why my husband is never agree with me?

Question

My husband and i we're argue almost about everything.. and i am mostly right about everything what i said he'll always dissagree, how can i make him stop doing that if he is afraid to admit that i am right he can not say anything...why argue all the time i am gettin tired of it......???

Answer 1

I hate to admit it, but men often do not listen well — which means they often misunderstand the things others say. I'd bet he actually agrees with your point during many arguments, but he just isn't listening enough to grasp what you are really saying. That's why, rude as it sounds, the best way to get him to focus on your words at those times is to use your fists. Even if some men don't so hear well, trust me, they all get the message when somebody say KERWWAMMM upside they head. You don't need to worry about hurting him (in fact, the male skull is so thick you've got to hit him hard as you can or he won't even notice), and frankly, this may be the only way to get him to listen, really listen, to what you're laying down. No need to worry about him hitting you back, because a man can never hit a woman. And you'll be amazed how good it feels to have his undivided attention! So, next time your old man thinks he wants to argue, you just haul off and bust him a good one right in his no-listening nose and see how he likes that. I guarantee you he'll be all ears then, and you can say what you need to say without any of his lip. This may very well be the only way to save this marriage.

Answer 2

welll you can be right or you can be married. Is it really THAT important to be right all the time?

And sweetheart... if you haven't learned it yet... learn it now... we women can't *make* men do anything. You canNOT change them no matter what any one tells you. What you see is what you get. Let go the control darlin.

LET IT GO!! A Dr Phil would say... "How's it workin for ya?" Clearly it ain't or you wouldn't be asking right?

Don't argue. YOU stop arguing first and it will lighten you up. Especially since you say you're tired of it. So just S-T-O-P!!
Trust me.

Answer 3

Don't argue, in fact say nothing at all. When your husband asks why aren't you talking tell him I don't know when he gets pist cause you won't tell him say nothing. After a while when he begs you to tell him say I would rather not argue and leave it at that. Go into a shell of sorts make him think about how it hurts you and he'll change believe me he'll change. Above all give him no sex during this time!

Answer 4

My question is how do you know you are right most of the time. Most arguments are over opinions. Generally, no ones opinion is necessarily right or wrong, it is an opinion.

Now, if you say 2-1=1, and he says it is three, then, ok, he is wrong. But, most of the time people don't argue over those sorts of things. If you have differeing opinions, who cares. Married people don't have to agree on everything.

Answer 5

You husband is very immature. you do not supply the age of your daughter or your man or woman age. Why are you living mutually with his father and mom? you'll under no circumstances have a chuffed marriage till you insist on getting out of that situation. you should confer mutually with his mom and clarify that you 2 ought to take care of to have a existence of your man or woman. in case you do not pay lease there, you exceedingly a lot ought to enable her allow you to recognize what to do. yet when the toddler is yours, you've each appropriate to inform his mom that you're going to develop your toddler the way you want to. i imagine you should be very youthful, and for this reason are in a poor mess. purely set up your rights and set up your rights as a mom and a spouse like you should.

Answer 6

Well, would you rather be right.... or single? Maybe your need to be right might very well be part of the problem.

I'm betting that he's tired of it too. You have to decide how important is is to bash him into seeing things your way.

Good luck. You have either a nasty divorce or some uncomfortable changes ahead of you.

Answer 7

ok girl we have the same old problem, i do like not ans. him back i go out out of his sight like if hes on the living room ill go to our bedroom or lock ur self to the comfortroom. Im telling you his also a ******.One thing i do is to write him a letter about how i felt on some issues, why not try that,coz i tried sitting down and talk things out but we end up fighting.goodluck girl

Answer 8

Then just quit the arguing, and do not go into the i told you so stage either. State your opinion, allow him to state his and move on.

Answer 9

You should never argue with your husband. Do as he says and agree with him, even if you think he is wrong. He is the man and he knows best and a marriage will never work unless you accept this. Good luck.

Answer 10

Then stop arguing. Let him think he's right sometimes.