this is mainly for guys, although if a girl knows the answer to this, she can answer as well. =]
anyway, guys, what to you find attractive in girls? what do you look for? what are some qualities that you like girls to have? (please, don't be like "sexy and big bo obs!!" give me some REAL answers!)
2007-01-23 16:08:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, that's a tough one to answer. It all depends on the type of guy. Personally I looked for personality, sense of humor, and just the girl being a good person. Looks to me are a plus but it's not what I was after. Unfortunately, there are not many guys like myself out there, and they will be looking for physical attractions. Just be yourself, who you are, and never frown because you never know who is falling in love with your smile. : )
2007-01-23 16:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by se7en_56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't big boobs be an answer? Perhaps you should ask what besides big boobs do guys like in girls. Easy, bubble butts. No I'm just kidding. Well, yes and no, the bubble butt is true. The answer you are looking for is personality. A girl that makes a guy feel right and is not whiny. Flirtive, and a smile. A bit of a challenge is also good. Men don't like girls that are too easy. Rememebr I said a bit of a challenge. Is one thing to play hard to get. Another is to play impossible to get. A bit of fisetiness is also great.
2007-01-24 00:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am probably older than the average Yahooer..but I'll give you an honest answer.
Personality characteristics:
1) Honesty
2) Integrity
3) Sense of Humor
4) Intelligence
5) Compassion
Physical characteristics:
1) Eyes
2) Smile
3) Healthy skin
4) Weight proportional to height (think swimmer's physique)
5) NO TATS or PIERCING (other than ears for earings)
Living by the golden rule is a good place to start if you want to get my attention..... and be good to yourself and trust yourself. Do what you know is right and don't try to be 'cool' or 'popular'.
We all can learn from Mark Twain's adage: "Always tell the truth.....that way you don't have to remember what you said."
2007-01-24 00:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Twainbrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy myself, I have my own standards. These here are based off my standards but girls, listen up and take note!
- Intelligence: a guy appreciates intelligence. If you're smart, he'll see that. He doesn't care about IQ, just as long as you're on his level. If you're smart, he'll see that.
- Looks: Forget "inner beauty is all that matters". In the real world, you got be attractive, to a degree. It's the "bait on the hook". You can't catch any fish without bait. Most guys also like a similiar size, weight and fitness, or smaller.
- Personality: Secure, stable, kind, well grounded, must have a sense of humour. Try to soften up. MUST NOT: screech and b*tch, dominate, get violent, have emotional hangups, act like anyone owes them.
- Trust: Be faithful and don't theaten him or show off any kind strength you have over him. Won't be much of a relationship if either one is afraid of the other.
6 more pointers:
- Blokey/macho chicks are totally unsexy. We'd be gay if we were turned on by simulated testosterone.
- Guys don't want to share a woman with other men unless she's just a plaything (duh).
- Having similar interests help.
- Don't suck his wallet dry
- No "mere male" jokes.
- DON'T go giving your heart if you're not prepared or too insecure to give yourself to the relationship.
Thank you. I hope this helps, and if I ever have a special lady, she won't be one of the self-absorbed "pop culture idiots" like so many others.
2007-01-24 02:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by The Nomad Yokai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i dont now about other gays but I look at there eyes there hair and the lips that is the most intense thing that i realy like.
2007-01-24 00:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am after a girl who likes me. I can't stand it, when I try to be myself to a girl and she just disses me. I like the girl who show attention and talks to me. And who loves to share their feeling with me. Somebody who trusts me. She has to have a good sense of humor.
2007-01-24 00:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Femininity.
2007-01-24 00:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its the confidence behind the look that can always tell in the walk in how you carry your self
2007-01-24 00:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by strawbarrycheey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brains. Smart women are fun to be around with.
2007-01-24 00:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by Meta Irie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are also attracted to other hot guys, so anyway it's all LOOKS--nothing more than that.
2007-01-24 00:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋