like me?
2007-01-23 14:59:47 · 9 answers · asked by Nietzsche 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it's sweet. It shows an innocence about you.
I'm sorry for your pain.
2007-01-25 12:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. So don't be conscientious about that.
Height can be a factor for not getting play. Life isn't fair is it?
But look at me I'm only 5'6 and I get play all the time. The key is to have wit, be charismatic, learn to carry a conversation and learn to have a good time.
If women enjoy your company they will want to be with you regardless of height. If your a fun guy to be around, they'll notice if you're not at the party.
If you have a great personality, women will learn to see you as 6 feet tall. Money is also an equalizer. Money can make you look 6 feet tall too but for all the wrong reasons.
Talent is sexiest of all. Let your talent be your personality. Just let your personality shine and women will come knocking at your door. Good luck.
2007-01-23 20:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're unique. I also think u r not weird. I wish I was a virgin at 24. Nothing is wrong with being 5'5. That's how GOD made u and u can never change that. Your friends should be jealous that u r a virgin. Having sex is a step. It seems like u don't have confidence. U won't be single 4 life. One day you'll meet the right person that u will spend your life with.
*Good luck*
2007-01-23 15:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by TrayLuvsJay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bud, I hate to be blunt, but here it goes. Being a virgin at 24 is not that bad. One of my sisters friends was a virgin until 26 and she is just fine, and normal. You are not looked upon as a cripple if you are 5'5" i know plenty of people that are short. There are also even more girls out there who are shorter than you. If you want to get a date you are going to have to start believeing in yourself and getting some confidence. YOu need to step into the dating scene with optimism. If a girl notices that you are negative, shes not going to approach you. If you want to start dating with the "i can always commit suicide" thought in you head, you are not going to have any luck. Get a grip. There are so many people out there that are worse off then you. Think about people that are actually crippled. Or paralyzed. Think about people who are blind and all they see is dark. Or people who cannot hear anything. How easy do you think it is for them to find dates. YOu need to realize that you are not that badly off. So next time you start sinking into self pity think about other people that have it worse than you. THen maybe you will realize that its not worth taking your life.
2007-01-25 15:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by BlondeboarderBabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just need some friends. I am interested in talking with you. You are the first intelligent person I have read post from in quite awhile. I have been in the same frame of mind before, but managed to move past it, suicide is not the answer. It is just an ending to a brilliant mind. lets talk...deflepfan67@yahoo.com
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2007-01-25 12:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by deflepfan67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your short isnt the reason you are still a virgin. One of my friend's in high school had a dad who was 5'5'' and a mom who was 5'2''. Find a shorter girl. A shy girl preferably.
2007-01-23 16:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by stampadhesive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear your story, you obviously lack self confidence, i dont think its strange that you have never had sex or even a date, you are still young, the problem with the youth today, its like a competition to see who has the most girlfriends and sex, i dont see the point in it myself, you are unique and you will find a girl that will adore you, keep your chin up and hang in there
2007-01-25 13:10:46 · answer #7 · answered by rusty red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with that at all ..... in some cultures it's preferable to stay a virgin until married so you would fit right in .... as for us horny americans, we don't need a partner to be fulfilled cause we have batteries or electricity to play with .
Relax and be nice to yourself , we can't rely on others all the time to fix our problems, in fact they might not be a problem at all.... think about it
2007-01-25 12:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask some people out, they may say yes, if they do you will be much happyer
2007-01-23 16:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by alex m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋